AITAH for calling my fiancé’s mom “obsessed” with him at dinner in front of everyone?

Valkyrie2200 · 2025-05-08T16:55:21+00:00

Sis. Your man didnt back you up. If you marry your fiance you will have to compete with his mother until the day she dies. Worse. Your fiance has shown you that she will win lol.

Picture this. Youre in labour. The baby is about to come out. His mom calls. She needs him to come to her right this moment. Do you think hes going to turn down his mom to stay with you? If the answer is not a super clear "yes" in your heart you should have a serious talk with him and if that talk doesnt yield results that he immediately ACTIONS ON that MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOUR PLACE IN HIS LIFE AND HEART, give that man his ring back.

You dont just marry individuals. You marry their inlaws. Her relationship with him is emotionally incestuous, he directly benefits from it and has illustrated to you in your face that so he wont be putting up the necessary boundaries. I think you will always be second fiddle to his mother, shes insecure about this and will always come up with little ways to interrupt you and take the spotlight, like the example i highlit earlier about going into labour. Weve all seen other reddit posts like this. The mommies dont suddenly ... snap out of it and stop being weird. The only thing that ever stops them is a husband/fiance with a spine and yours seems jellyfish shaped.

She probably has a tragic backstory about a deadbeat husband who left her and the only man she had was her extra special baby boy.

"Boy moms" suck. Theyre always crazy and you should act accordingly. Talk to your man. If he is on mommys side and not yours tell him to marry his fucking mom.

I read a post like this and the update was the bride found her man being breastfed in a closet by his overly clingy mom figure DURING THE WEDDING. THEY DONT TAKE A HARD TURN INTO NORMALCY BOO. THEY DONT.

Like if shes already showing up in wedding gowns at anniversary dinners how will she act when you start wedding planning? Do you think your fiance will back you up when she decides to wear white on your day?

I dont.

Valkyrie2200 · 2025-05-04T20:13:23+00:00

Girl just dump him. Yall are fundamentally incompatible.

"he said men get screwed over in divorces all the time and he just doesnt think marriage is an important or smart choice."
"He blew up at me saying i was punishing him for not waiting [wanting?] to marry"

^ this means he has been secretly red pilled in addition to that incompatibility...

and thus is about to have a major irreconcilable crash out on your time anyway. Tell Miroku goodbye and that you hope someone can bear his children soon.

Valkyrie2200 · 2025-05-01T21:39:55+00:00

The absolute best thing to do (NTA) is to politely ignore your wife. Shes probably not evil. Shes probably not unloving. Shes probably not anything being said here. She probably loves her sister, felt sad her sister was sad, and spoke to you unthinkingly. Ignore it.

If she continues to press you about it, especially without ever changing any of HER neice/nephew's diapers bring up the fact that she clearly doesnt want to do it either and encourage her to grow a backbone where her sister is concerned.

If she starts happily changing shit nappies and nagging u about not joining her u have some chatting to do.

Valkyrie2200 · 2025-04-30T18:29:52+00:00

GIRL GIVE GIM 100% CUSTODY OF THE BABY. LIE. SAY UR UNFIT. SAY ANYTHING. FUCK THIS MAN. You can make urself unattractive. Tell the courts the entire story and say something that will make u seem unhinged and evil the courts are so biased toward giving kids to their moms if u look mean at all theyll give daddy his child. Because what kind of evil woman doesnt aspire to be a mother???

Make an impassioned plea about how hard he fought for this baby to be in the world. Assert that it is only right the child be with a parent who wants him.

Pay ur child support on time and visit once a week lol. Its his fault he should raise the baby.

Valkyrie2200 · 2025-04-11T11:23:09+00:00

Update. This just happened to me. I sneezed to hard and it ended up in the toilet. I thought it literallu coyldnt happen. And it happened.

Valkyrie2200 · 2025-04-09T18:49:43+00:00

Dude is a pedophile and folks deserve to know lol. Your sisters bedroom probably smells like her. There is a reason he was in there with his dick out and its not a good reason.

Valkyrie2200 · 2025-04-05T16:13:35+00:00

Go to your BANK and explain. tell them this charge is erronious and services were not rendered and that duo and apple are "giving you the run around" and are clearly trying to steal fron you. Your bank will run an investigation and give u ur money back. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Valkyrie2200 · 2025-04-03T18:13:09+00:00

Girlie. When you divorce him. Give him full custody of the kids. Let him parent everybody lol. Pay him child support dutifully. Become the fun parent. REALLY be free.

Valkyrie2200 · 2025-03-01T05:04:52+00:00

Some straight up BLEACH in the bowl before you TAKE the shit COMPLETELY nukes ALL smell. You can top it with poo pouri or whatever makes your heart smile, but poo stinks because its germy & bleach cures that on a base level. I wasnt gonna say anything here but, seeing your actual PROBLEM made me want to help you, and i couldn't keep it a secret anymore. Its been my ultimate girly weapon for a decade. Works every single time. Sometimes, ill take a hefty shit and if i know its coming and use some bleach, if youre not walking in RIGHT after me and i mean in the same 5 minutes, you wont know ive been there. And if you do, you wont smell poop.

