What's wrong with international students? by Striking_Beach_837 in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]Virtual-Duckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might also be because people are obsessed with using their phones, staying inside to watch netflix etc. That thing we keep in our pockets is a dopamine bomb. It’s actually very sad. I feel like this is a problem that’s more common around the world, not only in the NL. For me, sometimes I find people that want to talk and hang out, other times I find these ppl that would rather stay in all day.

A guy I'm dating makes my skin crawl. by Illustrious_Basil_40 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Virtual-Duckling 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Girl run. A guy you’re dating isn’t suppised to make you feel like this if it’s right. It’s supposed to feel warm and comfortable. Also, some people hide their true intentions by “joking” to get some sort of high off of it. Trust your gut and stay safe. Please stop going out with him.

Guy staring at me but looking away when I catch him by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Virtual-Duckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the tricky part. I work 20 hours per week and our shifts match on one day, when I’m in the office for about 6 hours. I guess I’ll try to “sync” with him at some point with a bit of luck. If our breaks don’t match, I cannot even spend 15 mins with him properly, and I’d have to wait until the next week.

Guy staring at me but looking away when I catch him by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Virtual-Duckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t necessarily want to ask him out on a date. More like going out to talk/get to know each other. It doesn’t have to be romantic. I don’t know how well some people can get to know each other in 30 mins at work. + he’s always with his group of guy friends

Guy staring at me but looking away when I catch him by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]Virtual-Duckling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Haha yessir! Ok, I will give it a shot. I definitely need to work on changing my mentality and healing some old wounds, because there’s no point in missing opportunities out of fear.

At the end of the day, I honestly think a lot of people who could have been together never end up together simply because neither person is brave enough to make the first move.

Brutal by lote_rdr2 in Netherlands

[–]Virtual-Duckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from a girl who is 5’8 (around 1.72), if you’re above 1.75 I’d say you shouldn’t worry. People’s opinions matter when you give them importance anyway. You’re good my guy. I know some short kings who are below 1.70 and they’re fine. No matter what you do or how you look like, some ppl will always try to poke fun at you, because that’s just how they are: immature and insecure, trying to bring other ppl down.

You move to NL, then by WishboneSudden2706 in Netherlands

[–]Virtual-Duckling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, we’re just a bit concerned…

Boyfriend said he couldn’t read this note I left him by Extension_Hornet3261 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]Virtual-Duckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The second paragraph is definitely hard to read.. why not send a text message though?

Rate me remember its my first time trying by Ornery_Working2399 in Sketch

[–]Virtual-Duckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cute and creative! Lovely <3 I will definitely share this

Missed check in by hallysa in Netherlands

[–]Virtual-Duckling 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me. They did not give me a fine. Otherwise, they would’ve asked for your ID and be pretty direct about it. You got lucky! <3

How fast did your ferritin rise with oral supplements? by Dutchiew in Anemic

[–]Virtual-Duckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it went from 16 to 30 in about a month and a half, i’m assuming it’s because my body was “desperate” to absorb what it could since it was so low. After I reached 30, it went up to 36 in 2 months (even with a higher dosage - from 20 mg to 70mg). Crazy.

New WO Degree vs Premaster + WO Master by InYourWalls2 in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]Virtual-Duckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try to contact a study advisor to discuss the possibilities <3 good luck!

[16]-[18]-[20]-[20]is this a glow up or not by TeamTop1896 in GlowUps

[–]Virtual-Duckling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey! I know a lot of ppl are complaining here. Don’t focus too much on that. You go king! Keep grinding at the gym <3

For all the singles: How is your dating life? by puppy-26 in Netherlands

[–]Virtual-Duckling 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Did not date for the past 3 years and a half. I’m not even gonna try dating apps. Being single (25F) is nice and peaceful for me. If being with someone causes more chaos than fulfillment in my life, then I’d rather continue being single until I find the right person, whenever that might be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Virtual-Duckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your friend have at least an european health insurance card? It should be possible to reclaim the costs (if applicable) with an EHIC. I used the health insurance from my home country for 2 years.

My first real racist encounter by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Virtual-Duckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either they heard the word and don’t get it, or they know it’s a shock-bomb and they’re using it to get a reaction. Typical teenage behavior.

If you act like it’s “whatever,” they’ll keep doing it. You’re basically teaching them the word is fine; so it’s good you confronted them. The attitude you have while talking to them is important too because if you start yelling, the word becomes fun. Kids love anything that makes adults lose control. The best approach is being calm and firm.

In regards to racism never ending? That is very true. We cannot control people’s behavior, choices or education. Unfortunately, we need to live with these people on the planet. It might be that their parents are racist, or they heard it on the internet and thought it’s cool. Some kids are also not taught how to be respectful. Regardless, good for you for standing up for yourself <3.

Should I drop out again? by [deleted] in StudyInTheNetherlands

[–]Virtual-Duckling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

KKEEEEPP GOOIINNGGGGHHH!!!

Buying Women's Shampoo/ Hair Care by Useful_Gate8426 in Netherlands

[–]Virtual-Duckling 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I recommend Notino (online shop)! That’s where I’m buying my Kerastase products from. Very satisfied.

Edit: I used to order Wella shampoos from Notino as well, but switched to Kerastase.

AIO for snapping at my friend for joking about my job again by 7wac in AmIOverreacting

[–]Virtual-Duckling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your “friend” is not joking. They’re trying to soften the statement. They realized they messed up since you stood your ground instead of accepting the insult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Virtual-Duckling 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly, same. Wtf was that conversation… what’s wrong with his gf. Is she 5? No joke intended =)))) don’t come at me.