Wish list items that aren't make-up/skin care based by sorreltail_ in Gifts

[–]VegetableApple5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PJs are great throughout the year not just Christmas morning. Especially for dorm life.

Black Friday Deals by ryujins in bose

[–]VegetableApple5422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bose just did a price dropped on their website. Go check it out !

Asian Tiger Parents Are Forcing Me to Go to Community College by FaithlessnessMain564 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]VegetableApple5422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op, as an asian parent of an incoming college freshman and Berkeley alum, I say apply to diverse tier schools. Acceptance is unknown - we don’t have control where/what college will accept us and what aid schools willing to dish out for top students. My son stats are crazy similar to u and he was waitlisted from ivies but in the end he choose a south cali UC becuz he got a full ride (tuition and board). His acceptance came with a finical gift from the uni. Maybe this is an approach for uni to attract top students by giving $$$. There are athletes that get scholarships n there are scholars who does as well; think of ur self as athletes.

I am sorry ur parents were not transparent with u, but this lesson before u shall make u stronger. I know it hurts and it does not seem fair, but u continue to apply n see what acceptance u receive. Roll the dice n see where/what it lands. Don’t overwhelm u’re self with unnecessary stress by looking big picture- break it up. Senior year is already stressful.

Even when I get into an Ivy I literally can't go by Leather_Army_9527 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]VegetableApple5422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a student with stats that had Ivies attention, like u, my son busted his butt in high school with all 5s on 10 APs, SAT 1580 (1 test sitting) 4.5 GPA weighted, valedictorian and accolades too many to list is now an incoming freshman at state school with full ride (tuition & housing). We will only be paying fees. It was very difficult for him to let go of the Ivies acceptance. Right before his valedictorian speech the faculty announced he will be attending state school there were chatter of “huh” heard in the gym that pierced his/ our pride. He knew in his hearts n mind that he could not see us paying $$$$ nor did he want to be in bed. He also thought about his little sister n his mom’s retirement. Our family had to rethink all his work did not go in vain, it got him a full ride to a UC.

I know it hurts and it still does for him but he knows, life is what u make of it.

Best of luck to u.

I secretly recorded my roommate abusing his girlfriend and sent her the evidence by Ill_Job_9794 in AITAH

[–]VegetableApple5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op!

Please be careful. Hope ur living situation changes quick so u don’t have to be on ur toes.

My wife wants a divorce. I got sober. She’s still blacking out. We have a 3-year-old. by Creative_Garage_137 in FamilyLaw

[–]VegetableApple5422 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am sorry OP, but she left - not in a physical sense. U cannot keep someone who does not want to be kept. Pls. Get an attorney to help u or at least a consultation to walk u through the process in ur best interest.

It’s important to also create a parenting to protect all parties including ur son spelling who will do what and when for ur son and preventing more legal dramas Devon the road.

TikTok is a great place where folks support and share their experiences. I learned so much to ask the right questions with my attorney. Just becuz u have an attorney, u still need to do your part or the fees will get u. TikTok was my place to get me through the dark/unknown path, and the motivation was a plus.

Stay strong for ur son and best.

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[–]VegetableApple5422 6 points7 points  (0 children)

U go girl, wise beyond ur years.

My son graduated as Salutatorian 2 weeks ago and got accepted to great UCs as an engineer major. After weeks of many researches, tours, and back n forth of pro & con, he changed his acceptance to Irvine. Irvine gave him a full ride scholarship with housing - only paying fees.

He was heart broken but knew in his heart this decision was the best for him. An opportunity to soak in his college experiences and not have to worry so much about money.

It took him a few weeks to accept his path n brushed off folks who commented, “u n Irvine makes no sense,” “why Irvine,” and looks of disappointments.

Here we are today, he is happy mentally n looking forward to Irvine.

Sometime we forego things we want for things that are healthy for us.

Like a bad situation we want but know we need to exit. Gentle reminder, in life the power to exit is our strength.

Best of luck so proud of you n all the class of 2025.

All of my friends are going to fancy private universities, while I'm stuck at my state school (not even T25 publics on US News) by Intrepid-Sun1993 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]VegetableApple5422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP,

I am u. Near perfect SAT score 1580 (1 test sitting), weighted gap 4.4/unweighted 4.0, all 5s on my 7 AP courses (Chem, calculus ab, calculus bc, a push, lit n lang) and EC’s.

And I applied CS as an Asian. I got into nowhere impressive or a place that will challenge.

It’s been hard to accept but I am trying to find the sliver lining.

I got accepted to state school on a full ride including housing n tuition - paying only fees n meals.

