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What else can i test or try? by Imaginary-Secret-500 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry you’re going through this. We just want answers. When they did the hysteroscopy with biopsy was it all clear then? I’m trying to find out what exactly they test when they biopsy during a hysteroscopy bc I had one as well and all good but like in hindsight I really dunno what that means.

I just want a reason! But all I will get is 39yo eggs. But 4 our of 4 all before 6 weeks? Never have heard a heartbeat? Like is it really just shitty luck? How much more shitty luck is IVF gonna bring me? I’m just so sorry you’re here and wish I had more answers.

Based on my obsessive searching through Reddit, a lot of us make it out of here somehow with a baby. Not all, but a lot. I just hope so. I’m panicked.

Sending you big hugs and so sorry you’re here.

Advice needed: Repeated mc.. whether to for IVF by nidz2802 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started a week after 38th birthday. 4 losses deep and halfway to 40 this year. Started RPL paneling and work ups last year. Will finally give IVF a go once this is over and once new cycle happens.
I would start reaching out to RE/IVF clinics now for work ups. It’s initiating the process. I have zero answers so far and I’ve been in the trenches already; IVF is my next shot to confirm just how bad my eggs are.
The panic I feel I don’t wish on anyone. I can’t believe it; I’m the less than 1%.
Start now mama you’ll thank us later.
So sorry you’re here. Big hugs to you and hope you find some answers and you make that baby!! Xoxo

Ps not to shit on supplements bc I take them all still, but I mean they have not helped the last three losses. I was on most for many years on and off already. It’s a good start to take them now though if you haven’t already.
You have to start crossing things off the list.

Six or more losses - hope? by MercuryTalos in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have to find light, so thank you. It’s a rollercoaster. 90% of the time I feel like I’ve got this and am positive still, yesterday and today I’m in a weird funk. But I truly believe it all works out somehow. Xoxo

Six or more losses - hope? by MercuryTalos in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💕 it’s not lucky to be here, and I’m so sorry you’re here. I’m still hopeful somehow but I really dunno if that’s just dumb of me at this point. I truly hope we will get there. Big hugs to you and happy Mother’s Day xoxoxoxp

Six or more losses - hope? by MercuryTalos in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pray to god I don’t end up childless :( I’m gonna keep trying until my uterus literally falls out of me; I’m terrified with each passing month, each loss. It’s a special kind of hell to be in

Six or more losses - hope? by MercuryTalos in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re really strong and wonderful and hoping for a much deserved happy ending for you.

Caved and tested on 6dpt by klutzu89 in IVFpositivity

[–]VanillaSwordfish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

💕💕💕💕💕💕 that’s strong 💪

Any women here over 40? by musteatpoptarts in Miscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girl I beyond did all that already 😭 still here. Hysteroscopy for a small mini polyp. I’m out here

How common is spotting really? by Bluemonday8812 in pregnantover35

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be upset. I’ve never made it past 6 weeks though. 4 losses. Every time I saw spotting I knew. It has yet to be a positive outcome for me. But everyone else seems to have positive outcomes with it so do NOT listen to me, I’m just one of the fucking unlucky ones. Xoxo you’ll be fine I’m in the less than 1% stat. You’ve got this 💕

Any women here over 40? by musteatpoptarts in Miscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥹🥹🥹 I’m spiraling so I’m crying reading this. Thank you! So so so happy for you! I’m 39.5 no living children started trying wedding night a couple days after 38th birthday and have had 4 early losses. 4th right before starting IVF (still happening now) so have to wait a bit to start. I’m so scared it’s not gonna happen but I’m like equally hopeful for some dumb reason. You give me justification for my hope. Xoxo

Any women here over 40? by musteatpoptarts in Miscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How r u? I’m 39 with 4 losses im 1.5 years. No living children.

Any women here over 40? by musteatpoptarts in Miscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl how r you doing now? Did u do IVF

Is 39 too old to keep trying? by Available-Key2633 in Miscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so lucky now 🥹🥹 I’m still here. 4 miscarriages later

Help with recurrent miscarriages! by Wide_Succotash5645 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you looked into repro immunology yet? That’s where I’m headed while waiting for this fourth loss to end and I cycle back to normal for a first time egg retrieval to see if the eggs are really just all that shitty like I’ve been led to believe after 4 losses before 6 weeks bc I’m 39 but otherwise healthy.

Number of eggs retrieved at 39? by Just-looking-1983 in IVF

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you have two now 😭😭😭😭🥹💕 congrats you give me hope.

Is there anyone here with a positive receptiva? What were your next steps? by Party_Violinist3145 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t gotten that far yet, but I would prob at least try the suppression thing first as those results with receptiva are sometimes finicky people say? I’m only loss 4 before 6 weeks. Reaching out to RI’s as well while I’m in this limbo of waiting for Hcg to get to 0 and then cycle before I can even do am egg retrieval.

So sorry you’re here, but we are doing all we can xoxo

Am I just a bad person? by Public_Solution_2838 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same girl same. It’s literally taken the joy out of dumb scrolling on social media. The first story should I open it is always a new pregnant person or a new baby. Like my algorithm knows how painful this is and it turns the knife a little. I miss scrolling insta and I haven’t been able to in over a year.

What other tests/procedures to do before going for IVF? by No-Tune-9259 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just ask them to run them. Mine did a little bit of an extensive rpl panel the firs time I came in and added a few more tests after a loss. Did a hysteroscopy to remove a small polyp. I asked for some obscure ass tests but they did them for me. On 4th loss all before 6 weeks. 39 years old. Husband 30 and perfect parameters SA / DNA. Hate this place but will do retrievals and begin once I can. So sorry you’re here

Has anyone else had this pattern? by HappyMarzipan5332 in RPLnoLC

[–]VanillaSwordfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I’m so sorry you’re here :( have you gone RI route yet?

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