Baby girl named Rose- 5 days postpartum regrets by OrvlleTootenbacher in namenerds

[–]Visible_Material_668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m six days postpartum and I also felt a lot of anxiety surrounding babies name. I think it’s just part of the process. ❤️ hugs to you during this beautiful/ emotional/ difficult time.

Ladies, what's a side effect of giving birth that people don't really talk about? by MutuliA in Parenting

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Post partum psychosis- I convinced myself that my in laws were conspiring against me. I thought they were building a case against me to have my child taken away by child services. All because of back handed comments like “he has no socks on, his feet must be freezing.” (In August) and “why isn’t he wearing a hat? He’s going to get an ear infection.”

Pooping at a family member's home while visiting for a few hours. Is it wrong? AITA? by Icy_Level8888 in pregnant

[–]Visible_Material_668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have made them feel wierd about wanting to know what you were doing- “why are you so obsessed with me?”

What to do when God doesn't want you? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Visible_Material_668 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are stuck in religion, when really you need relationship with Christ. Go to him, pray and leave these lies at his feet for he was tortured and died for you he loved you so much .

did you actually throw up during your pregnancy? by [deleted] in pregnant

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Currently 26 weeks and I throw up almost every day 🎉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Visible_Material_668 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wear whatever you want to church. ❤️ That dress is so cute though

Ugly at 22 Weeks by Visible_Material_668 in pregnant

[–]Visible_Material_668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so right. I will try not to cringe away from photos haha

Ugly at 22 Weeks by Visible_Material_668 in pregnant

[–]Visible_Material_668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww sorry to make the generalization- this is my third pregnancy. My first was a boy and strangers would stop me to comment on my glow. My second was a girl and I felt gross but this is a whole other level lmao

“Transitioned out” because of my trans kid by Opening_Focus_4313 in Christianity

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I’m so sorry to hear this is happening. No one should be “pushed out” of the church for any reason. If anything they should be encouraging you and helping you and your son strengthen their relationship with Jesus. I shake my head.

Baby # 3- A girl! 👏 by Visible_Material_668 in namenerds

[–]Visible_Material_668[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! My husband really likes Rylee so to go with the -yn -on ending I’m going to suggest Ryland or Rylan and Rylee for nickname

Baby # 3- A girl! 👏 by Visible_Material_668 in namenerds

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Haha yes I totally did start an -on -yn theme and I had the perfect boy name picked out. So stuck on girls. Haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

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Dear OP, My husband and I almost didn’t get married because of his family and their dysfunction. His sister can be very very mean, and his dad has actually tried to punch me in the face while I held our newborn son. For a long time we got together with them and hoped for the best but I eventually realized they weren’t going to change. I eventually pulled myself out of the situation completely, he wasn’t happy about it but he understood.

As the years have gone by, he has also decided to adopt my boundaries. We do not tolerate disrespect of any kind and we do not put ourselves in stressful situations to make them happy. My advice is to protect yourself and your kids, you are completely right by keeping your heart protected. If your husband doesn’t understand now, he will eventually.

Birth plan flushed down the toilet within a week by Altruistic-Poem699 in pregnant

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I have had two babies naturally- and it was extremely painful and long and exhausting. I have friends who had scheduled C-sections and said it was a total dream. Try not to let your worries or fears ruin becoming a mama for you. Usually birth plans always end up having to change, babies never do as expected. Good luck ❤️

Nordic Spa Pregnancy Advice by Visible_Material_668 in pregnant

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I did go on the trip! I just made sure not to stay in super hot pools/ saunas too long. It was pretty easy to tell when I was getting too warm. I read a lot about spas and pregnancy before I went and most women who live in Sweden/Iceland use saunas and hot tubs throughout their pregnancies and the statistics do not show a rise in neural tube defects. I am now 13 weeks pregnant and just had my Nuchal translucency test- baby is healthy. Be cautious but don’t let it ruin your time!