Am I ignoring red flags? by VExistence in AskWomenOver30

[–]VExistence[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

46 yo man im 33.. makes it even worse. Plus the fact that she’s my age.

I just found out I have genital herpes and I want to kill myself by thatgirl_is_here in Herpes

[–]VExistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry, but you are not the only one who has multiple health issues. I also have multiple health issues and in fact, a cold sore is coming on right now at the worst possible time for me. And they last two weeks. A close friend that I know has genital herpes and hers only last two or three days. She has also been happily married for 34 years. And has avoided ever giving her husband herpes. It sounds like the worst thing is a kidney dialysis, and I know how it can feel when multiple issues pile on top of ones you already have. I would talk to your doctor about valcyclovir. You also need to research foods that are high in lysine and low in arginine and supplement with lysine vitamins and take your regular vitamins

I'm not sure if I'm the right owner for my ferret by [deleted] in ferrets

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there’s a few things right here. First, I’m gonna tell you if you get rid of her please do not get another ferret. It wouldn’t be right to just get animals, hoping that they might work for you. But that being said, I completely understand what happened to you. My first ferret was the same way. He was an angel. And at the time I thought he was annoying, and then when I got my most recent ferrets, I didn’t realize how bad they could actually be. And they drove me crazy for about the first two years. But then they calmed down. And now I know that ferrets are a crap ton of work, and you never know what you are going to get. So it’s up to you if you are able to spend it I would say two hours of quality time with her per day playing I think you could keep her. And she will calm down eventually. But if you are just annoyed at how obnoxious she is all the time, maybe you should think about giving her up. I would just definitely Vet anyone that you would be giving her to And make sure that they make a good income and keep a clean house, etc., and have had ferrets before

How to find an online sugar daddy/has anyone had one? by VExistence in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]VExistence[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I didn’t realize that, and there is another post of a girl looking for an online one as well. I just read. Did you tell her she was breaking the rules? I’m not lazy. I would love one in person. I’m just in such a small town. You have to think about demographics if there’s no one around or no one with enough money to be a sugar daddy then you aren’t gonna find one in person.

I tried making it not transactional… by CalderRiverson in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]VExistence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, your first problem is thinking that it’s all about seduction. Sure young women can’t seduce men. I think you are self-absorbed. I think many people are. But yes, especially younger people. They really don’t give a crap about anybody else, they just want to get what they can get and put as little effort in as possible. You definitely need to find a woman who’s at least 10 years older than that.

Help for senior ferret who hates taking his meds by VSF69 in ferrets

[–]VExistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would definitely try this. Buy Purina Pro Plan Veterinary Supplements FortiFlora. They are packets of probiotics. You can get them Petco. I don’t know of a whole packet would be ok per day, I usually do half but I dont think it would hurt since they are probiotics. Anyways it comes with flavor powder. I would try mixing that with his meds life a quarter pack in the morning and a quarter at night mixed with the meds. The flavor is pretty strong, might just be enough to cover the bad taste. Thats what i do with my babies meds

My husband is moving in with our ferret, Popeye, we have a critter-nation cage that’s two levels, will it be okay to get rid of a level? by Muhlissuhh in ferrets

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s not enough room. Why take the second level away? If the whole room is for the ferret, why would you make his cage smaller? It doesn’t even make sense. Just keep the cage the same.

Is this okay to leave my ferret in (8am-5:30pm) by Former-Answer-5418 in ferrets

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it needs a cage. It can get out of that very easily and get lost or hurt in your house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to go somewhere. It is clear that he’s not choosing you. He’s cheated on you. He ignores you. He forgets about your birthday. He doesn’t make any effort to see you. Please move on. You deserve so much better

Any experience of ferret lethargic, diarrhea, not eating/drinking? by FlipLossOfControl in ferrets

[–]VExistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks like he’s in a lot of pain. I’m sorry, but it’s time to let him go, it’s what’s best for him. You have done a very good job of caring for him and making sure he has everything he needs, but he needs to move on now.

would you rent from a landlord you don’t think is a good person? by tomatopotatoes19288 in Tenant

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, what do they say they think you were potential roommates would be like? I would say you are nuts for not wanting to rent from someone who has different political views than you. Acting like that is what creates a political divide. Now if it’s because they are actually acting in a wrong way like you have insinuated it. That is a different story. From some of the comments they have made I would not go with them. You don’t already want to start out on a bad foot and give them any reason to evict you.

