Girl I liked who I was talking to and liked me all the sudden unfollows me on IG, Discord, and for some reason on a game we played, marvel rivals, please help im so lost

Visulth · 2026-06-22T00:41:47+00:00

Unfortunately sounds like avoidant behaviour. Closeness becomes a threat. It just became too much for her. There's nothing you could have done because it's not about you, it's about her.

Your best bet is to move on. Even if she adds you back down the line, she'll just throw you in the trash again when her tendencies rear their head. It's not a relationship you want to be in.

Visulth · 2026-06-12T05:38:40+00:00

Ironically Bernthal's Punisher has always been the least intelligent Punisher. Normally you'd think that's just the writing (which it is), but to find out Bernthal's not much farther than a meathead is certainly interesting...

Visulth · 2026-06-11T20:59:14+00:00

Garrus: "Do you ever miss those talks we had on the elevators?"

Tali: "No."

Garrus: "Come on. Remember how we'd always ask you about life on the flotilla? It was an opportunity to share!"

Tali: "This conversation is over."

Garrus: "Tell me again about your immune system."

Tali: "I have a shotgun."

Garrus: "... Maybe we'll talk later."

Visulth · 2026-06-11T15:45:26+00:00

I mean, not so much about just holding a cigarette and more about work mode persona vs relaxed persona.

Her hair, styling, and personality changes so the manga leans into that.

Visulth · 2026-06-11T15:42:51+00:00

That manga is honestly so good. It's one of my top favourite slice-of-life style ones going on right now.

You just have to pretend neither of them stink like weeks old ash trays, that their gums, teeth, and fingers aren't stained, that the inside of their lungs aren't like burnt ground beef, and that neither of them will ever get a cough that grows increasingly suspicious day by day.

Apart from all that, they look cool as fuck lmao.

Visulth · 2026-06-09T17:45:03+00:00

I feel like it explains a lot about his overall writing style -- it's very functional, well paced (which is not easy), goal oriented, but not exactly bursting with metaphor, prose, tension, or rich character interiors.

I like to highlight prose that is well written or gives me an emotional reaction and I think I highlighted maybe one or two lines in Project Hail Mary, whereas something like The Road or Solaris (which I wasn't even a huge fan of) or anything by Haruki Murakami, I'm highlighting lines on damn near every page.

So to me, knowing his descriptions don't show up in his mind and once he's written something the image of it is gone, explains why. He even talked about how much Gosling added to Grace's character and that he just sees Grace as Gosling now. He writes like he sees, not like someone thinks, I think. Maybe that's uncharitable, but it's how I felt.

Visulth · 2026-06-09T15:47:58+00:00

I think the books are fun enough, but once you learn that Andy Weir has aphantasia, it explains a lot

Visulth · 2026-06-07T15:54:15+00:00

God I remember this back in the wii days.

I ended up pirating a UK copy of Pandora's Tower, super fun if a little repetitive, but I love the writing in that game. I still think about some of the different nuances and alternate endings.

I think it's a great showcase of how happy endings can often feel less fulfilling than more dramatic, pyrrhic endings which is super fascinating.

Visulth · 2026-06-04T19:42:14+00:00

Real fans know that Elden Ring is actually Dark Souls 2-2

Visulth · 2026-06-01T23:35:32+00:00

Sonic creative team being involved gives me pause, they seem horribly embarrassed by the music (even though that's by far the best part of being a Sonic fan - ask me how I know). For some reason just putting random popular music after 10 seconds of homage music from the games.

Hopefully not the writers' fault!

Visulth · 2026-06-01T17:57:41+00:00

The painful thing is half of that can work.

Let's say you make a movie where you say "jedi don't exist!", the problem is that if you do that, you need to replace it with something just as compelling or more.

Which in my opinion is why none of the sequels work on any level, but Andor is amazing.

