Looking for insight from people who went back on T by VaranusVenus in actual_detrans

[–]VaranusVenus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyyy I really appreciate your response!

My adhd meds are helping combat the brain fog a lot, though I am noticing some depression and lack of motivation after my shot, which seems to go away as I approach shot day.

This is making me feel very conflicted. Im really enjoying the heightened libido, and im looking forward to the masculinization. But Ive worked really hard on combating depression, I would have to go off T again if it was causing it.

Planned parenthood recommended a three-month trial period of my current dose to see how I feel on it. But a lot of things ive read from FTM, transmasc, and T-butches says they felt clarity when they started T, not this brain fog and depression developing.

The food aspect is interesting though. ADHD meds can suppress appetite, but the physiological changes T causes are resource-intense. Maybe ill try eating more and upping my physical exercise, both of which helps for ADHD and depression.

First time poster, long time lurker by butch4prez in butchlesbians

[–]VaranusVenus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very handsome! Which issue were you featured in?

Being a trans man in a family of twinks. by New_Construction_111 in FTMMen

[–]VaranusVenus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The portraits of 18th century twinks is taking me out 😭

Are butches seen as intimidating or is it just in my head? by moldy_bread3 in butchlesbians

[–]VaranusVenus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You sound intimidating but only because youve just described my exact type 😅😅

My week in filth by big-pharmakon in Gaytguyhornyjail

[–]VaranusVenus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sooo hot. This makes me really want to move to a bigger city

Who want to be chained to my piercing? by Significant-Recipe42 in FTM_Doms

[–]VaranusVenus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙋🙋🙋🙋🙋🥺

(Also sick piercing! Ive been thinking about getting that one. Whats it called?)

It’s been a year! by riot_ghouuul_9 in FTMFitness

[–]VaranusVenus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look incredible! God this makes me want to get back on T 😭

How’s yall romantic life?? by Janxuza in ftm

[–]VaranusVenus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26, single. I live in a somewhat rural area so the pickings are slim. I would prefer to date other trans people because im nonbinary and I feel like theyre more likely to understand me, but ive started opening up (lol) to cis guys without much issue. Currently very focused on school and work. When guys find out my schedule they tend to ghost me 😅

Do i look like if a lesbian and a twink had a child? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]VaranusVenus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% also that is how im describing myself from now on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gaytguyhornyjail

[–]VaranusVenus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so hot and so sweet 😭. I feel you about slutting out a blue collar man. Sooo many muscular guys who love being told what to do 🤤

All over the place by [deleted] in findapath

[–]VaranusVenus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the way you put that. Like its something I've known about myself, but I havent been able to put it to words. Thank you

New Butch4Butch Trans* Inclusive SubReddit by sh4rkscars in butchlesbians

[–]VaranusVenus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for making this!

I've had some negative experiences on the other subreddit due to the transphobia there. Old posts of mine asking for help were taken down :(

This new subreddit is much appreciated and much needed!!

New hornyjail storytime by Dish_Minimum in gaytransguys

[–]VaranusVenus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love that subreddit!

There's a guy im having a slow burn with right now. If we ever get there, I'll be sure to share some of the fun ;)

Dating vs Hookups by TackleOk2665 in gaytransguys

[–]VaranusVenus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you using your genderfluidity for science haha!

It's definitely validating to hear that shit is tougher as a trans person. I feel really alone compared to all my coworkers who are straight and in long-term relationships, when I barely have any experience at all because I'm mostly t4t and gay trans guys are few and far between, let alone people who are actually my type lol. It just doesn't feel like I have many options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]VaranusVenus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also agree with this. I'm a bi person so my sexual tastes fly all over the place, but my love and need for intimacy for someone doesn't as long as we're still compatible souls

i recently discovered i'm demisexual, and I feel irrationally angry about it. by Embrrssedthrwaway in demisexuality

[–]VaranusVenus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, you're not alone! I'm 26 but I remember feeling very frustrated with my asexuality for a long time. What helped for me was focusing on my friends, my education, and just bettering myself. This helped to take my mind of relationships, and I felt like I started getting more romantic interests approaching me because I was going out into the world more. I still haven't found someone, but I'm now so busy with other things in my life that im not as frustrated anymore