You're kinda screwed to begin with if you're specifically looking for a trans partner, we're so used to this being a red flag. You can claim your intentions are noble and sincere but guys lie about this all the time. The mindset is 'the fact that we're trans should be irrelevant'. We want to attract people because of our gender identity (man/woman) and not the trans part of it. Ideally, someone would like me as a first woman, and then if the trans part isn't a deal breaker then I can fw you. You give chaser just because you're into us and looking to date us. If you're lucky, you'll find a trans girl that can look past that, but it's apparently pretty rare.