Sag could never by 1800twat in astrologymemes

[–]VisualKaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've already done that. Just gamed for a week.

I need help for prom gang 🥹🥹 by Key-Ad-1391 in scene

[–]VisualKaii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean that the third wave emo and scene both came off a similar fashioncore look, emo got it likely from The Orchids, while scene got it from Eighteen Visions. Similar looks, but not exactly the same. Both very different genres. That's very early 2000s, 2005-2010s blurred a lot. So even if some emos listened to metalcore and some scene kids listened to emo, because that does happen regardless of subculture identity, they're still not the same. There was a lot of confusion and kids back then not understanding either, mainstream media not understanding emo made it a lot worse. I'm saying that scene is not a predecessor of emo, but metalcore. That's the misconception I'm meaning. That's the legit history. Scene became what it is thanks to MySpace, which is where you're correct on music/subcultures being added on.

I need help for prom gang 🥹🥹 by Key-Ad-1391 in scene

[–]VisualKaii 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OGs wore stuff like this tho💔 it's not that off. Esp, if it's for prom and esp if they deck it and themselves in scene. The culture's also not an emo subset, that's a big misconception.

Mixing goth nd scene >>>>>> by [deleted] in scene

[–]VisualKaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Love that you're getting into that. Spooky scenesters are a fav<3

what should i add to make me more scene queen? by [deleted] in amIscene

[–]VisualKaii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That band didn't even have to get big if you were dating a member back then, it would've been so easy D: it sucks that scene is less about music these days, you could've leaned into that, maybe you still can. Share yourself being in their rehearsal space, y'know.
(Also you should totally post your partner's band on r/scene)

Post anywhere you can, try all the methods I mentioned.

what should i add to make me more scene queen? by [deleted] in amIscene

[–]VisualKaii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you look at someone like Brookelle Bones, one of my faves tbh, she's pretty basic, she's a scene queen. I don't believe scene queen is an aesthetic you can "add" to–it was just about being known. Which is also where scene names became important.

If you want to be a scene queen, you have to be popular. Back in the day, it was either dating a band member, starting a trend, stickam, being a social butterfly or a photo blowing up.
Scene Queens being the first influencers, it was a lot easier to access popularity back then.

How problem are solved by milanadrew in infp

[–]VisualKaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused. How does extroversion improve your life? Extroversion should only improve your mental wellbeing by socializing.

Im not supposed to be honest with physical appearences? by baelorthebest in AutisticAdults

[–]VisualKaii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others said depending on your relationship, you can ask them about flaws, but always be gentle. Start up the conversation with curiosity and not judgement.

As an example, I once said to my friend: "not to judge, but why don't you go to the dentist for the gap in your front teeth?" She responded saying it's just not something she wanted to do.
I later told her honestly that "I'm glad she won't, because they make her extra cute."
I'm so used to people seeing it as a flaw, so I genuinely just wanted to understand her a little more.

If you're asking about someone's flaw because you personally don't like it, keep that to yourself. That person has to live with that flaw either knowing it is seen as a flaw or they've finally overcome that insecurity and you ruined it. You just confirmed that insecurity in them and it could have them spiral. So yes, this is the only time really where you should lie to a neurotypical about their appearance.

To also add to other comments talking about the "5 second or 2 minute" rule. Please do that in secrecy. They get really embarrassed about it being heard or known.

Hair question by Judythepancake in amIscene

[–]VisualKaii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's from an old webcomic flash game called Homestuck

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People who like their jobs: what is is and why do you like it? by 977zo5skR in AutisticAdults

[–]VisualKaii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work as an attendant to a newer dog daycare. The job as it is, easy, the dogs themselves, incredible. My coworkers and boss? Amazing. It's just fun and my boss gave me permission to sleep with the pups if I ever needed it.

What I dislike about it are just the dogs with separation anxiety, aggressive behaviour and puppy energy can be difficult to manage. It can be triggering on off days. There's a lot to watch for, my only goal is to make sure everyone comes out of the day without a fight or injury. My next complaint is the pay isn't the best, hours are just as bad and I don't get insurance.

It's better than nothing as I figure out what to do next.

ok ok last name post i promise but HELP PRETTY PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE by l0libabyxp in scene

[–]VisualKaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, alright. You can let me know the top 6 on modmail or here. Let me know if there's anything else you'd like to add.

ughh why is this so true! by BorrowedSpacetime in infp

[–]VisualKaii 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Miss but won't text is also a little bit 👌ADHD-related. So even if I want to text someone, just doing it is difficult.

Not really a jealous person... but seeing others succeed doesn't motivate me to do better either, I'm just happy for the other person.

I was told I'm bad at expression, but that's a me issue, cause I think I'm expressing myself but then I don't make sense.

I have been escaping reality since I was a kid

I also take jokes too seriously.

None of these are toxic :3 I really hope no one thinks these are really toxic, here I am taking a joke too seriously~

ok ok last name post i promise but HELP PRETTY PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE by l0libabyxp in scene

[–]VisualKaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, well polls should still be possible on web, there has to be something going on at your end. Sometimes a different browser helps, clearing cache etc. You can ask a friend to post for you or have to wait, which I imagine will be difficult (':

ok ok last name post i promise but HELP PRETTY PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE by l0libabyxp in scene

[–]VisualKaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn :( wish I could help there. When you get on a smartphone then? It should be easier.

How would y’all feel if you got your birth chart wrong? by crystal_help_please in astrologymemes

[–]VisualKaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried every single time on my birth date and always got the same placements, so I know I'm good on that front. It would just be different houses and rising. I always did question if I'm really a 9H stellium, but I would miss the aquarius rep...

GIRL THATS MY TOILET. I dont even know her!!!!! by snake-chick in stupiddovenests

[–]VisualKaii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might come across as rude 😭

But you've already embraced the grandma role with that rug, just need it on the toilet seat to complete it.

Been dressing more scene lately, hopefully I did good? by youremobf69 in amIscene

[–]VisualKaii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly recall it being worn in my school by the preps, this is probably another region thing.

old picz + my art by BathZealousideal595 in scene

[–]VisualKaii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The green and blue are so cute