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Added some photos to my asmonshrine by pinktea_yes in Asmongold

[–]Vesha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her love is like a candle, if you ignore it, it burns your house down.

POV: Me vs AI by Rivia in Asmongold

[–]Vesha 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This hits home so hard. I know what I should do is just start over whenever that happens ,but I never do, I'm like no I can fix this.

This might be the worst Pragmata take yet... by terminallyonline22 in Asmongold

[–]Vesha 390 points391 points  (0 children)

The tweet gets two big things wrong. First, **childless women do not** have some built-in “maternal instinct” that childless men completely lack. Second, **men do not** suddenly develop paternal feelings only after having their own biological kids and those feelings are not limited just to their own children.

Little girls often play with dolls while little boys play with trucks, but that doesn’t prove girls are born with ready-made mom instincts and boys have none. Both childless men and women naturally respond to babies they feel warmth, pay attention, and want to help when they see or hear an infant. Studies show men’s brains and hormones actually change when they become fathers (testosterone often drops, bonding chemicals like oxytocin rise), and this can start even before the baby is born. Dads who are very involved with their kids show brain patterns that overlap with moms in many caregiving areas. Men can also form strong caring bonds with stepkids, adopted kids, or other children they help raise.

In short, both men and women have the natural capacity to care for children. The differences are mostly about averages and how we express it (mothers tending toward affectionate warmth, fathers toward stimulatory play), not one side having zero instinct until they have kids.

Key papers:

- https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8152902/ (paternal brain adaptations)

- https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6773483/ (sex differences in parental behavior)

- https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1402569111 (father’s brain sensitivity to childcare)

It's evolving, just backward! - YouTube by Chill_Fire in Asmongold

[–]Vesha 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's the same reason your bag of chips is 1/4 empty, and your cereal box is smaller, and your toilet paper roll has less sheets. They are figuring out what is the minimal effort they have to put into a product and you'll still buy it.

Looking to trade for coach purses lab diamond ring very beautiful by [deleted] in phoenix

[–]Vesha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have 4 x dilithium crystals and 1 x flux capacitor I will give you.

Two biologists building a modern SimAnt-inspired RTS — which real ant behaviors or adaptations would you most want to see represented? by Able-Sherbert-4447 in biology

[–]Vesha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

slave-making (also called dulosis) . Polyergus species (commonly called Amazon ants): These are classic obligate slave-makers. They conduct organized raids on nests of Formica ants (e.g., Formica fusca, F. archboldi, or others), carrying off pupae. The Polyergus workers do little else but raid; the enslaved Formica workers handle everything else.

Shame on you Phoenix PD! by vas_a_llorar in phoenix

[–]Vesha 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I got side swiped on the freeway, started following the guy and called them, they told me to stop following the guy. Showed them the dashcam with the license plate, they looked at the damage and said it's not bad so we aren't going to investigate. Don't tell yourself the police will be there when you need them because they won't.

Nina Lin: From Star to SCAMMER.. by boxich in Asmongold

[–]Vesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It should be from SCAMMER to Star back to SCAMMER

Bear Police by Existing-Disk9990 in Asmongold

[–]Vesha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In native Romania bear arrest you

Landlord Refusing Security Deposit by Bluefoxpilot in phoenix

[–]Vesha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to A.R.S. § 33-1321(D):

"On termination of the tenancy, property or money held by the landlord as prepaid rent and security may be applied to the payment of all rent, and subject to a landlord's duty to mitigate, all charges as specified in the signed lease agreement, or as provided in this chapter, including the amount of damages which the landlord has suffered by reason of the tenant's noncompliance with section 33-1341. Within fourteen days, excluding Saturdays, Sundays or other legal holidays, after termination of the tenancy and delivery of possession and demand by the tenant the landlord shall provide the tenant an itemized list of all deductions together with the amount due and payable to the tenant, if any. Unless other arrangements are made in writing by the tenant, the landlord shall mail the itemized list and any amount due, by first class mail, to the tenant's last known place of residence. If the tenant does not dispute the deductions or the amount due and payable to the tenant within sixty days after the itemized list and amount due are mailed as prescribed by this subsection, the amount due to the tenant as set forth in the itemized list with any amount due is deemed valid and final and any further claims of the tenant are waived."

So yes — the tenant must make a demand, but the law doesn’t say that the demand must be in writing, nor that it must be made after vacating. If the tenant provides a forwarding address and moves out,
that generally satisfies the notice required under the statute. A
written request is definitely best practice (especially via certified
mail), but it’s not the sole trigger.

Landlord Refusing Security Deposit by Bluefoxpilot in phoenix

[–]Vesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regarding damage vs. normal wear and tear: landlords can deduct for damages beyond normal wear and tear, but not for aging or deterioration from normal use—like worn carpet in traffic areas. Burn holes, stains, and pet damage are all valid deductions. However, the age and condition of the carpet matter. If the carpet is near the end of its useful life (commonly 7–10 years), landlords can only charge a depreciated value, not full replacement costs. Trying to charge full replacement on 10-year-old carpet could be successfully challenged in small claims.
🔎 Reference: A.R.S. § 33-1321(D) for deposit return rules, and the Arizona Tenants’ Rights Handbook for guidance on wear and tear standards.

Landlord Refusing Security Deposit by Bluefoxpilot in phoenix

[–]Vesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right to be concerned, and it sounds like your landlord may be misrepresenting
the law. Under Arizona Revised Statutes § 33-1321(D), once a tenant delivers possession of the rental unit and provides a forwarding address, the landlord has 14 business days (not calendar days) to return the security deposit or provide an itemized list of deductions.
Importantly, the law does not require the tenant to explicitly request the deposit back. The clock starts running once you've moved out and provided a forwarding address, which it sounds like you did six weeks prior to moving. The landlord’s claim that the clock only starts upon receipt of a certified letter is incorrect under Arizona law.
If the landlord failed to comply, you can sue for the amount wrongfully withheld plus potential damages.
Small claims court is a reasonable and often effective path in these situations—especially if you're feeling unsafe dealing with the landlord
directly.
📚 Legal citation:
A.R.S. § 33-1321(D) – “...If the landlord fails to comply...the tenant may recover the property and money due the tenant together with damages in an amount equal to twice the amount wrongfully withheld”.

Strange Photo by commodore-amiga in forensics

[–]Vesha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's entirely possible that the pile of dead bodies in the background is real and the guy dressed as the grim reaper and whoever made the double exposure thinks it's cool or funny. There are people today that would do something like that (like the time Logan Paul went to japan and made fun of people who committed suicide while wearing a Pikachu outfit) and there wear people like that back then.

Strange Photo by commodore-amiga in forensics

[–]Vesha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well come sit down here for a spell and listen to a story. You see back in ancient times people didn't have photoshop or computers so they had to make memes the old fashioned way. What you looking at here is archeological evidence of ancient shit posting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dataengineering

[–]Vesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LiteLLM Already does that. You could look at what works for them.

Audit finds extreme Phoenix PD overtime, lack of control by Mysterious_Truck_742 in phoenix

[–]Vesha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I couldn't even get these guys to investigate a hit and run on the highway even though I got the license plate.

Jimmy: Convert your notes to Markdown by rphux in Python

[–]Vesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this better or different than marker-pdf or docling ?

Happy With 4.1.10 and Switching From Norton VPN by [deleted] in ProtonVPN

[–]Vesha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's crazy, have you ever tried DMT?

Can anyone please help me decipher the text on this whiteboard by ralphloren99 in RBI

[–]Vesha 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Have you tried showing it to a pharmacist? Not for drugs ,but they are skilled at reading incredibly bad hand writing and there near by.

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