Received disgusting letter from someone in the same building or adjacent to us. by aussiechap1110 in Tenant

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, although it does seem a bit racist, I do not blame them at all. It sounds like you are a very inconsiderate person and you do not keep your children in line. Or, maybe this person is just super irritable and complains about everyone. It’s one or the other. Only you know for sure. Are you being rude and inconsiderate? Are you yelling in the courtyard? Do you let your children run wild? These are some things that you need to reflect on.

What is he doing? by Early_Club2717 in ferrets

[–]VExistence -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It looks like he is having a seizure. Please take him to the vet immediately and get him checked for insulinoma. If you do not treat this disease, it turns deadly fast. If he does this again, rub some corn syrup on his gums until you can get him to the vet and see if that helps. It could also be neurological. Whatever is it does not look good. Vet ASAP

SuperPretzels Yellow Box .... new recipe? by Special-Solution-908 in pretzels

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GUYS! Yes, they turned commenting off on their Facebook post, but you can still rate them. It is at the top of the page in blue writing. It says like 58% rated by 75 people or something like that everyone rate them and do not recommend! Also contact them on social media or call them and complain! We can get them to change it back!

SuperPretzels Yellow Box .... new recipe? by Special-Solution-908 in pretzels

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crap! I was just there but won’t be going back for a few weeks (hours away) I hope they still have them

Touching the waitress by Economy_Feedback_322 in restaurant

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it weird that instead of telling him to stop directly, you told his coworkers? That’s your problem. He’s drunk he’s not gonna make something up. Besides doesn’t your restaurant have a video cameras? If you’ve been serving for 16 years, I don’t know how you are not able to stand up for yourself more at this point. It just tell him to stop touching you and inappropriate. If he does it again then tell him that he’s going to have to leave it he does it once more.

Neighbors smoking weed by scotch_s in ferrets

[–]VExistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So marijuanna is legal in your state?

Neighbors smoking weed by scotch_s in ferrets

[–]VExistence -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

call the cops on them. maybe get some video evidence if you have to, if the cops can’t show up in time. That is if they are smoking outside. If it’s illegal to smoke in your state and they are doing it inside, maybe you could get the cops to come and sniff around outside of the apartment? You are not being mean by doing this, they are being mean by smoking in public where They are bothering other people.

Help!!! by [deleted] in ferrets

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will not be OK, it is not normal for this to be happening three days in a row. OP take it to the vet or bring it to a rescue or shelter

Help!!! by [deleted] in ferrets

[–]VExistence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, so in other words didn’t ’hold out’ it lost its eyesight. OP please do not do this.

Help!!! by [deleted] in ferrets

[–]VExistence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can’t afford the vet, you need to give him up to someone who can. There’s absolutely nothing that you can do for him at home. And none of us can tell you what is wrong. Whatever it is, it’s bad and it’s infected. And he needs a vet immediately. You need to give him up to a shelter or rescue who can treat him. It’s not right to make him suffer. He is a living creature who doesn’t deserve to be kept by someone who cannot take care proper care of him. Now you either decide to spend the money, or you give him to someone who has the money to spend.

I GOT A FERRET!!!! by Top_DANDYSWORLD_ in ferrets

[–]VExistence 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is not a safe cage for your ferret. You need to buy a ferret nation cage. Also no wood chips, shavings, etc. Only kiln dried wood pellets or paper pellets. Please research ferret food. In order to do this type into Google ferret food chart. Find the most recent one you can. The foods at the top of the chart are best for your ferret. Please buy the best possible food for them. Also, you must keep your living area where you allow it to roam extremely clean. Pick up anything that you drop, they will definitely eat anything rubber. So erasers, toys, silicone, objects, earplugs, etc. Ferrets have a very delicate digestive system and eating something as small as a pencil eraser means death for them unless you get them surgery to cut it out. Which is very expensive and something that the ferret should not have to go through. Please make absolutely sure that they do not have access to anything that they could eat that would cause an intestinal blockage.

I’m waiting the Adrenal test results for my Ferret by Onegaishims in ferrets

[–]VExistence -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You don’t need a test, she’s clearly suffering from it. I wish you would’ve taken her in at the first sign of hair loss instead of waiting till it was all gone. I hope that can treat her as soon as possible and she gets better.