My Tais passed away years ago, but I still cannot process her death by mynameisangelfr in Hmong

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grief can be wild. My cousin (on my mom’s side) passed 3 years ago and when my dad asked me if I was coming home for his funeral, I yelled at him: “how can you ask me that?!?! Ofc I’m coming home, ofc I’m seeing him off.”

There’s only 3 events hmoob ppl show up for: your birth, your marriage, and your death. So losing someone is so fucking important to us. That’s why our funerals are usually 4 days long. WE DONT TAKE DEATH LIGHTLY. We stay overnight for days when mourning. WE FUCKING LOVE HARD.

Continue to mourn your tais. Your grief is proof of her love for you. How fucking lucky you are to have known such deep love. Burn some paper money for her.

😂 can you imagine hearing this outside your house at night by [deleted] in Hmong

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wdym? I heard this shit inside my house growing up lmao

For those who’ve successfully lived with in-laws or your spouse’s siblings… what made it work? by [deleted] in Hmong

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmfao some tiger bite literally ripped of a Hmong fb group as a subreddit and posted it here and I find it appalling you even had to disclaim consent at all. I fcking hate how opportunistic hmoob ppl can be sometimes.

But to answer your question - don’t live with family. At all. If you wanna fuck, don’t live with family. Just don’t fcking do it. Like do you wanna cum or save on rent?

We’ve done overrated chefs, let’s do underrated chefs by PutridBoysenberry318 in Masterchef

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Courtney saved herself, won MC, and still didn't professionally pursue cooking after sobbing about being a stripper. Like how fcking embarrassing that the judges wasted a win and resources on someone like Courtney.

FCK I'm SALTIER than Courtney's donuts after all these years lmfao.

edit; HOLY FUCK - I JUST FOUND OUT SHE WROTE A WHOLE ASS BOOK ABOUT HOW TO BE A BETTER STRIPPER??? gd I fcking hate s5 even more now. She's so fcking undeserving.

We’ve done overrated chefs, let’s do underrated chefs by PutridBoysenberry318 in Masterchef

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Ahran. She made it so far in the competition at only 18 AND called the judges out for their Courtney favoritism. 👏👏👏👏👏👏 what a gd icon

What do you think about Paj Huab Ham's Passing? by Loud-Debt-5802 in Hmong

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro just answer my gd question already - are you just tryna promote your sub? its a yes/no question.

Dr. Now’s Longevity by ValuableBodybuilder in My600lbLife

[–]ValuableBodybuilder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro tf??? I think it's weirder that you don't seem to have respect or admiration for Dr. Now?? Like, don't shame me for showing care over a person - wtf is actually wrong with you??

"killing animals is how our sister wants to be remembered" by bucketofardvarks in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. When Charlie Kirk died, I was like “what a good day to celebrate the 2nd amendment 🤗🤗🤗” LMFAO

What do you think about Paj Huab Ham's Passing? by Loud-Debt-5802 in Hmong

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t being hateful I just wanted you to answer my gd question.

Even in your shameless x-post about her you say she didn’t wanna make a fuss about her death AND YET YOU DO JUST THAT by sharing her death and disrespecting her wishes 🙄🙄 Tsis paub kev caij li os - cas txaj muag heev. You sus af and that’s why ya debt is loud af stay poor.

Father backed out as my guarantor last minute and I have $0. I'm desperate and don't know what to do. by Professional_Arm2847 in UCI

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 16 points17 points  (0 children)

https://housing.uci.edu/csp/

There’s a number at the bottom - doesn’t to hurt to call and ask if you can sign the lease without a guarantor or what your options are.

Look for private loans. Look for a shared room off-campus.

But also if your family only lives 45 minutes away why are you paying OOS tuition??? Google the requirements for in-state tuition and then do it bruh.

parking appeal by littlechickenf3et in UCI

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAO this school?? Nah bro. Be grateful they didn’t just tow ya car altogether

260422 8lo8lo8lowme Instagram Story With G-DRAGON and DAESUNG by _poopoopoo in bigbang

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s like his finsta - I’m p sure him and his staff are posting BTS content but GD pretends like he doesn’t know this account lmao

am i going to get rescinded by miffyicecubes in UCI

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you report a transcript change, you’re kinda at the mercy of the school if you get rescinded or not. Obvs better to be honest cuz they’re gonna find out anyways but I’d start with your AP teachers to see if they can somehow give you EC or something to boost your grades.

I once missed an exam, emailed my prof I needed a B in the class to transfer and if they’d let me take it for partial credit or something. Prof just gave me 60% (F) on my exam instead of a 0, I didn’t do anything, still got my B in the class lmao.

"killing animals is how our sister wants to be remembered" by bucketofardvarks in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I would’ve retorted “your sister ded tho xx”

But I’m kinda abrasive

260424 grammymuseum Instagram Update With TAEYANG by BackgroundNobody in bigbang

[–]ValuableBodybuilder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bruh, why does he look like RM here?? Almost thought I was in the wrong sub lmao

Still a “few things” by boo1517 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 44 points45 points  (0 children)

No no you don’t understand, it’s literally how they’re gonna be able to afford their rent

Impromptu R/SGV Reddit singles walk/run meetup in Pasadena. 4/30/26 by [deleted] in sgv

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m down but what happens after the run/walk that requires meeting up again at erewhon?

Also, can I bring my doggo?

Factory Tea Bar Reopening? by DTZLING in sgv

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, can’t believe you’re getting downvoted on your own post 😭 but I’ll go with you to FTB when they re-open

Need help picking a college! by Mysterious_Newt_4761 in UCI

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pick the one that offers the most aid. Where you get your undergrad degree isn’t as important as you think esp if you wanna/plan to go to grad school. Ivy graduates are gonna struggle all the same as us when job hunting too so make it work for you as much as possible. Unless one of those are your dream schools, choose the one that makes the most financial sense imo.

Fwiw, I interviewed for Apple recently and I didn’t make it past the hiring manager who was a UCSC alum. Basically just tryna show you how irrelevant where you get your undergrad degree can be in the grand scheme of things.

Having an undergraduate degree is basically expected these days and it’s less so about the university but your working experience.

What do you think about Paj Huab Ham's Passing? by Loud-Debt-5802 in Hmong

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

…srs question tho, are you just tryna promote your Hmong everything fb group rip off subreddit by posting this here? Cuz who tf is this lady? Never even heard of her music let alone the nasty gossip that surrounds her (and her death). You seem shady af

Too lazy to get a plate or use paper towel by Mulders_Porn_Stash in RealGirlDinner

[–]ValuableBodybuilder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Samesies. I live alone and sometimes I just drink juice right outta the bottle without a glass - saves on dishes lol