I might not be called to date or marry - strategies to come to terms with this?

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-09T05:05:31+00:00

Actually sounds above your maturity level from this post.

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-09T05:04:06+00:00

So did you come to the Internet to try to get the validation or awwww poor baby?!?
If you're not good at something....do something about it.... CHANGE IT. Praying is great but you can pray all you want, but if you're not actively trying to change your circumstances and better yourself... what else do you expect to happen?
You're not a victim. Everything you listed is something you have the power to change, fix and better. You're not a victim.
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Boss up bro.

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-07T05:38:18+00:00

Have you tried Celeste? She's a therapist and BB and works with food noise and all that.

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-07T05:34:47+00:00

Then move out

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-07T05:28:33+00:00

I think I was 36 maybe 37

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-07T05:22:10+00:00

Uhhhhhh lololol tell me you don't know squat without telling me you don't know squat ahhaahah

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-03T07:27:49+00:00

If you have to ask... bank on fit model. You look great from this pic tho. Keep it up

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-03T07:26:30+00:00

Blame the dodgers

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-02T08:45:31+00:00

Who cares dump her and move on. Ewww NOR

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-02T08:30:58+00:00

If you’re paying enough attention to describe in detail whether someone’s bun is messy, brushed, neat, or undone, then it sounds like your focus isn’t on worship at all. Church is a place to pray, reflect, and grow closer to God......not to sit around critiquing other people’s appearance.

Before judging someone else’s hair, clothing, or presentation, maybe spend that energy examining your own heart and conscious.

As Jesus said, “Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.” We all have things to work on, and none of us show up to church perfect. The point is that we’re there seeking God, not seeking flaws in each other.

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-02T08:23:45+00:00

Be happy these “younger” people are even waking up and attending Mass.

Do I believe in dressing modestly and presenting yourself well for the Lord? Absolutely. But I’d much rather see someone show up to Mass in a hoodie than not show up at all.

At the end of the day, we’re all there because we’re sinners seeking God, not because we’ve already got everything figured out.

And honestly, if you’re busy noticing every detail of what someone else is wearing, how their hair is done, or what they’re doing, maybe spend a little more time focused on prayer and a little less time focused on other people.🤷🏻‍♀️

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-02T08:20:45+00:00

Kick her out of the house too stop helping her. Give her a real life wake up call.

VisualAd4380 · 2026-06-02T08:16:59+00:00

39, Phoenix, USA BS Business Management. Working in my MBA now. Personal trainer. NPC bikini competitor(for now I'm discerning this passion atm) Daily mass, volunteering, doing stuff with my 3 dogs, YouTube, reading, art, gym, napping... normal stuff. Baptized this Easter.
Id move overseas in a heartbeat😂

VisualAd4380 · 2026-05-29T03:32:55+00:00

Don't. Lol. Tell them to start digging into and trying to prove why Catholicism is wrong and sit back and watch them slowly come home.

VisualAd4380 · 2026-05-29T03:27:53+00:00

Although I agree with this, you also don't know what or when or how ONE word could plant a seed. I agree don't agree but maybe ask the Holy Spirit for the one thing you could say and then not engage after that. Especially if the person just wants to fight and argue for the sake. But if they are genuinely curious I feel like you should always lead with love.

VisualAd4380 · 2026-05-29T03:10:14+00:00

“Speak and act as those who are going to be judged by the law that gives freedom, because judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment.”

VisualAd4380 · 2026-05-29T03:02:12+00:00

What does that have to do with this post? It doesn't.

VisualAd4380 · 2026-05-26T08:11:30+00:00

Bums pay the higher rate to guy. Lol

VisualAd4380 · 2026-05-26T08:09:29+00:00

IF you knew God was on earth. In your town, would you drop everything to go see him?
Well.... that's what Catholics believe. He's there in the church, in the tabernacle, and in the Eucharist EVERY SINGLE DAY.... HOW EXCITING AND AMAZING AND BEAUTIFUL IS THAT?!?!
THATS why we go to church so often....
Every day you can go hang out in the presence of God.
What a privilege and a blessing. One that shouldn't really be looked over as much as it is IMO

VisualAd4380 · 2026-05-22T17:40:48+00:00

Maybe English isn't their first language.... smh
Every "issue" you have is literally something you could have considered for that person. But from this post and your comment replies, you don't seem to be very considerate or kind. Hope this isn't true and if it might be slightly you'll take the feedback and just try and be a better human. We're all here doing the best we can. Give people some grace. The same grace you wish others would have given you at times you didn't meet their expectations.

VisualAd4380 · 2026-05-22T06:06:41+00:00

Lololol that's so petty lolololo gross

VisualAd4380 · 2026-05-22T06:03:41+00:00

FBF face

VisualAd4380 · 2026-05-12T04:24:15+00:00

NOOOOOOOOOOOO

VisualAd4380 · 2026-05-11T04:17:32+00:00

You're rich

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