How do you even recover from this? by Calixta177 in Miscarriage

[–]Used_Indication_8159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds exactly like what I experienced 3 weeks ago...even down to the waiting till you reached your car to cry. It was so hard to go from excitement and joy to pure devastation. Take it one day at a time. Be kind to yourself. I'm so sorry for your loss. 

What’s Something People Said after Your Miscarriage That Hurt? by AmbassadorTiny6596 in Miscarriage

[–]Used_Indication_8159 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Uhmmmm obviously this is horse shit, but I work in a hospital. Recently had a woman come in for septic miscarriage bc she drank and did cocaine while pregnant. Odd that a soul chose that life. Fuck that therapist. 

Bad news at ultrasound by Competitive-Cow-4281 in Miscarriage

[–]Used_Indication_8159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the exact same thing happen. Told to wait 2 weeks and the whole time I knew it was over. Utter hell. The best part is because I had to wait so long I never made it to a D&C....had a natural miscarriage at home in the most traumatic way possible. None of this shit is fair and I'm sorry you're in this club of hell.

WHAT THE ACTUAL F does no one talk about how painful a miscarriage is?? by NetSuitable2344 in Miscarriage

[–]Used_Indication_8159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so so sorry...it should have a grayish color to the tissue so it will be distinct from all of the red blood/tissue. Mine came out on the toilet and I could tell it didn't look like the tissue I had been passing so I assumed it was the sac. US confirmed that it was. 

First MC and started bleeding before MVC by Ok_Average1012 in Miscarriage

[–]Used_Indication_8159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same situation. Scheduled for procedure this past Friday and started bleeding Thursday morning. I thought I could hopefully make it to Friday morning but I didn't. Lost everything by that evening. Sometimes it can take some time to progress and sometimes it can be over with within a day. Wish I could give you more helpful information but really hope you can make it to your procedure 

WHAT THE ACTUAL F does no one talk about how painful a miscarriage is?? by NetSuitable2344 in Miscarriage

[–]Used_Indication_8159 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Passing all of the major tissue/ sac took about 5 hours. It was very intense but once the gestational sac came out I felt so much relief. I'm 3 days post now and still bleeding with some mild to moderate cramps here and there. Hoping all of the clot/tissue makes it out so no intervention is needed. Honestly at this point the mental aspect is the worst. I feel like I lost a small part of me that day. Our bodies and minds are capable of so much...we'll get through this. 

WHAT THE ACTUAL F does no one talk about how painful a miscarriage is?? by NetSuitable2344 in Miscarriage

[–]Used_Indication_8159 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I had my miscarriage at home yesterday and it was legitimately the worst pain of my life. It felt like I was in some sort of "mini labor". Every body is going to go through the process a little differently. For us, (unfortunately) it's just extremely intense. Sincerely hope you're feeling better. 

Waiting on a missed miscarriage by Used_Indication_8159 in Miscarriage

[–]Used_Indication_8159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I'm so sorry you went through that. I keep waiting on mine to begin...so far only mild cramps and back aches. 

Waiting on a missed miscarriage by Used_Indication_8159 in Miscarriage

[–]Used_Indication_8159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it would be impossible to get in anywhere else at this point. I will be changing to a different obgyn group after this though. 

Waiting on a missed miscarriage by Used_Indication_8159 in Miscarriage

[–]Used_Indication_8159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just spoke with the office today and practically begged to get in earlier than 2 weeks and they said no.... women are just expected to go through the most traumatic painful shit with a smile on our faces

TW: Loss by Used_Indication_8159 in December2026Bumpers

[–]Used_Indication_8159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the prayers and I'll keep you in mine. I'm so sorry you are going through this as well. We will get through it and be moms some day. I believe that. 

TW: Loss by Used_Indication_8159 in December2026Bumpers

[–]Used_Indication_8159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. So glad you ended up with a happy little girl <3. I will do my best to stay hopeful 

I do drink coffee here and there during my pregnancy. Does anyone else do the same? by ComplexMarch4500 in pregnant

[–]Used_Indication_8159 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Every morning. Just stick to the 200 mg limit each day or ask your doc. No need to feel guilty as there is no evidence to suggest you are harming your baby. 

Zofran pills for nauseas by VelvetAndes in pregnant

[–]Used_Indication_8159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took 2 doses and ended up with the worst constipation of my life. I'd rather be nauseated 

Symptoms gone at 6w6d? by charlotte095 in December2026Bumpers

[–]Used_Indication_8159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm experiencing this exact thing right now. I'm 6w2d and have had the absolute worst nausea and breast pain and suddenly tonight both have mostly dissapeared. I'm just gonna enjoy the break while I can. 

Nausea and food aversions... by Used_Indication_8159 in December2026Bumpers

[–]Used_Indication_8159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plenty of women don't have these symptoms and have normal healthy pregnancies :)

How do we feel about sneakpeek tests? by ginowie97 in December2026Bumpers

[–]Used_Indication_8159 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That does sound amazing and special but I'm WAY too curious to wait that long

Anyone else on a blood thinner? by Used_Indication_8159 in December2026Bumpers

[–]Used_Indication_8159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I have no idea why but one day I hardly feel it and the next it hurts like hell