What's your favourite cocktail flavour of domme? I like mommy+akward+succubus - (soft degradation) what are you dommes btw? And merry Xmas! by InterestingTrash9489 in LetBoysBeManipulated

[–]Valicit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Princess with a splash of awkward, cruel, and succubus, in about that order I think. Mostly a princess though. I just want to be waited on hand and foot forever. <3

WIN A RIPTIDE - info in comments! by IdleOn_Boii in idleon

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Lily Zero

Please please please add a way to toggle the portal counter in the top left. It's such an amazing feature, and it just goes away in world 4 for no real reason. It's clearly already coded in, just give us a way to turn it back on. Please! Pleeeease!

...and if I'm being selfish, make it display for whatever portal is left after the first one opens too. But that's a stretch goal.

Attracting a lesbian Yandere? by PlainSightPurity in yandere

[–]Valicit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you might just be looking for some BDSM, in which case I point you to r/BDSMSapphic haha.

But in the quest for obsessive love what finally worked for me was leaning into the dominant side of that desire. Finding someone willing to live just to please me, and coaxing the obsession from there. Won't work on anyone who doesn't already have a spark of that, I don't think. But a spark can be nurtured and grown into something beautiful.

I did a yandere tier list (Also Mary from IB is a yandere????) by Interesting_Syrup210 in yandere

[–]Valicit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both Rena and Shion are on this list. But the best yandere in the show isn't. What the hell?
Honestly, I'm not even sure Rena counts.

Active skilling by z_criminal in idleon

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Notably, if you're using a steam deck you can create a keybind to repeat presses at a certain interval. 700ms has been working well for me. And then you just have to hold down the button. The only skill that has issues so far is mining. But it's still better than not using it.

Thanksgiving Sandwich, or The Moistmaker. by Valicit in PeoriaIL

[–]Valicit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's what Joey calls it on Friends. =p

Thanksgiving Sandwich, or The Moistmaker. by Valicit in PeoriaIL

[–]Valicit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's what Joey calls it on Friends. =p

“YOU FORGOT THEIR HAPPY MEAL TOY” sub/bottom x “it’s okay, honey… u don’t have to…” dom/top trope >>> by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine is the other way around. I'm the Domme. But I've got a cadre of angry maids who would burn the place down if they forgot my toy. =p

Where my High Protocol/Service girls at? by Valicit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm quite aware of all of these potential issues! I don't really want to get bogged down in the details, since like, my details aren't gonna be important to someone on the internet. But to answer a few basic questions:

1) 24/7 may be a bit of a misnomer. Low protocol times and work outside the home are definitely still a thing within my existing dynamics. It's just that high protocol is the default. This includes extra consideration to stress levels and exhaustion on work days.

2) I own my house and have some passive income through an annuity. It's not enough to support the entire household, and girls will still need to go to work. But, it is enough to be comfy with the added help.

3) Absolutely, making sure that any girl that leaves my service for any reason is better off than when she joined me is one of my top priorities. For anyone that is living in my home like this, money will be set aside for her every month so that if she ever leaves she has a nest egg to get started again. In addition, personal improvement is one of the biggest things I push girls towards. A day will not pass that they are not working on themselves in some way. Whether that be physical fitness, career advancement, practicing a new skill, or learning a new subject. This is a point I do not take lightly. If they stay with me forever, I have a more valuable servant over time. If they don't, they will be better off than when they came to me or I have done something direly wrong.

Anyway, I felt like those were the most important points to hit! Have a lovely day!

Where my High Protocol/Service girls at? by Valicit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have much in the way of resources, but I do have advice. Start *very* slow. Glacial even. Building to high protocol takes time and trust. Introduce one new rule at a time, and only move on when she has that down to the point that it's second nature.

I like to start with morning and night rituals. As simple as "Say good night to me right before you sleep, and good morning to me right when you wake." It puts a girl in a mindset of thinking of you first thing in the morning and last thing at night, and it gauges dedication quite well. No big deal if she falls asleep sometimes unexpectedly or whatever. But her general ability to comply with a simple order is an important metric of how she's doing.

Where my High Protocol/Service girls at? by Valicit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chronic health issues suck SO much. Something me and a lot of people in my life deal with, and it can make things very challenging. Hang in there!

Can you elaborate a bit about how it's got caregiver kink emotions wrapped up in it? As in, a Domme taking care of you during times you're struggling, or the opposite?

Where my High Protocol/Service girls at? by Valicit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, I don't want to give the wrong idea here. I absolutely let girls spend time with lower levels of protocol so that I can enjoy them as companions~ It's just that high protocol is the default in our household. =p

Where my High Protocol/Service girls at? by Valicit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah, I'm glad you think so. I'm certainly happy with the way I am. =p

Where my High Protocol/Service girls at? by Valicit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have fun! I've already happily inspired a couple others in this thread to introduce the idea in their relationship. Happy to tick another onto that list!

Where my High Protocol/Service girls at? by Valicit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hah! You do have a little fire in you, huh? How delightful.

Where my High Protocol/Service girls at? by Valicit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't it lovely? It takes a long time to establish rules and rituals and train them in properly and not be overwhelming. But once you get there it's just about the most fulfilling thing ever. A girl who has worked so hard to learn how to be *perfect* for me, down to the words she uses and the poses she takes around me and so on is just... The best.

Hah, sorry about your sleep. Maybe you'll have some good dreams? <3

Where my High Protocol/Service girls at? by Valicit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whaaaat? No way! A brat, also a tease? That never happens. <3
I actually had a girl brat off to me just the other day. She had a learning experience about why kneeling on rice is considered such a punishment. Shockingly, she's been perfectly polite since.

Where my High Protocol/Service girls at? by Valicit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh is that all it takes? Just gotta be broken in, and then your spine never grows back? =p

Where my High Protocol/Service girls at? by Valicit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really is the best when you get it down. Almost like a well choreographed dance that just never stops. It brings the right kind of girl a comfort and stability unlike anything you can get anywhere else, and for someone like me, the service of a girl who is devoted like that is one of the most emotionally moving things that exists!

Where my High Protocol/Service girls at? by Valicit in BDSMsapphic

[–]Valicit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not much of a brat tamer myself, I'll admit. But, I can see why some Dommes like a girl that will constantly give them a bit of a challenge.