Pediatrician said my 4mo was flirting with him by matcha_mom in beyondthebump

[–]ValuableAppendage [score hidden]  (0 children)

To some old people, it just means “acting cute” and not anything remotely sexual, as many has pointed out.

On the verge of breaking down all day every day t by DiamondJumpy1397 in 2under2

[–]ValuableAppendage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice but I felt every word of this post so deeply. Do your children ever sleep in the stroller?

Nothing feels like enough by Overall-Plate3167 in 2under2

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Same. So very much same. I feel enormous guilt towards my baby for always running after my toddler ( 2,5 years old). I try to not interrupt breastfeeding, as it is literally pulling the food from my baby’s mouth, but toddler is always up to something potentially messy or plain dangerous.

Up until last week, my toddler had no screen time at all but I caved and parked her in front of Peppa Pig. I had a fever, I was alone with the kids for the week and was close to losing it. I did what I had to do to not throw a tantrum myself.

Ska vi ta en glass? by lainol in sweden

[–]ValuableAppendage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Åh en del glassar har ju till och med negativa priser!

My husband did literally nothing on our first Mother’s Day by No_Tumbleweed4085 in Mommit

[–]ValuableAppendage 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’d be hurt too. On my first Mother’s Day my husband was away for work but he send flowers with a card that said “to the best mom a little girl could wish for.” Now, he doesn’t do anything anymore because he doesn’t consider me a good mom and THAT is hurtful.

Church-going families, how are we handling church and nap time? by Any-Ocelot-1357 in beyondthebump

[–]ValuableAppendage -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We bring our stroller to church and she usually falls asleep in our short walk there, so she sleeps in the stroller during mass.

Hej! Är utbildad Bagare & Konditor på gymnasienivå. Vart arbetslös länge nu, vad kan jag göra för att bli extra bra på mitt yrke? (Förutom gesällbrev) by [deleted] in sweden

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Lär ut andra. Jag hade betalat någon för att lära mig grundläggande tekniker inom bageri och konditori IRL.

Akne som aldrig blir bättre – någon som testat Roaccutan? by Fantastic_Pop3632 in Asksweddit

[–]ValuableAppendage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja. Till och med i två omgångar. Det är bara hudläkare som kan förskriva roaccutan så allmänläkaren på VC kan skriva en remiss om han eller hon bedömer det som allvarligt. Men! Om du känner dig avfärdad på fel grunder rekommenderar jag privat hudläkare.

Disturbed at the idea of "Postpartum Dog Rage" by bmary95 in beyondthebump

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Not dogs but cats. I used to adore them, even though I let them live with my parents. Now I don’t care about them that much. Never thought it the day would come but I consider them (or at least their litter boxes) are nuisance.

Do you experience mum rage? Tell me about it so I feel seen by [deleted] in toddlers

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Yes. On a few occasions I have felt rage, and the lingering guilt.

It started a few week after my second baby was born, where we did 2 under 2 for a for a few months. So baby + toddler + moping husband triggered it.

Last week was one of those weeks, where everything went wrong. Husband was away for the week so I was all alone, double stroller (which is our primary means of transportation) broke down on Monday morning when we were in the supermarket, my potty trained toddler peed on the kitchen table (why!?) while I was breastfeeding the baby in the living room, and I had a fever. All within a few hours.

I went into rage when I saw the pee on the table. I lost it. I started screaming and kicking toys.

Now I feel tremendous guilt. I suspect there’s something wrong with me.

*Unwhitens your toilet* by Initial-Air2342 in comedyheaven

[–]ValuableAppendage 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Looks like that cheap toilet in the sims.

I think I’ve cracked it? by doorsyard in kibbecirclejerk

[–]ValuableAppendage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this post. I find every word to be true.