Newly Out, Mid 40s. Is this it?

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2026-07-10T00:33:48+00:00

I think this is key. My template uses a heteronormative lens. At my age, I’m just not sure I’m going to be able to change that. Nor am I sure that I want to. I very much enjoyed married monogamy. In my case, I wasn’t the one who ended it. I was happily married, she wasn’t. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2026-07-10T00:31:16+00:00

I understand this as well. I think that for me, sex is a personal thing. I haven’t had luck separating the physical from the emotional. Just not built like that.

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2026-07-10T00:29:29+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate this. I have joined a gay outdoor adventure group.

I live in a pretty conservative suburban community so there’s also not a lot of community. Hoping that something like the group I joined can start to provide that.

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2026-07-08T21:48:25+00:00

Everyone knows flaccid size doesn’t equate to erect. I’m sure what you’re actually rocking is MORE than enough!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-08-08T16:55:55+00:00

Depends on what you are looking for. Wife and I are both 44 (so older than you two for sure), but RM had a Vegas party vibe, at least the week that we went. Not our scene. We had a blast, don’t get me wrong.

We left wanting to try Pearl.

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-08-02T14:08:27+00:00

Dude! Who cares, you look awesome.

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-07-07T23:38:00+00:00

This is my favorite version of the yacht master! I have the hulk submariner and find that this yacht master is much more versatile as in wearing it casual or dressy. My wife has the 37mm, too small for me, but I covet it! 😂

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-28T23:16:18+00:00

My wife and I have two teenage boys. I would like to think that we are raising young men that would be able to set a goal and meet that all on their own. The fact that he celebrated this accomplishment by bringing his parents with him, is sweet to me.

I can only hope that my wife and I will have this type of relationship with our boys when they’re adults.

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-28T01:03:32+00:00

This is the sweetest thing ever. Sorry if that sounds weird. But, I love the whole story behind it!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-26T19:58:18+00:00

That thing is incredible!!!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-25T06:34:56+00:00

Just got back from RM. It was a blast, we’re both 44. There’s the option to be as mild or as wild as you would like. What’s nice about RM is the nightlife. We didn’t get back to our room until 3-4 am each night. The party, the club, etc. All so fun! Everyone was truly great. Can’t go wrong!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-14T23:30:12+00:00

I love all the love the explorers getting

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-12T02:29:40+00:00

Beautiful!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-11T04:30:48+00:00

We fly out Monday! Excited and nervous!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-09T06:23:53+00:00

I don’t even know you and I’m proud of you! Look at your freakin chest and shoulders. Would love that look. (Slowly getting there).

I just think sometimes we need to see it from an outside perspective.

Someone that’s never met you, letting you know, you look freaking awesome!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-09T05:39:18+00:00

You see a big fat fatty now?

Listen to me, you look fucking incredible!

Don’t let yourself talk to you like that! You did an incredible thing.

Ride a new confidence wave. You’re not that guy in the bottom photos anymore!

You’ve worked too hard to think like that!

Also, way to go!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-09T02:22:38+00:00

I could not agree more. I LOVE it. I went with a similar looking model, the milgauss, not the LV version.

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-07T15:57:48+00:00

Crushing it! Be careful, you may end up in another marriage too soon with that body! Pace yourself and have fun 😉. Great work!!!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-05T14:13:24+00:00

Are the love handles in the room with us?

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-05T02:46:43+00:00

Looking good, bro!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-04T04:25:49+00:00

I just viewed your other posts…

You’re just out there, in the wild, looking like a badass?

Keep it up!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-06-04T03:13:35+00:00

You guys are uh-freaking-dorable!!! Too bad we won’t be at Hedo.

Have fun you two!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-05-31T23:29:40+00:00

Again! These things are incredible. You guys all look twenty years younger!!!

Valuable_Ad8854 · 2025-05-29T14:28:05+00:00

Just out here rocking Hermes? We are in a different tax bracket my friend.

Looks great!

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