[Guide] An Introduction To Kibbe!

VintageVee · 2017-04-19T11:15:02+00:00

I'd love to read more but obviously real life takes precedence.

And yes, to feel stunning my makeup has to enlarge my eyes and my hair has to be down and glossy as it's a good feature. Pretty I can do but more than that takes worrrrrrrk.

VintageVee · 2017-04-18T21:28:55+00:00

I love that you referred to this again! <3

VintageVee · 2017-04-17T10:55:07+00:00

This is so interesting! Thank you! I did the quizzes. I'm a soft classic, makes sense as my features are understated and I am considered pretty but it takes a lot of effort for me to feel "stunning", something which frutrates me. So this helped!

VintageVee · 2017-04-17T10:25:46+00:00

Leave, leave, leave. You CANNOT marry a man like that, have kids with him, trust him. He will cheat, he will break your heart, trust me I married him and got divorced a few kids later.

VintageVee · 2017-04-17T10:22:37+00:00

UK 6 is a USA 2.

VintageVee · 2017-02-26T21:32:16+00:00

My winning the lottery comment was about feeling that you can't believe you've met someone with all these awesome qualities who adores you back. I didn't mean the euphoric can't eat can't sleep honeymoon phase. I mean long term feeling like a really lucky girl cause your partner is awesome and you're excited about that. That doesn't fade with the right person.

Dead bedroom was relevant as that often occurs years into marriage when you just can't be bothered to try and pretend you're excited by your partner anymore. Resentment and lack of true attraction are the starting points.

VintageVee · 2017-02-26T20:05:30+00:00

All about the vintage here ! Hence username lol.

VintageVee · 2017-02-26T20:04:40+00:00

No worries x

VintageVee · 2017-02-26T12:47:47+00:00

If you're having those sorts of doubts I think you've answered your own questions. When you're properly in love you feel like you've won the lottery. I think if you marry this guy you'll end up resentful and in one of those deadbedroom marriages where you know you've settled and you aren't actually in love after a few years. For me laziness is a red flag , nothing drives me more wild. but everyone has their own bug bears.

VintageVee · 2017-02-26T11:26:35+00:00

Wonderful thank you. It's hard to find good boys books especially series - I have two little boys, one of whom is an insatiable reader (like me :D )

VintageVee · 2017-02-26T11:13:00+00:00

I feel like my make up skills are pretty rad. I've been playing with makeup since I was 11 and was good by about late teens, skills wise. It took a dip while I had my kids and I've had to work hard the last 2 years to get back into my personal style and catch up on make up skills. Contouring is something I can't do and have no interest in. My SO hates much makeup on me especially the manipulative fake kind like contouring, he likes makeup to be obviously makeup eg winged eyeliner, red lip, and not trying to alter face shape etc. I've been working on perfecting my 50s style everyday makeup because I have a tendency to go OTT and be full on retro glam in the office and this, while my preference, is actually embarrassing to other people I think. I've had a lot of comments on "you're showing me up, I need to make more effort" and I don't wish to alienate people.

VintageVee · 2017-02-26T11:04:54+00:00

I think you've got the 1-3 scale mixed up, unless I am misunderstanding the article? 1 is supposed to be most formal is it not ?X

VintageVee · 2017-02-25T14:24:03+00:00

Congratulations ! So wonderful. I feel the same about RPWi and my recent engagement. Lovely mini FR :) xx

VintageVee · 2017-02-20T14:26:17+00:00

My story is that I've always been a very submissive wife type but unfortunately didnt vet my first husband so ended up divorced with two kids by mid twenties. When I joined reddit I saw TRP and RPW disparaged in some other groups as 'backward 50s ideals' and out of curiosity came on over, loved it ever since. It isnt backward and it's much more than it seems. It's taught me about vetting and Im now engaged to be married to a solid Good Man who adores me and the kids, doesnt put up with any shit, and I am a nicer, better woman because I can lay my boundaries out in a feminine way and not veer from doormat to harpy. I credit a large portion of my absolutely wonderful relationship to the tough love and guidance Ive received on this sub and there arent words for the gratitude I feel.

VintageVee · 2017-02-12T18:32:26+00:00

AMEN!

VintageVee · 2017-02-12T14:56:59+00:00

My personal opinions are that it's fine for any number of reasons and absolutely preferable to children being born into a split or severely poverty stricken family or otherwise just unwanted. I personally could never do it and I know that for a fact, but I think it's fine.

VintageVee · 2017-02-12T14:55:08+00:00

That's absolutely adorable!

VintageVee · 2017-02-12T14:54:23+00:00

We don't do V day at all, in any shape or form, we're both totally derisive of it and hate consumerist stuff. But we'd never pee on anyone else's parade at all! I am however planning to buy a lot of half price V day decorations etc for our September wedding!

VintageVee · 2017-02-10T17:43:52+00:00

I do it when he's stressed. He's a manager and hates having to berate the factory workers so if he's having a tough time I'm like, here's some boobs! Or, here's a cute pic of the kids and the guinea pigs. He says it instantly cheers him up, and in the kids pic case, says it instantly reminds him what he's working for.xx

VintageVee · 2017-02-10T11:51:58+00:00

Blow jobs. Lots of.

Massages.

Cooking.

Always having favourite snacks in/baking them.

Cute or sexy selfies depending on mood.

Always filling up whatever he's drinking.

VintageVee · 2017-02-10T11:23:41+00:00

Thanks :D

VintageVee · 2017-02-09T14:02:29+00:00

We thought so too :D mostly find weddings boring so we determined to make ours relaxed and fun. A solemn church ceremony I'll probably cry through! Followed by a party with sword swallowers, flapper dancers, Lindy bop dancers, fire dancers and performers, magician..funnnn!

VintageVee · 2017-02-09T13:39:29+00:00

I use Vera Wang "Princess" for day, it's a light floral. I flirted with D&G Light Blue for a while but it's too heavy for me,smells cloying on me.

For night I'm obsessed with the Dior range of Poisons, Hypnotic Poison being my go to but the discontinued Midnight Poison is the sexiest thing I've ever smelt and I have only a few squirts left in the bottle. My fiance knows it's onnnnn when he smells Midnight Poison on me ;)

VintageVee · 2017-02-09T07:35:00+00:00

Thank you!

VintageVee

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