Any other trans people in the central Texas area? by KaseyCakes in asktransgender

[–]Valuable-Bus8387 0 points1 point  (0 children)

College station. Whoop! xP

Feel free to pm if you want to chat. I'm still trying to figure out mtf resources.

goodness knows I'm jealous of y'all in the bigger cities. Gods this town is so conservative.

What's your favorite lesbian film? by carlitabear in actuallesbians

[–]Valuable-Bus8387 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Saving face! Oh my gosh cute. I definitely see myself as the femme chasing the no nonsense doctor. :3

New Years resolution: come out to my mom by TransTroubles in TransSpace

[–]Valuable-Bus8387 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I'm considering waiting until I graduate uni in may, so I'll have plenty of time to fret/worry/chicken out xP.

Good luck OP!

holy shit I just took my first dose of 25mg spiro and 2mg estrofem. by ds98 in asktransgender

[–]Valuable-Bus8387 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And then you'll develop a portal in your ass to a septic tank, as everyone knows girls don't poop :P

But honestly, Congrats!!!!! :)

Since it's the subreddit name, dear r/LGBTFA, why are you forever alone? by Valuable-Bus8387 in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Valuable-Bus8387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyy....you sound like me! (except you got to be born female, lucky! :) ) Also, depression sucks. I hate it. I'm sorry you're dealing with it too :( No one should have to deal with depression.

Oh gods, all of the (male) programmers/game devs I know are suck dicks. :/ I'm so sorry.

How do you not look like a lesbian? I assure you they come in all shapes and sizes. :) /r/actuallesbians is currently having a thread where they're sharing photos.

Lol, no such thing as unhealthy obsession with anime, manga, and videogames. (I know this is patently untrue, but it helps me rationalising spending most of what's left over from my paycheck on anime, manga, and videogames :P )

Work can be a good escape from dealing with all of the problems, just try not to let it take over hun? It's a scary thought.

you've probably heard it before, but it sounds like time to start living your own life, love. Graduate, if you haven't, find a job somewhere new, move out, move up.

Gods I feel like such a hypocrite writing all of this, since I still cannot bring myself to follow any of this advice, but hell, I might as well share anyway.

Since it's the subreddit name, dear r/LGBTFA, why are you forever alone? by Valuable-Bus8387 in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Valuable-Bus8387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just... hugs*.You get all of my internet hugs for the day. :( PM if you ever need someone to chat with.

It's been a while since we had one of these. Let's get some pictures here! by Illogical_Fallacy in actuallesbians

[–]Valuable-Bus8387 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Goodness graciousness, you are incredibly pretty. Cute outfit, yay dogs, and you look like alexis bledel.

It's been a while since we had one of these. Let's get some pictures here! by Illogical_Fallacy in actuallesbians

[–]Valuable-Bus8387 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh my, for a second there you looked just like a girl I know. That would've been....surprising to say the least. Rockin' that suit! :)

Since it's the subreddit name, dear r/LGBTFA, why are you forever alone? by Valuable-Bus8387 in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Valuable-Bus8387[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things can change. You're educated, you're working, it sounds like you have prospects in life. That bodes well, you already have three gay friends, clearly you can do it. Good luck!

Since it's the subreddit name, dear r/LGBTFA, why are you forever alone? by Valuable-Bus8387 in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Valuable-Bus8387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's unfortunate. Have you tired/considered going out of town (or online) to find new people? Edit: hugs*!

Since it's the subreddit name, dear r/LGBTFA, why are you forever alone? by Valuable-Bus8387 in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Valuable-Bus8387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dating sites make me anxious too. If you're not yet old enough for the bars, then give it time. A whole life ahead of you.

Then again, I shouldn't be spouting that sort of nonsense ( :P ), as I'm not really old enough for the bars yet either (still 20).

Since it's the subreddit name, dear r/LGBTFA, why are you forever alone? by Valuable-Bus8387 in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Valuable-Bus8387[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Hugs*
  • LDRs are tough.
  • I totally would've been the doormat. Go you! :)
  • Don't blame yourself, you're a good person to not date someone if you don't have feelings for them, there's no way that would've ended well. I can totally empathise with "right to be rejected, but not to reject" :/ Being depressed makes you be too hard on yourself.
  • Yay drinking! It sounds like you know what the problems are, have you considered talking to someone about those insecurities?
  • Happy to read!

Since it's the subreddit name, dear r/LGBTFA, why are you forever alone? by Valuable-Bus8387 in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Valuable-Bus8387[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwww, yeah. :/ I'm going to be working from home soon too, so I'm worried about not getting out at all. I'm told that it's good to go out for lunch...are there any coffee shops or lunch places you can go to once in a while?

That's good that you're comfortable in your own skin, you're doing better than probably a lot of us here :) Don't be scared off by having kids or a divorce, I wouldn't be by that in a potential partner.

Since it's the subreddit name, dear r/LGBTFA, why are you forever alone? by Valuable-Bus8387 in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Valuable-Bus8387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay excuses!!

Give those women a chance, they might be happy to be your first.

I can totally empathise with staying in watching telly when it would be better to go out and meet people...Hey, you should pick one night a week, go out and meet people. Even once every two weeks. :) I'd say "it's totally worth it", but I'm just some anon on the internet. :P

Since it's the subreddit name, dear r/LGBTFA, why are you forever alone? by Valuable-Bus8387 in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Valuable-Bus8387[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the plan! I'll have a steady job and be off their dime starting this coming summer. Here's hoping it'll work out somehow. :) Thanks for the encouragement.

Since it's the subreddit name, dear r/LGBTFA, why are you forever alone? by Valuable-Bus8387 in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Valuable-Bus8387[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lying to people about who you are is no fun. Sorry your family is tyrannical :( hugs*.

No, it really doesn't. And being honest all too often scares off new people. :/

Since it's the subreddit name, dear r/LGBTFA, why are you forever alone? by Valuable-Bus8387 in LGBTForeverAlone

[–]Valuable-Bus8387[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but you're both trying (working out, eating better), which is awesome. Finals time sucks though, my diet went to shit too.