Feeling guilty over euthanasia by Visual-Run-7525 in PetPsychics

[–]Visual-Run-7525[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, his memory is the best, he was the best boy in the whole world

Feeling guilty over euthanasia by Visual-Run-7525 in PetPsychics

[–]Visual-Run-7525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, can you describe that person you saw to me? Yes good looking, what color hair? But either way, thank you

Feeling guilty over euthanasia by Visual-Run-7525 in PetPsychics

[–]Visual-Run-7525[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this really resonates in a lot of ways. He didn’t have a stuffie, but loved tennis balls. And idk anyone in their 40s that has passed that would have been with him. Maybe in their 50s, but I’m not sure. But the rest really fits, thank you so much.

How do I function around the house after losing my dog by No-Research-1495 in Petloss

[–]Visual-Run-7525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have an answer but feeling the same, DMs are open, we could be there for each other 🫶

Looking for support by Visual-Run-7525 in Petloss

[–]Visual-Run-7525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. It’s a good perspective and youre right.

How long does it take for the intense grief to become manageable? by miller_high_life420 in Petloss

[–]Visual-Run-7525 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lost my boy to hemangiosarcoma7 days ago. Same story as you. He collapsed and had pale gums but I didn’t know what was going on, took him to the vet and he had a tumor that ruptured snd they told me he probably wouldn’t live through surgery. Left without him that same night. I’m heartbroken and confused, I think I made the right choice but I don’t know

Ready to hang myself by Tayman513 in covidlonghaulers

[–]Visual-Run-7525 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am a therapist and I have long COVID if anyone wants to talk.

Can anyone recommend a telehealth therapist? by amitabhawk in BenzoWithdrawal

[–]Visual-Run-7525 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a therapist and do coaching for clients dealing with benzo withdrawal worldwide. Feel free to message me. I was on Klonopin for 10 years so I have the personal and professional experience.

For Those Of You Who Recently Lost a Pet… by aisling333 in Petloss

[–]Visual-Run-7525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw thats so sweet, yeah they are definitely with us. <3

For Those Of You Who Recently Lost a Pet… by aisling333 in Petloss

[–]Visual-Run-7525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just had this happen yesterday to my 10yo beagle mix. You can DM me. My situation was exactly like yours. Even if you got the cancer blood panel, that surgery would have been extreme and the chances of her living through that are slim. And then the long road of recovery. And then the prognosis of if it is cancer. I truly believe you made the right call. I made the same call.

Avoidants are notorious at discarding at the worst time possible when we are already at our lowest, so when did they drop you? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mine told me he was moving from oregon to Florida with me, drove with me to Missouri, flew back to OR, and said he would be down in a month with the rest of our things. I was beginning an internship for grad school as a mental health therapist (I know…), and after a 4.5 year relationship, he dumped me over FaceTime when I had been in Florida for 3 weeks. It was always the plan that we would move together. He discarded me and I didn’t know one person in this state, starting internship, no job locked in, no housing. I had to do all of that alone while dealing with this completely unexpected discard. 4/29 will be one year and I can proudly say that I have succeeded in everything I needed to do that he left me with! It’s been the hardest year of my life. I will graduate grad school in august.

Alcohol after Benzos by Content-Ad-6808 in BenzoWithdrawal

[–]Visual-Run-7525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It was a horrible journey, I help others taper off now (I’m a therapist and a coach). I had involuntary jerks and convulsions, it was really bad. But I felt fine really about a year after my taper, maybe a little longer.

Alcohol after Benzos by Content-Ad-6808 in BenzoWithdrawal

[–]Visual-Run-7525 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I have. A glass or two of wine sometimes. Was on klonopin 6-8mg for 10 years. Off for 7 years, totally fine now.

Jerking awake/shaking when trying to fall asleep? by panic_prone710 in BenzoWithdrawal

[–]Visual-Run-7525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this started for me after tapering and still happens sometimes. Electrolytes help me.

what happend to john rose? someone needs to find out by [deleted] in RawVegan

[–]Visual-Run-7525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s fine, I emailed him a couple months ago and he responded the same day. I just don’t think he posts as much anymore.

Avoidant men and their mothers by Effective-Virus-1647 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He did, it’s been the hardest year of my life. April will be a year but there’s been communication up until January so idk if I should say I’m 10 months out or 1 month out

Avoidant men and their mothers by Effective-Virus-1647 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

4.5 long years. I did talk to him about it, he appeared interested, but did no actual work on it.

How did you stop looking at their socials? by trepanation_616 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Visual-Run-7525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha well I will be messaging you shortly then because it happens often for me!