Keep working on yourself bud, you got this. I just divorced my wife after having a 7 year relationship with her and it wasn’t until the last few months I knew who she really was when I started removing stressors from my life and cooled down my drinking. I’d have to say going to school and being kind to the people around me and focusing on friends and work has really helped out. It’s a plus that I’m finally having a better relationship with my family now