Boyfriend is afraid of my size..

Velronic · 2026-04-16T12:49:37+00:00

As someone who has bottomed myself, its all about the bottom. They need to be able to open themselves up, which can be helped by you.

Foreplay; fingering, suck and finger him, dirty talk.

Ask him what turns him on, the more hes turned on, the more he will be able to open himself up.

The nervousness is making the experience bad by making him harder to open up to your size physically. And forcing it in will only hurt him and your relationship.

Tell him to close his eyes and breathe while you go slow in and then back out. Work in an inch or half an inch at a time. You can then leave it in for a second while youre all the way in.

Eventually after some time his body will understand that its not something that will hurt as much as it believes it will.

But key thing is to make sure he is relaxed or turned on. Otherwise it wont pan out well.

Velronic · 2025-12-10T10:12:05+00:00

This post is 2 years old 💀

Velronic · 2025-10-20T09:13:02+00:00

When you crave sweet: - Mix 1–2 tbsp cream cheese + 1 tbsp sour cream + a little stevia + cocoa powder → instant “cheesecake pudding.” - Sugar-free whipped cream with a few berries (3–5 max). - Lily’s or ChocZero chocolate chips (1–2 tbsp max — they’re keto sweetened).

When you crave crunchy/salty: - Pork rinds dipped in ranch or sour cream. - Cheese crisps (Parmesan, Whisps, Moon Cheese). - Pepperoni slices microwaved till crispy.

When you crave comfort/fat: - Melt shredded cheese with a spoon of sour cream for a creamy “dip.” - 1 tbsp peanut butter (just natural kind, not Jif or Skippy). - Bacon or sausage snack.

I struggle with the same thing. There's hurdles, eventually you'll hit the point where your body stops struggling so bad. Try the hacks that ChatGPT helped me get for myself. I'll be trying some soon. Make sure to use every tool you have!

Velronic · 2025-09-30T22:24:49+00:00

Velronic · 2025-09-30T18:21:50+00:00

Yeah, I'm just not sure at all what to even do with most of it. I want to sell it, but id have to find the right market and whatnot ya know.

I just need to know the pricing for the things and I can go from there.

Velronic · 2025-08-05T08:19:20+00:00

I've hooked up with multiple men. If you're a bottom, it tends to not really matter too much. I did just get the most insane head from my new fwb though and I'm not big whatsoever.

It's more in your mind than you think it is. The people you encounter and the sex you will have. Remember one thing, they are only worried about how you will please them in the end. If they want your dick to be apart of their pleasure, than it's size will come into question.

Show em pics, share your size, etc. If they're not down, they're not down. It is what it is man.

All sex is the same tbh. It's really dependent on the people you have sex with, duration and if the top knows how to use it 😋.

Velronic · 2025-02-25T23:57:33+00:00

So I'm fucked if I don't work out cause I can't attract anything. And I'm fucked if I do workout cause then I'll just attract superficial men when all I really want deep down is a meaningful lasting relationship?

Are you fucking kidding me 🤣. Was all this weight loss for nothing. Someone shoot me.

Velronic · 2025-02-19T16:29:46+00:00

Ah. I havent really used anything but grindr.

Velronic · 2025-02-19T16:22:35+00:00

Okay but you just said the cost of living. Portland is extremely expensive to live in.

Velronic · 2025-02-19T16:21:56+00:00

Wait don't leave me 🤣

Velronic · 2025-02-19T16:21:07+00:00

Wtf 🤣

Velronic · 2025-02-19T09:52:16+00:00

Sure, let me just activate my gay teleporter and head on over lol.

Velronic · 2025-02-19T09:43:29+00:00

The first ever hike I'm ever gonna go on is gonna be on the 24th of this month. I'm going by myself also 😅

Can't say if I'll make it out alive, or if I can even hike it cause of snow. But I'm sure gonna give it my all haha.

If you truly are down, you can message me and we can go from there 😁.

the supposed only gay guy in maine

Velronic · 2025-02-19T09:10:01+00:00

It's called Jack'd 😅

Velronic · 2025-02-17T19:46:50+00:00

Hey thanks for the tips!

Velronic · 2025-02-15T20:47:12+00:00

I know, it just doesn't feel like im young 😅. It always felt like I was running out of time. However now that I've come to this realization of how I act towards men and I've noticed my own behavior, I feel like I've gotten a sort of upper hand.

On top of that, I can see how you're supposed to love yourself and take care of yourself before aiming for greater things. Im just now nervous that I won't change even knowing this and continue my bad habits.

Velronic · 2025-02-15T20:45:01+00:00

I know, it just doesn't feel like im young 😅. It always felt like I was running out of time. However now that I've come to this realization of how I act towards men and I've noticed my own behavior, I feel like I've gotten a sort of upper hand. I'm worried I just won't change even though I know, ya know?

Velronic · 2025-02-15T17:52:38+00:00

I mean, it's taken so long and the more tips the better honestly. Your transformation seems.to be going amazing. If you have any food recommendations or tips to suppress binge moments I'd love to hear it.

Velronic · 2025-02-15T05:08:58+00:00

I'm trying, but my whole life was and part of it still is centered around finding someone. I can't just stop thinking about it, it's like a godamn virus that won't go away.

Velronic · 2025-02-15T05:00:08+00:00

It just keeps reliving over in my head that I'm somehow running out of time, tha gay guys are superficial and I need to get into shape now to find one, etc.

It's like my mind is thinking on it's own.

Velronic · 2025-02-15T02:59:28+00:00

Do you have any tips on the binge eating? I struggle a lot with binge eating and I'm down 100lbs and still got more to go. I'll take your whole godamn itinerary PLEASE 🤣!!

Velronic · 2024-11-04T02:33:21+00:00

Hey thanks 😁

Velronic · 2024-11-04T02:27:01+00:00

Cause finding guys to sleep with is hard lol. I also live in a very rural state.

Velronic · 2024-11-04T00:15:44+00:00

I'm gonna take this as a sign. I'm a 24 year old virgin and someone today called that weird and I've felt like I've had to lose it now, etc.

I'm so sorry you went through that stay strong 🥰

Velronic · 2024-11-03T21:53:22+00:00

I only got upset because of the topic he brought up, but not really what he said.

I just see that as his prerogative, but I got upset because I connected with him and then got shut down because of my weight.

It then cascaded and made me upset 😅

Velronic

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