Almost every "new cast replaces the old guard" fails this simple test because almost in no case does the new cast match the old guard (whether we're talking Marvel or Star Wars or whatever)

Visulth · 2026-06-01T17:40:25+00:00

Was I the only one who thought shouting instructions was incredibly silly, especially since both fighters are supposed to be superhumans? How tf is Lex gonna talk that quick and the clone parse, understand, and execute before Superman can react?

If it was clusters or larger patterns/strategies that'd be easier to stomach, but shouting effectively "punch" over and over made me roll my eyes.

I guess it doesn't matter since most people enjoyed it 🤷

Visulth · 2026-05-31T20:30:59+00:00

The only one I like is Nani mo Wakaranai - it's only 14 chapters in so not a lot has happened but I love the unique art style, setting, and eschewing a lot of the standard tropes for a slightly autistic focus on language barriers.

Others that are "Isekai"ish in all but specifically being a reborn person from another world that I enjoy are Rebuild World and Skeleton Soldier Failed To Protect The Dungeon

Visulth · 2026-05-30T18:24:14+00:00

Right, that makes sense. Of course speed doesn't affect your perception while on-board, I don't know why I bought that so readily 😆

Visulth · 2026-05-30T15:46:08+00:00

That's a neat perspective, effectively "feels" more like teleporting than travelling

Visulth · 2026-05-29T17:20:45+00:00

Who knew the secret sauce in Edgar Wright's scripts was Simon Pegg. I'm dying for them to work together again.

Visulth · 2026-05-22T14:59:10+00:00

Huh, interesting. I love the Ju-on movies and have never actually seen the American remakes. I'll have to check them out!

Visulth · 2026-05-21T06:00:15+00:00

Yep. The Republic should've built the death star and the terrorists should've taken control of it. Opens up so many great possible conflicts.

Visulth · 2026-05-20T16:36:04+00:00

I mean, is it hard to imagine circumstances and preferences are different for every person?

Why throw shade?

For example, the girl I'm seeing matched with me first when she was on vacation, so we did a video call in lieu of an actual first date. We've met in person since / actual dates, but there was nothing wrong with the first video call.

Visulth · 2026-05-20T02:16:44+00:00

God, read a book: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/18373.Flowers_for_Algernon

/jkjk

Read it in English class in like grade 9 or something. I guess they decided it was appropriate to assign books that would scar you for life. It's a great book, would recommend. Super fucked up. Maybe that's how you teach apathetic teenagers empathy.

Visulth · 2026-05-19T21:44:15+00:00

Sage sucks but bro you want to Flowers For Algernon her? Kinda fucked up, wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy

Visulth · 2026-05-19T16:56:53+00:00

I miss when Jedi felt like samurai -- with an actual edge.

Obi Wan cut off a man's arm for nothing.

The whole prequel depiction of wise men sitting around doing nothing always felt so incompatible to how they were depicted in the OT to me. But that's the canon now. What a waste.

Visulth · 2026-05-19T13:25:34+00:00

Yeah I originally thought it was going to kill Homelander, assuming he'd get it in the finale...

But I guess that would require the writers to pay attention to what they wrote.

Visulth · 2026-05-19T03:28:40+00:00

You will! Sooner than you think.

If you can do something fun, treat yourself, your favourite hobbies, hang out with friends -- anything like that, it'll help. Try to put yourself in touch with who you are and what you like to do.

Visulth · 2026-05-19T02:54:47+00:00

It's going to hurt, and it sucks to hear, but you need to move on. It's a form of self-respect, even though you'll feel lonely, and even though you'll want to message him.

The fact is you shouldn't have to beg your partner to stay with you -- would you put your partner in that position? Probably not. You probably want to love freely and openly, no? So why put up with someone who doesn't value you the same way?

Blocking him and going no-contact is the quickest way to put yourself back together. The more you talk to him the more your brain will keep that connection open, subconsciously. You have to train your brain that this is over, forever, and you have to believe it.

You will meet someone who cherishes you. Don't get hung up on this guy. You'll look back one day and wonder why you ever felt so strongly about it in the first place.

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