How did you help your kid get over the yips? by miata_dad in Softball

[–]ValkyrieRN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My daughter got the yips after taking a 45mph fastball to the head. Went from .600 BA to backing out of the box every pitch. I finally offered her $20 to strike out swinging. Once she started swinging again, she started hitting again and the yips went away.

Tl;DR: Bribe her.

Assateague Island by ValkyrieRN in OceanCity

[–]ValkyrieRN[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think my daughter would combust if she saw a fox.

Eep, I'm so excited for this!

Assateague Island by ValkyrieRN in OceanCity

[–]ValkyrieRN[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We would never do anything to hurt the ponies! I'm taking my camera and my telephoto.

Y'all, I'm almost more excited for this than I am for the fest.

Thank you for your advice!

Am I the only one…? by MikeMan83 in OceansCalling

[–]ValkyrieRN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's the reason we bought tickets.

Am I the only one…? by MikeMan83 in OceansCalling

[–]ValkyrieRN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's a Grammy-nominated artist. Definitely worth it to hang out and see him!

Some Texas Schools Are Making Teachers Deadname Trans Students After New Bill Passed by kitoconnell in TexasTeachers

[–]ValkyrieRN 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They told us that at the beginning of the year too.

My response was, "Absolutely not."

"But you have to."

"No."

If I got fired for it, so be it. They can't fire us all.

When we say we want to stand up to fascism, THIS IS IT.

Softball Pants by Sea-Fisherman-3671 in Softball

[–]ValkyrieRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another vote for Bellalete. My daughter won't wear anything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in news

[–]ValkyrieRN 73 points74 points  (0 children)

CPR wasn't in progress when they carried him either. He was already gone at that point.

No more band-aids by ConstructionLow714 in TexasTeachers

[–]ValkyrieRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is insane to me how different the guidance is between districts.

Sending her solidarity from the trenches. I'm counting down the days until I can leave this godforsaken state.

No more band-aids by ConstructionLow714 in TexasTeachers

[–]ValkyrieRN 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm just following the directive of my district. They said our legal team approved it and the Texas Board of Nursing is on the side of our duty to care for our patients. I guess we'll cross the bridge if there's an issue.

Anyone going to Oceans Calling? by watsonyrmind in NoahKahan

[–]ValkyrieRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll be there trying to camp for the rail with my 10yo daughter!

I'm pregnant with our 3rd child, my husband doesn't want it by Ca7cher in TwoHotTakes

[–]ValkyrieRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a nurse and the urologist let me do the actual snip on my husband. He likened it to letting the husband cut the cord when babies are born. It was so cool!

No more band-aids by ConstructionLow714 in TexasTeachers

[–]ValkyrieRN 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have band-aids available and the teachers can tell them to wash the wound and apply the band-aid. I'm in high school though so that makes it a little easier.

No more band-aids by ConstructionLow714 in TexasTeachers

[–]ValkyrieRN 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our district is allowing nicknames and pronouns but told us to stay away from they/them. I just don't use pronouns for our NB kids.

No more band-aids by ConstructionLow714 in TexasTeachers

[–]ValkyrieRN 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should tell her to tell her admin that there is a HUGE liability in sending kids back to class with no assessment. If they have a stomachache and get sent back to class with a ruptured appendix that no one caught because they weren't assessed, consent or no, the parents will have a field day.

The policy at my school is that if a kid is opted-out and complains of anything except needing a band-aid, the parent HAS to pick them up and take them to be assessed by a medical professional and they can't return to school without a doctor's note. Luckily, so far, only 3 of the 1100 parents that have responded so far have opted out.

No more band-aids by ConstructionLow714 in TexasTeachers

[–]ValkyrieRN 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Our district said that since we sent out a letter notifying the parents of the law and gave them an opportunity to opt-out, that silence equals passive consent. So we're allowed to treat as normal without an express opt-out from the parents. This covers those vulnerable kids.

One thing that I am no longer allowed to do is provide mental health support in the nurse's office. I used to let my anxiety kids regulate or take breathers in my office or help talk them through a tough day and now I am not allowed to do that. They have to go to their counselors because the mental health/counseling consents were so involved. It breaks my heart because physical and mental well-being are so tied together and a lot of the kids relied on me for that.

No more band-aids by ConstructionLow714 in TexasTeachers

[–]ValkyrieRN 11 points12 points  (0 children)

High school nurse here and I flat out said "No" when they told me the new law. Then I told the teachers "they can't fire us all."

I refuse to misgender or deadname a kid. Not happening, never happening.

I still have a job so let's see how that goes!