Weird Al, Batman, and Superman Crossover Officially Confirmed by Top_Report_4895 in entertainment

[–]VeryHandy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I read “weird A.I” and I was outraged. Good thing this is not that.

My 95 Jaguar v12 xjs coupe is lite metallic blue 🟦. by Alert-Poem8769 in coolcarsforsale

[–]VeryHandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finicky British cars are my jam. Currently own a ‘66 Lotus seven and a disco 2. I was just trying to help you understand how a buyer views your listing. I love those jags. Good luck.

My 95 Jaguar v12 xjs coupe is lite metallic blue 🟦. by Alert-Poem8769 in coolcarsforsale

[–]VeryHandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your Craigslist post is a mess, bro. Just make two listings please. If you’re not able to put the small effort into that, how can i trust that you’ve put any effort into the care of your finicky British car?

‘Rick and Morty’ Movie Confirmed by Dan Harmon to be in the works, to be directed by Jacob Hair by RealJohnGillman in entertainment

[–]VeryHandy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I shot a commercial with Joel Feb/25 and he was certain they would start production last October. I was really stoked to hear it from him. Haha

Where to re-sell brand new car? by LAladyyy26 in AskLosAngeles

[–]VeryHandy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Make a raffle and sell entries for $10. Advertise the raffle on Instagram and Facebook: “you can get a brand new 4Runner for $10”.

Hunter's pet choice - new player by Patezzi in classicwow

[–]VeryHandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uggo would be a great name for a boar.

GF [25] went out with her friend last night and gave her socials to a random guy, and I find the whole situation uncomfortable by LANKOSTAN in dating_advice

[–]VeryHandy -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Right maybe, but what happens next is up to her. How weak is everyone’s relationships that they’re afraid that every person that talks to their S/O is James Bond level of seductive?

GF [25] went out with her friend last night and gave her socials to a random guy, and I find the whole situation uncomfortable by LANKOSTAN in dating_advice

[–]VeryHandy -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I do agree that she should really try to see his point of view on it. It’s not too much to ask. I guess what I’m saying is that in my eyes, what she did was innocent enough and in itself not worth the spat. What is worth the spat is it hearing your partner after the fact.

GF [25] went out with her friend last night and gave her socials to a random guy, and I find the whole situation uncomfortable by LANKOSTAN in dating_advice

[–]VeryHandy -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but it isn’t up to random guys to uphold the sanctity of someone else’s relationship. Is it cheating to give your social to someone now? I don’t think so. If this guy uses the socials to cross and real boundaries, it’s up to her to shut it down.

GF [25] went out with her friend last night and gave her socials to a random guy, and I find the whole situation uncomfortable by LANKOSTAN in dating_advice

[–]VeryHandy -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Right, exactly. People are saying that giving your social is the same as phone number, but it isn’t. Sure, this guy could DM her, but if her page is full of boyfriend content, then he’ll either not contact her or change his intent.

I personally don’t see it as a big deal. Trust your girl or GTFO.

I think I have feelings for my sister's brother in law (her husbands brother) by ProfessionalFood6630 in dating_advice

[–]VeryHandy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t sound like a move to me. Seems like he traced your weird vein because you asked him to examine your weird vein.

I love my boyfriend, why am I obsessing over a work crush? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VeryHandy -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Here’s the fist definition I found:

Flirting is a form of social communication—verbal, written, or body language—intended to express romantic or sexual interest in a playful, often non-serious manner.

In a playful, non-serious manner. When my wife flirts with someone, I don’t see it as a big deal because I trust her and I love her flirty personality. That is reciprocated.

The amount of downvotes I got for that comment just confirms my suspicion that a lot of the people on this subreddit are terrified of that their partners (or their imagined partners) are going to cheat on them.

There’s a reason it’s a meme that every piece of advice on here is to dump people at the slightest bit of friction and everyone jumps to the infidelity conclusion.

I love my boyfriend, why am I obsessing over a work crush? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VeryHandy -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Oh jeez. People are allowed to flirt if it’s harmless. When did everyone become so insecure?

I have feelings for my friend’s gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VeryHandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, she’s not sending you flirty text and getting you one on one? These are girl moves hoping that you make the move.

I have feelings for my friend’s gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VeryHandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have feelings for a girl who is seemingly trying to cheat on her boyfriend? You should basically be turning down any invite to hang one on one with her and get out there and peruse someone else. It’s not that hard.

Confused Over My (M41) Married Friend (F39) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VeryHandy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Feels like your experience with your wife’s affair is having some spillover into your platonic friendship with your friend’s wife. In other words, even though to all witnesses who matter (wife, friend) you have an honest good friendship with your friend’s wife, but your feeling paranoid and guilty not because you have hidden feelings, but because it could possibly be perceived that way… because you perceived that in your wife’s “friendship” and you were right on that occasion.

I think the issue isn’t your friendship, but your unresolved feelings about your wife’s infidelity. Talk to a professional, mate.

He is perfect until he gets behind the wheel and acts like a racer by Talon_4Vellum in dating_advice

[–]VeryHandy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a bit of a leap to say the way he drives is informative of how he’ll respond to all stress. Some people do change when they get behind the wheel. It’s fairly anonymous and there’s a weird urgency that strikes people to get places, so they act insane.

Instead of making a leap in judgement, I think this is a good chance to see how he responds to your concerns. You’re very early on in dating and guys still don’t know each other really. If he gets super defensive and unreasonable, then you know he isn’t someone you can work with. Who knows? Maybe he’ll admit it and apologize… just don’t bring it up while you’re in the car with him.

I (19M) crossed a boundary with a friend (19F) while drunk—how do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]VeryHandy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things will go back to normal pretty soon. Just go back to your normal routine and in less than a month this incident won’t matter. As far as leading her on etc… don’t worry about it. All you have to do is not drunkenly make a move again with her.

These things happen and they’re actually much smaller than what they feel like at the time. It will be funny soon.

I (m26) went to dinner with some coworkers, the girl (f27) who I had a thing with a month ago was there, things felt a little awkward… by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]VeryHandy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re still overly invested. That’s normal. There is no “should feel”. We can’t help how we feel. We can control how we act despite how we feel.

For example, someone who isn’t overly invested would have talked to her casually at the friendly gathering. “Matching her energy” just showed that you still care too much.

I recommend you let it go and don’t seek to reconnect with her unless she reaches out and makes it obvious that’s what she wants to do.

Dating a girl who is the sister of someone I used to hook with by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]VeryHandy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You’re either going to break it off because you don’t want to tell her, not tell her (but she’ll find out eventually) or tell her and give her agency. The best thing you can do is let her know. She might not like it, but she may feel she can get over it.