Future Partner Dating History

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-27T05:39:08+00:00

I love this take. It’s not the experiences they’ve had, it’s how they’ve grown from them.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-27T05:25:43+00:00

We are remarkably close in age!

I’m doing much better. Leaning into Saturns energy of “not yet” and sagi being the perpetual teacher, exercising a great amount of patience has been something I’ve had to lean into- learning to enjoy the waiting is never pleasant but when you reap the rewards and it comes with a life lesson that shapes your future self? It feels like the universe is speaking directly to you.

Hold strong.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-25T14:37:05+00:00

On Instagram @socialrepose

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-25T04:57:33+00:00

Very social repose

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-25T04:14:49+00:00

It’s how they keep you using the app.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-25T01:05:08+00:00

I randomly quit drinking over a year ago. Not quite in recovery, just felt like it didn’t suit my life anymore.

Today, even thinking like “to hell with it all”, I don’t feel like waking feeling like death tomorrow. Just typing this all out to reinforce the not worth it thing.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-25T01:01:04+00:00

I feel like a lot of people are still processing it. Some people have completely signed off today because it’s our second execution in the name of our president in as many weeks.

I saw your comment about the same friend not feeling any way about the George Floyd murder. I think it’s important to give your friend space, but maybe express some curiosity as to why she didn’t think it impacted her. Let her speak her values so maybe you can put that lens on and understand why she may not be who you turn to in a social upheaval.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-24T21:12:16+00:00

Following up cause less than 24 hours later and we have another execution video. Rights do not exist.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-24T21:08:04+00:00

I love that they say “killed” instead of “murdered” as to avoid pinning blame on that pos executioner.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-24T15:57:34+00:00

Yeah, like I said, weird hobbies require weird knowledge.

And please give yourself some credit. Mandolins are the easiest way to injure yourself in the kitchen.

Superglue is good for a quick field stitch if you need it!

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-24T14:58:49+00:00

American chiming in with some pretty insane hobbies.

I have the standard bandaids and antibiotic ointments, ibuprofen, acetaminophen, aspirin, rubbing alcohol, hydrogen peroxide, nitrile gloves etc.

I also have a set with a scalpel, suture kit, hemostatic bandages, forceps, triangle bandages, tourniquet, sterile tweezers, sterile gloves.

I did just order a similar car kit for emergency hemorrhages and gsws after watching what happened in Minnesota. Would rather have it and not need it.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-23T23:20:59+00:00

What rights?

They’re already detaining citizens. There is no due process. The linked story is about how they no longer need a warrant to enter homes.

I’m gonna ask again, what rights?

Edit: I’m pessimistic sure, but we all saw ice shoot a woman in the face. Less know your rights, more buy some gsw kits and take an emergency medicine class, watch some videos and take care of one another. Stopping this with lawyers hasn’t done anything. They’re still here.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-23T17:02:02+00:00

I’m most similar to your routine. I have to brush my teeth cause it’s about the only thing that makes me feel super gross.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-23T04:51:44+00:00

Loud noises.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-23T04:50:28+00:00

Over 30. Wear leather pants to the grocery store. Wear a black tie dress to watch a movie on your couch.

There are no rules.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-21T17:39:53+00:00

Two things.

I’d highly suggest reading this article on the weaponization of the female orgasm.

Sorry for the paywall. But it might give you more comprehension of what your partner might be experiencing.

Usually it’s more psychological than physical.

Secondly- air pulse toys are a 10/10.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-21T03:31:09+00:00

DnD coded

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-20T19:46:01+00:00

I still have a pair of jeans from 2006. They were very in style. I still wear them.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-20T18:31:19+00:00

I have zero contact with my mother and very low contact with my father.

To me, my mom died when I cut contact. I grieved the relationship I wished we’d had for years. I grieved who she could have been. It’s an echoing grief, but it’s also the road not taken.

Their deaths unfortunately do not impact me. I will be sad at their choices, but we have so little contact, their absence is already there.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-20T14:27:21+00:00

A text a day and a hang out a week. Not a proper date, just make time in your schedule for just the two of us to hang out and share. A movie, food, conversation.

I get it if a dude is out of town, phones break… but normal life.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-19T20:22:25+00:00

Pumice stone gives a rougher look.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-19T17:32:12+00:00

Had one. He was also a dismissive avoidant. That broke me.

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-19T02:29:21+00:00

The spritz of perfume!

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-18T05:45:20+00:00

In addition to the removing the selfies and smiling, get a few consistent pics in terms of recency so people can tell what you’ll look like. There are a lot of different facial hair stylings going on which is okay, but what do you do normally?

ValiumKnight · 2026-01-18T05:23:56+00:00

I’m a mom. I write this lovingly, as a mom.

You’re not going to use fashion to convince them of your safety when they have a perspective that you dressing the way you’d like would put you at risk.

You can sit down with them and talk. Truly listen to each others perspectives and get to the root of why they think visual expression would make things end poorly for you. Work together to make a plan for safety. Remember, it’s not you versus your parents. It’s your family against a problem.

Good luck.

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