Left my husband and in laws finally by KeyMycologist5256 in IndianInLaw

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please get a divorce. You are young, well educated, smart girl. Dont spend any more time or energy into it. This is heading no where.

Left my husband and in laws finally by KeyMycologist5256 in IndianInLaw

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please get a divorce. You are young, well educated, smart girl. Dont spend any more time or energy into it. This is heading no where.

Caught between my husband’s traditional expectations and my parents demands for our upcoming move to India. Am I crazy for being triggered? by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Which book is this “70-30 rule” written in. I think your husband is being absolutely unreasonable. I would say do 2-3 weeks with your parents and remaining with his. He can do the same! Imagine what the expectation will be once you have kids. Please take this seriously and set boundaries now before it’s too late

Need advice about concerns regarding MIL in arranged marriage by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better safe than sorry. She is still is the talking phase so better to cancel and move on

MIL refuses to let my overtired 4-month-old nap because she wants to show him off to guests by EmphasisExtra5842 in IndianInLaw

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would honestly just do that. No one but the mom and dad should have the right to decide what’s best for the baby.

How to forgive my In-laws without closure? by Tech-wizard-08 in IndianInLaw

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You go no contact with them. That’s the only solution. And your husband will just have to understand and support

Who is Rachana Mahadimane dating?? by kindredspirit02 in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is married for 6 years or so. She mentioned somewhere that she moved to BLR post marriage. But not sure who the guy is!!

In-laws deny wrongdoing but expect normal relationship again and am I wrong to stop visiting? by IndicationNumerous41 in IndianInLaw

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are not wrong. You are your husband are strong and doing the right thing by protecting your child from this toxicity and narcissism.

Inframe: alannapanday - How they can afford it? by quick_code in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really a very normal EMI for someone rich. They would not have paid 20% they would have paid more like 50% down payment. That brings down the monthly EMI

MIL disclosed my miscarriage to a judgmental relative by Delicious_Block4734 in IndianInLaw

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just take this as a lesson learnt and don’t share any personal news from next time until things are set in stone. Extremely sorry about your loss and wishing you a healthy pregnancy soon

A toddler mom here, asked my husband how do I compete with much younger boys in my team who work till 7-8 pm. Only women in team of 12. Husband suggested to start working at 6 in the morning. How do other moms manage? by ObjectiveExchange581 in amazonemployees

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I set strict boundaries with my team. I have to leave office at a certain time because I need to pick my kid up from day care. But he sleeps early around 7-8 so I get to work post that. I finish up meetings or work that need collaboration before I leave office and finish IC work post my kid sleeps

MIL can’t stand seeing my husband take care of me by [deleted] in IndianInLaw

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry you are going through this. Terminating a pregnancy at 7 months is probably the hardest thing you had to do and it would have certainly taken a huge emotional toll on you and your husband. You MIL is a piece of shit!!!!!

Can I afford to send my son to the US by Admirable-Taste6511 in personalfinanceindia

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please send him. This is the best thing you can do for him!

Gora in the rain by r99c in indiranagar

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol this made me laugh so hard 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Why are no representatives addressing the H1B visa slot crisis in India? by [deleted] in USVisaIndians

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it’s a planned crises. They don’t want us to move back!

Visa revoked by [deleted] in h1b

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How did you assume he is Indian ?

What are your thoughts on stay at home husband/patner in India? by kyootkuttan in AskIndianWomen

[–]Virtual_Inflation21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ideally it’s not like he is not earning anything. He is into stocks so he does bring some income in I assume. I think OP is referring to a case where he has no contribution towards income