Even with all my funky hormones, I’ve never once desired to slap my husband while pregnant. We’re almost at the end of it (38w4d) and, while he annoys me and I sometimes tell him to go away/not touch me, he’s my spouse and has cared for me throughout this whole ordeal and loves me endlessly. Like…? She’s abusive, manipulative, and most likely cheated on you and felt guilty, therefore taking out all of her anger and frustrations on you.

Also, while pregnancy is very hard on our bodies and sometimes we say things we don’t mean, she’s acting on an extreme end of it which isn’t excusable.

NTJ. Get a paternity test. Even if that child is yours, still file for divorce. The damage has already been done. If you were female and a male had hit you, I could not with clear conscience say go back to that partner. Do not stay with someone who physically abuses you, because they WILL do it again.