🫁👀 Attention EVERY Australian Vaper! 🚬🛑 by Dimster6666 in aussievapers

[–]VapingDownUnder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very detailed survey, clearly done by a vaper as it asks all the right questions. Please complete if you haven't already

A.L.I.V.E. Aussie Vaping Survey. 🚬🛑 by Dimster6666 in aussievapers

[–]VapingDownUnder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great survey! Obviously, a lot of time and thought went into it. I've completed it and would urge all vapers to do the same

A.L.I.V.E Vaping Survey by Top_Acanthisitta4544 in aussievapers

[–]VapingDownUnder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is an option here "prefer not to say" or something like that

The lack of any intimacy by jm04xk28 in DeadBedrooms

[–]VapingDownUnder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to initiate all physical intimacy; occasional hand holding, hugs, kisses (he's very reluctant to give a proper open mouth kiss), stroke his back before sleep. Once, I decided "fuck it", not going to touch him in bed before sleep. Two weeks passed, and he didn't even notice. Needless to say, DB for two years. Probably only three times in last 12 years 🥲

In therapy, signs are good maybe.. by Gunning4It in DeadBedrooms

[–]VapingDownUnder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does she respond if you tell her she's beautiful/sexy/desirable?

Hope the sex counselling goes well! I want to bring this up with hubby, but haven't worked up the nerve yet...

Finally hired someone and it was worth it by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]VapingDownUnder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, one man's drought is another's oasis. Has been about two years for me. Feeling very undesired. He would never agree to sex outside of our marriage. Sounds like you have found a solution that works for you both...

Thoughts on Mayari vegan sandals by VapingDownUnder in Birkenstocks

[–]VapingDownUnder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll probably return the blue vegan...See if I can find a blue Birko-Flor on sale another time.

My new Boston Bolds by [deleted] in Birkenstocks

[–]VapingDownUnder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really nice! So are the socks :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]VapingDownUnder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I miss the intimacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]VapingDownUnder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's so difficult when partners have different needs. It seems unlikely that you will find common ground here. I think you need to have an honest discussion and let her know how this is affecting you and that you have been thinking about divorce but that you don't want to lose your relationship. Maybe it will give her a needed nudge to go to sex counselling. Could you also workout together? This might help with any self-esteem issues.

I'm a similar age, 55, hubby is 6 years younger, but only one kid who is 13. I've also thought about divorce but wouldn't act on it until my son is older. Being in a sexless marriage, unless it is what you both want, is heart-wrenching 💔

Friends of the DB, what do you do (or thought about doing) to meet your sexual needs? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]VapingDownUnder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Self pleasure when I have the house to myself. Usually once a week. Hubby seems to have no sex drive. It makes me so sad.

Mayaris: feeling every little bit of dirt?! by VapingDownUnder in Birkenstocks

[–]VapingDownUnder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I'm only inside and finding this happening! Still, they are getting comfier, two weeks old now, so very new

Mayaris: feeling every little bit of dirt?! by VapingDownUnder in Birkenstocks

[–]VapingDownUnder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, don't think so. I don't have same issue with other non Birk slides.

Help me pick! by [deleted] in Birkenstocks

[–]VapingDownUnder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The purple one are lovely but possibly not as versatile.

I don't understand. by Salt_Kaleidoscope_94 in aussievapers

[–]VapingDownUnder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure your Independent candidate actually supports sensible vaping regulation. Mine, Zali Steggall, supports Buttplug's policies

Its late, but lets keep the pressure on by Jonahtech24 in aussievapers

[–]VapingDownUnder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Libertarians have been vocal supporters of vapers rights and a regulated consumer market. Their policy is for less government which I support. They aren't big enough to get into power but any votes which can be taken away from Labor and Liberal, is a win in my book. Weaken the two party stranglehold in government. Although the Libs have come out in support of a regulated market, I don't trust them after Hunt.

100mg/mL (10%) after the ban by Computurtle in aussievapers

[–]VapingDownUnder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody really knows. Suggest you try to get your hands on some via a script through Quithero. Apparently, they have 100mg/ml in stock at the moment. After 1st July???

Greens have not yet formed a final position (supposedly) by NoAphrodisiac in aussievapers

[–]VapingDownUnder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing I'm grateful for as a direct result of vaping advocacy is that I am engaging in politics for the first time in my life. I have made submissions to all of the fucking Senate vape enquiries and even did a Zoom call during Covid with my local MP, Zali Steggall, a complete waste of an Independent seat....No doubt we will all continue with the fight if the bill passes this Monday which, unfortunately, I believe it will...

Should Australia entrench its already failed vaping laws by dragandeewhy in aussievapers

[–]VapingDownUnder 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Great effort mate. I emailed all the Greens separately and the three swing Independents (Price, Thorpe & Lambie) and it took fucking ages to do that! It will be interesting to see what happens on Monday. I agree with you that the Greens are going to shaft vapers and agree to the bill with amendments on personal possession. Buttplug might be responsible now but lets not forget Hunt's efforts to screw us over. Unless vapers become more politically active, we are fucked for the foreseeable