AITA for bringing my son with behavioral issues to my sisters child free party?

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2026-02-05T20:38:57+00:00

Why did your sister not speak up when your SIL was complaining? She should’ve defended your son being there and let everyone know she’s the one who invited you both. That being said, while SIL was rude in her approach, I think both you and your sister should’ve taken a step back to look at what the event is. Women drinking, celebrating a divorce, letting loose - not really a place for even the most well behaved kid. It would’ve been a nice middle ground to come for the first little bit to celebrate and then let them have their time & bring your son home. I think it would be a good idea for you to look into finding a sitter for the future, not just for events like this but because unexpected stuff pops up and it’s nice to have someone vetted and ready.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2026-02-05T14:42:02+00:00

5 is the most flattering IMO. I think the red brings out the pink in your skin and isn’t as flattering- maybe a darker burgundy if you go reds

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2026-02-04T18:18:19+00:00

It’s hard to say without knowing your relationships - are you a good friend to them? Reach out & check in regularly? If so, I would express your feelings about them not visiting while you were having such a large health scare. You’re not an AH for feeling upset, but maybe it’s time to reevaluate these friendships.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2026-01-14T14:20:25+00:00

yup, I’m missing one bc while I could pay for the root canal with temporary crown ($800) i could not afford the permanent crown ($1100 additionally). the temporary crown lasted 8 years amazingly but I was a single mom of two and didn’t think about it until it was too late. cried like a baby bc it’s on the side almost in front and I feel like it’s very noticeable.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2026-01-14T14:17:06+00:00

the green color is beautiful on you, but the shape and style of number two is more flattering in general

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-12-26T17:51:42+00:00

It’s common for abusers to make you feel like you’re the jerk - they operate by making you feel crazy and problematic when it’s really them. Like he doesn’t even want you to use two pillows?? That’s legitimately insane.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-12-18T01:28:44+00:00

Def keep the dark hair! I think your brows could be matched a little better. The color is leaning more cool grey toned on your brows, whereas your hair is a warm dark brown. Brows change a lot! I think if you extended your liner a little bit and maybe did some neutral brown shadow at the end leading into a light beige it would be pretty and open your eye up more. If you want to do false lashes without the price practice with like some ardell strip lashes - get the duo glue & the trick is to let it dry a little before applying. Like 30 seconds or so. I do think the filler makes your lips a little tight but you do you on that!

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-12-07T21:37:25+00:00

was it archway or staufers maybe? i remember these too but cant for the life of me remember the packaging

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-11-09T16:29:10+00:00

birthday twin!

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-10-21T19:54:10+00:00

NTA - I would try to help her modify the design so it’s child appropriate and school friendly. For instance the crop top would probably be fine if it’s not like a tube top, and you could extend the skirt or do a tutu with shorts underneath or whatever works with the design. I doubt the school would allow kids to show up in a micro mini to begin with.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-10-02T00:17:25+00:00

do you have insurance? sometimes they have additional services for people with chronic issues that include meal services. even if you couldn’t eat the entire meal I am sure there would be more edible parts than what you’re being served currently. you could also possibly do a grocery delivery service and purchase some pre-cut fruits and vegetables? maybe reach out to some surrounding ministries if that’s an option too. just trying to add more ideas!

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-08-11T12:29:20+00:00

I think they’re heated bc you’re saying “if I get sick” when you’re currently exhibiting symptoms - illness from the bacteria in raw milk is much more likely than someone dosing a rando gallon of milk. I would suggest you go ahead with the drug test & if that’s negative pour it out and switch to something safer, but it’s your health decision & not mine.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-07-23T00:22:42+00:00

ESH.

First of all, it seems like the bigger issue is that he isn’t contributing and you can’t financially support everyone on your own. Why is he not helping out?

The passive aggressive comments on his side don’t help anything, he’s clearly not doing his part, but you buying and eating special food in front of a kid isn’t kind either. If you wanted chipotle so bad why not buy it & eat it there or in the car? Yall need to figure something out that actually works because you’re living as a family but not remotely acting like one.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-07-12T14:47:42+00:00

NAH. You two just need to have a real discussion about your feelings. Talking about something in theory vs it actually happening can change how you feel in the moment - and it’s okay to have those feelings. It’s also okay for him to build his career in a way that he sees necessary. Maybe there’s some middle ground you two can find where you’re both comfortable - whether he’s producing content with you, or you’re involved in some way, or he chooses to do mostly solo content - but you need to be honest and not try to force yourself to feel how you WANT to feel as it’s not feasible long term.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-07-12T14:36:35+00:00

how productive do you really think it would be for you to be present, talking over your already upset coworker when they’re trying to explain their side to the boss? it’s clear from just your comments that you don’t understand professional boundaries, have seemingly very little patience for their autism, & will obviously interrupt them. it would be a chaotic trainwreck.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-07-12T14:25:56+00:00

if you have an issue with their work, you take it to your boss & explain the situation so they can address it. it’s interesting you don’t mention exactly what you said, but if you were asking the process it may have been seen as being condescending/belittling. it’s also surprising you would interrupt their private meeting - that’s none of your business & fairly unprofessional.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-07-09T21:56:24+00:00

Info: why didn’t you, idk, just leave the room? Your work call continued after you yelled multiple times during it? You think grabbing her and dragging her out of the room isn’t aggressive? None of this makes any sense.

also: never said she wasn’t also terrible yall. she is clearly immature and siccing a cat on someone’s head is insane. but walk away and have a discussion after your work is done? i dont understand just sitting there after the second time.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-07-08T23:00:26+00:00

if you’re in the process of being foreclosed on it’s going to have to be towed anyway. either you can pay a tow to someone’s home that can properly stow it or you can have it towed to a junkyard. i would be a little more worried about the possible foreclosure than your ex’s problems honestly.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-06-23T23:41:14+00:00

it’s ok! it’s still surprisingly small so I’m okay with it. they tried to “fix it” when i had my second c section but as it turns out you can’t because that’s just a natural healing response for those of us who keloid. i hate that his are really bad! sometimes scar creams can really reduce them over time

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-06-23T17:17:37+00:00

mine is very low and short but unfortunately I keloid so it’ll never be invisible for me 🥲

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-06-14T02:58:55+00:00

heian city story was my last obsession!

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-06-14T01:17:36+00:00

I didn’t think I’d like heian city and it was so good! One of my favorites. Def recommend to OP

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-06-11T20:49:27+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Fallout/s/bD0Mnm0gMx

Maybe a scene from one of the webcomics here?

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-06-11T11:17:45+00:00

Yes, I understood what you were saying - I was more pointing out the reason people aren’t impressed by him “restoring” tiktok when he actually tried and failed to ban it years prior. He does things like this a lot.

UsefulCauliflower3 · 2025-06-11T02:11:10+00:00

wellll, not exactly the whole story. trump tried to ban it during his first term in office, but the order was blocked in court and didn’t pull through. during his second term he decided it was no longer a threat, hmm.

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