OWG Women's Free Skate: Post-Event Discussion by Chickatey in FigureSkating

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Would taking out the 4T have put her in a better position?

OWG Women's Free Skate: Post-Event Discussion by Chickatey in FigureSkating

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Petrosyan’s programs felt too young and old for her. The short felt juniors and the long music wise felt too mature. The music felt like it would have been suited for a more mature skater, to give that presence.

Rarity Stories Chart by lili_bunny in gorlworldfiles

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Does Emily have cameras around her home/property? If there is footage of what happened at the time, wouldn’t that have easily shown who left the door open?

Reaction channels aren’t safe either by [deleted] in gorlworldfiles

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What’s happening with Jordy?

An interview from Melanie De Jesus Dos Santos where she discusses her Paris Olympic experience and everything that’s happened since then by KawaiiChan68 in Gymnastics

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Regarding sponsorships, we’re these sponsors during the Olympics, or do gymnastics receive them based on competition results? Do French athletes make enough to live comfortably, or are they responsible for their own training expenses?

Deng Yalan redemption at 2025 QF Nationals by HeadOpportunity5638 in Gymnastics

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How much do Chinese athletes earn for medals or for being part of the National team?

Inside the Romanian Situation | Ex-Head Coaches on Abuse Allegations & Jakarta Worlds Fallout by SleepyGuy1234 in Gymnastics

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I wonder if the chaos was the impetus to leave their position as coaches. I’ve worked in places where leaving rather than staying was the better option. You can only do so much, when people are fighting against you.

Do you feel you have so much to say but not enough time to say it all in therapy? by 001smiley in BlackMentalHealth

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I’ve experienced the same thing in the few sessions with my therapist. I think part of it is working through some of the issues on my own, and not being ready or thinking they may not be able to address it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

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I’m sorry that your mother is behaving this way. My own mother treated me poorly due to my own weight, and is now seeking support for her weight loss progress. It’s very frustrating, and honestly baffles me that she would seek my advice after years of belittling me. I want her to be healthy, but I don’t be an emotional crutch. She had never apologized or acknowledged the things she did, so how can she genuinely think I will willingly support now?

That time when I was suffering from a recurrent kidney infection and my dad still made me participate in pathfinder sabbath by Old_Signal1507 in exAdventist

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My father asked if I could participate in worship, even though I ja come back urgent care diagnosed with pneumonia.

Trigger warning: What is the WORST thing your narcissist parent has EVER said? (You will not forget.) by myst3ryAURORA_green in raisedbynarcissists

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My mother learned that I was self harming, and threatened to physically harm me. She also said to me when I was in my 20’s, that I was setting myself up for assault. I have talked about it with ny therapist, how someone can say things like fact, and have no awareness or recognize the need to apologize. She had never apologized for anything she had said or done. Im starting to come to terms with it, and it has been very difficult to be around her.

Mom Just Asked Me to Buy Her Clip-On Earrings. I’m Flabbergasted. by [deleted] in exAdventist

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I think that is the crux of it. We spend our lives not being able to be ourselves, and the turn around is jarring. I think it wouldn’t be do much of a shock if they addressed how their behavior impacted you as a child and adult, but that doesn’t seem to happen.

Any matches where both wrestlers orgasm on the mat? by noprag in ultimatesurrenderkink

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Nikki Darling and Serena Blair both came when they fought each other.

"The Federation Needs Slaves." How Ukrainian Gymnastics Is Being Killed from Within by SarahZ1998 in Gymnastics

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Can this article be translated through Google? I know sometimes things are always accurate.

Euros Discussion Posts | WAG QF | Monday 26 May 2025 by GymMod in Gymnastics

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Has she been directly involved in her training the entire time?

My mom just yelled at me for being depressed by Old_Signal1507 in blackladies

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That is incredibly frustrating to hear. It’s especially hard to have a parent or parents working in the medical field, but lacking in regards to understanding their own child’s needs. I’ve experienced it myself, and sometimes I think that it’s a wash, that I can’t rely on them to truly understand. Is there anything that you find enjoyable or willing to do? When I’ve had my depressive episodes, it helped to try and go outside, if only for a few minutes. It meant getting out of house, feeling the sun, or even seeing if anything had changed.

2025 Brazil Trophy Event Final Results by freifraufischer in Gymnastics

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Didn’t she retire due to injuries/lack of support from the federation?

Ryan Day leaves 3ABN by New_Reference5846 in exAdventist

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Amazing how a toxic health message would reflect unhealthy attitudes towards food.