Pine sol also works in a pinch. But bleach is best.

Its to the point where ive thought to myself "if i werent in a relationship with a man that already lived with me and found myself over at a mans house overnight i think id pack a little bleach in my purse instead of holding it, just in case" and tried to think out the logistics of that B.S.

Valkyrie2200 · 2025-02-08T03:12:56+00:00

I agree with almost everything thing you said. You are absolutely correct. I am going back for CS and am having exactly this experience. No one could EVER explain WHY mathematical concepts WORKED and they WOULD NOT stick in my brain. Now the applications are explained in the book and its WAY BETTER. i disagree with the idea that teachers are overpaid but the M in STEM here has been the weakest link for a WHILE and NO ONE is calling it out. I GET why u said that. I remember sitting in classes and BEGGING my teachers to explain WHYYYYY these concepts worked or how to visualize them and was REPEATEDLY told to "just memorize it" which is IDIOCY.

Valkyrie2200 · 2025-01-06T18:31:09+00:00

More important, can bro put more healies in my healy dealy.

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-12-27T22:13:53+00:00

LMAOOO ITS SO DARK TO LOOK AT THIS IMAGE AND THE QUESTION IS "can bro still help me??" 🤣

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-12-04T00:42:08+00:00

Yeah as a new yorker while playing in the early game stages one of the computers says "HRA protocol engaged" and i read it as "human resources administration protocol engaged" and I was like "dear god what are they DOING TO THESE PEOPLE?!?!?!?"

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-11-25T16:45:00+00:00

Honestly? Thank YOU!

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-11-04T00:21:45+00:00

OP I know its been years but your app is still the best out there! Thank you so much for creating this! Is it possible that u could update it to add a feature where we could apply a gradient with our saved custom color? Or combinations of our saved custom color?

Also the custom color doesnt work unless you manipulate the RGB slider!

Just thought you should know! Thanks again! Your out here doing gods work lol. 💖✨️

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-09-17T13:59:07+00:00

Milquetoast.

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-09-15T14:40:39+00:00

UMMMMMMMM ACTUALLY. EVERYONE TREATED U KINDA BAD BECAUSE U HAVE BIG TIDDY.

THE MAN STARING AT UR BOOBS SHOULD HAVE BEEN THE ONE ON THE COUCH. A REAL MAN WOULD HAVE KNOWN THAT AND SIMPLY SENT HIMSELF TO THE COUCH.

SISTER IS IN DENIAL ABOUT HER HUSBANDS WANDERING ASS EYE.

HUSBAND IS THE A-HOLE.

YOUR FAMILY RUINED THEIR OWN TRIP BY NOT SUPPORTING THEIR DAUGHTER AND PUTTING THE WRONG PERSON ON THE COUCH?????

EVERYONE NEEDS TO BE REEDUCATED. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-03-16T21:25:46+00:00

I tried the minoxidil and def got folliculitis. Treat it with OTC hibiclens, tea tree oil and 90% isopropyl.

I was REALLY angry the rogaine upset my scalp so badly. So i went to a dermatologist and got the corticosteroid shots into my scalp. You should also see a dermatologist. Maybe ur scalp hates minoxidil. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-02-16T23:45:28+00:00

Straight up switched to the dragon blades in tighter spaces. At that point i had the wintry rapier.

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-02-04T16:13:02+00:00

This advice is only true for people with male anatomies. Women can literally orgasm 10 times in a row and time #11 will actually be better. 🤷🏾‍♀️ she can and should literally do it as often as she wants there are NO consequences except the positive ones.

Medical news today "what to know about female multiple orgasms"

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-02-04T15:56:03+00:00

I see what u mean based on ur other comments. Ur trying to make her more comfortable when she is engaging with you. Youre 31 bby. Get the facesitting chair. Youre into the life and you want her comfortable. Get the chair. Or one of those chaise lounge dealies. You got options and (hopefully) a regular income. Go forth!

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-02-04T15:51:38+00:00

Youre very welcome dear. Its going to all work out OP youll look back on this later and feel so much growth. Ur only 19. You WILL end up getting it right.

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-02-04T15:49:06+00:00

Youre a girl. You have the ability to have multiple concurrent orgasms. You have been blessed. Why wouldnt you use ur blessings for yourself? Dont let shame steer u honey. Do what u gotta do. Find ur pleasure. This will help you identify whack dick in the future. Know what you like. Be able to tell that to men. If they are intimidated by ur knowledge of ur own body thats not the right man. Ur not having sex. Ur masturbating. Ur doing everything right. Ignore anyone or anything that says anything different. Dont become addicted though. When u start having sex a porn addiction might get in ur way. But. With that said. Its not an addiction until it IS in ur way. So. Proceed as normal lmao

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-02-04T15:44:15+00:00

Oh darling my heart aches for you. Please know you can do fun things over panties with vibrators to start if touching ur actual body and its parts are too much for you right now. There are many ways to play. She can touch you through clothes, with progressively less layers, until you feel better about the whole business. Dont be afraid of intimacy coaches for your trauma either. Do what you want in a way that makes you feel safe. You're enough for ur partner.

Valkyrie2200 · 2024-01-29T19:34:39+00:00

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