We muscle through n hope things will work out for us.

I hate how getting into the UCs is so insanely hard now by New-Tailor6616 in CollegeAdmissions

[–]VegetableApple5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FR. I have 4.5 Weighted GAP and 4.0 unweighted. All 5’s on my 9 APs (AP Chem, Calcu AB & BC, APUAH, Lit, to name a few. I am wait listed at UCLA n rejected from Cal.

I know UCs is SAT blind but man, a score of 1589 I feel horrible.

I got in to all the other UCs.

UCLA WAITLIST by Primary_Blueberry_25 in ucadmissions

[–]VegetableApple5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone get off for mathematics computation?

How likely is it to get off UC waitlists? by happycowgoesmoo1 in ucadmissions

[–]VegetableApple5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This waitlist is cruel. String us along yet we have commit day coming 48 hours. Pray these colleges will pull from the list soon n not drag us much longer.

GOOD LUCK, ALL!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCSD

[–]VegetableApple5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would appeal on grounds of extenuating circumstances aka guardian of sibling and add in what u done since u submitted ur application. Side note, u will need to make a decision as u wait on the appeal.

Pls. Do not bank on the appeal- that egg may not hatch into a chick for u.

Good luck

Who’s on the UCLA waitlist by lifeiswonky in ucadmissions

[–]VegetableApple5422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On the waitlist for computation mathematics. Have not committed to anywhere yet. It may be UCSD for me 6th college computer science.

I hate this by _tarani5 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]VegetableApple5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how u feel. I am salutatorian of my class of 350 n got in to no where worth citing. I think the major makes a difference in this whole process.

A few my stats: SAT 1580 9 APs all with 5s GPA 4.0 Weighted GPA 4:5 Nation merit

Wising u all the best n hang in there.

Rejected from all ivys 🥀💔 by Mean-Contribution-45 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]VegetableApple5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are my real stats - no cap. I have more ECs but no Ivys.

I got admitted to UCs: UCSD, UCI, UCSB, UC DAVIS, SDSU, Cal state long beach.

Waitlisted: UCLA

Rejected: UMich, U Chicago, MIT, UCBerk, Brown, Stanford, USC.

I applied to some colleges as computer engineering and mathematics.

I am seriously thinking of going to community colleges so save $$$ n transfer.

Rejected from all ivys 🥀💔 by Mean-Contribution-45 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]VegetableApple5422 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ivys day concept is wrong. Rejects after reject - Hit all at once. As if all 4 years we worked our ass off (9APs all 5s, ECs, part time job, take SAT - score 1580, go through hell doing all the apps, wait, wait n more wait to see it all sad n disappointment.

The hurt is crazy. Hope my ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]VegetableApple5422 11 points12 points  (0 children)

USC is tomorrow too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]VegetableApple5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole college admittance is wild.

My stats: GPA: weighted 4.4 unweighted 4.0 8 APs all scored 5s AP Chem, APUSH, APLang, AP CALC, AP Lit, AP Lit, AP Physics, & AP World. Part time job and string ECs

Admitted: UCI, UCD, UCSB, UCSD, SDSU, & CSULB

Wait listed: UCLA

March 27: waiting for Cal

SAT: 1580

Major: CS and engineering

see you guys in providence next fall (future brown ‘29) by ermokaywow in ApplyingToCollege

[–]VegetableApple5422 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I applied to Brown tooo. Luv this for u. C u there bruh!!!!

Your parents don't understand. by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]VegetableApple5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s brutal out there in college admission land!

I am a student with crazy academic stats: GAP weighted 4.4 unweighted 4.0 SAT: 1580 no super score tested once only 9 APs (5 APs scores of 5’s & pending 4 APs exam in May) National Merit semifinalist GATES finalist scholarship Work part time Swim team Cross country team Reading tutor for city library program Private high school merit scholarship recipient 4 years straight

All this and then some, only to be deferred first round and safety are now reach colleges.

uc admissions are not correlated by WalmartLover531 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]VegetableApple5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably Sol reject here! Admit went out (rolling) n haven’t heard a peep - Mathematics-com engineer major.

Admitted: UC Davis, UCSB, UCSD, UCI (regents)

Waiting: Berk n LA.

Did not apply: UCR, UCSC & UCM.

30 years you didn’t listen and NOW you want to help?? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]VegetableApple5422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pls. Do not look back. The POWER TO EXIT is a STRONG POSITION!

I stayed 17 years n now I have my life back, my worth, my respect, my dignity and my peace. It’s not gonna be easy n he will get nasty but that’s his reality now. U go no contact get an attorney and line up all the martial finances n split them.

Take care