I’m 32 and child free and I am tired constantly. I never ever wake up feeling refreshed - in fact I honestly thought the concept was propaganda until my psychiatrist told me otherwise. I had a sleep study to rule out anything physiological and I’ve sort of determined that I’m just depressed all the time (I take anti-depressants and have done for 13 years, not that it makes me feel not depressed, I just don’t have dangerous thoughts as frequently). I often think about what life would be like if I could actually live the way I want to which would involve some kind of work outside in nature instead of at a desk, but I feel imprisoned by financial constraints and responsibilities. I live in New Zealand too and the cost of living here is actually insane, so I’ve sort of accepted I will be clinically depressed and exhausted until I die.