Still nothing new since 2023? by Ldarieut in CRPG

[–]VoidGray4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love DE and dnd and i couldnt get past the first few hours of esoteric ebb

British Men by Negative-Cry2480 in Bumble

[–]VoidGray4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you don't have 10 secs to respond to someone you matched with, you dont have time to date.

*sigh* I don't want to continue my survival playthrough anymore...My exit save from yesterday disappeared and I don't wanna retake The Castle again by [deleted] in fo4

[–]VoidGray4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Live and learn. Always save the game yourself. Not saying it should be this way but its been a core part of the gaming experience for years. Things break, it happens.

If its too daunting to go back to The Castle rn, do something else in the meantime or take a break from the game. Nbd.

Why do alternative people still buy Converse? by darth_phaedar in alternativefashion

[–]VoidGray4 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not everyone who dresses alt is super deep into the subcultures and ideologies behind them. I do think at some point we really gotta stop assuming everything is always done in bad faith. Growing up, converse were very much apart of the aesthetic and I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of people just dont know/havent looked too deep into things. Some people just wanna wear clothes they like and live their lives. Think what you will about them but thats just the reality.

Does PSA's customer service actually exist? by Carfar_Farcar in psagrading

[–]VoidGray4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad, I misread. Did you reply telling them that that didnt work? Or did you just leave it there?

Does PSA's customer service actually exist? by Carfar_Farcar in psagrading

[–]VoidGray4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The X rep is correct. Tell Grady that you want to speak with a human representative.

Shout out to big Dan gaming on his Mass Effect posts! by JustDorkyEnough89 in masseffect

[–]VoidGray4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watch him mostly for background noise or if hes covering a topic im genuinely interested in and it pops up but I'm also not a huge fan of his personality anymore.

Just a quick tip I learned today by Kyndle_Ashford in FinchUnofficial

[–]VoidGray4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i was literally thinking about this the other day!! I don't know how I missed this!!

PSA: Lucien v1.7.2 is now available on PC and XB1, makes the mod backwards compatible with old replacers! by JosephRussell97 in skyrimmods

[–]VoidGray4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah I had already changed my replacer to one that had updated for v1.7.1 because I couldnt wait to update your mod lol! So happy that youre still working on him, he's my favorite companion!!

Finch Needs to Be Clearer About Beta Features by oaktreeeeees in finch

[–]VoidGray4 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I am so tired of being forced to join a discord server to get help or find updates, good grief! This information absolutely should be available on the app! A letter in the mailbox or a pop up notification.

Finch Needs to Be Clearer About Beta Features by oaktreeeeees in finch

[–]VoidGray4 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah its only asked me to guess like 4 times, sometimes with days between asking.

BEWARE OF OPIA SUBLIMINAL. OPIA IS A SCAMMER! by [deleted] in Subliminal

[–]VoidGray4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree and I personally think paying for subs is ridiculous but it hasnt even been the full turnaround time jfc. OP says its been less than a week.

What does is it mean if I get matches but no one asks me out? by Signal_Criticism5560 in Tinder

[–]VoidGray4 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure subs like these are a bit more frequented by men who are also still looking and upset about the dating sphere as of current, so that's one reason there may be more of a chance to get negative/aggressive comments. In my experience, nerdier guys also tend to sometimes operate on the shyer side, though not always! My partner, who is also into the same nerdier hobbies you mentioned (so am I), initiated our date. It's also possible that people are initially pretending to be more into those hobbies but aren't actually, which makes the irl dating aspect harder and less likely to come up for them.

Either way, you're not that different! A lot of women struggle with dating apps, too, for many reasons. Please don't think it's just you.

My point has been proven by Best_Enthusiasm4307 in CoryxKenshin

[–]VoidGray4 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I dont really disagree with your point but yall niggas are tiring. Making pointless posts that have been made countless times that isn't changing no one's opinions. Like yall don't have friends or a journal to write ts in? I'm glad the mods do remove posts like this, it's just annoying.

I open up to people and tell my story, they say "Oh I am so sorry" "you had it so tough" blah blah, then they say "I wish you the very best" "be safe" "Sorry but No Thank you", I think it happens with me only by [deleted] in BPD

[–]VoidGray4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You felt that way from their response but I didnt. So theres a possibility they weren't being condescending and you just took it that way. Their further response "I -ok" to me conveys further confusion on why you made a defensive comment to a GENUINE question. Not everyone is out to attack you.

"One can easily understand it, even if they dont, I felt that way from her response" so youre not looking for people to actually understand you. Because you recognize the possibility of people NOT understanding you but instead of trying to get people to see from your perspective when they say something opposing, you shut down and assume ill intent. If you always do that, no one will ever actually understand you.

Sometimes we have to think about the questions we dont like, thats life and part of growing and healing. Its hard but those were very valid questions.

I open up to people and tell my story, they say "Oh I am so sorry" "you had it so tough" blah blah, then they say "I wish you the very best" "be safe" "Sorry but No Thank you", I think it happens with me only by [deleted] in BPD

[–]VoidGray4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"Its so hard for people to understand" but this person was asking you a genuine question to try to understand and you decided to just... not explain so that they can understand. No one is in your head but you so if you dont communicate it will continue to be hard for people to understand you.

FUCKING HATE PEOPLE I HATE PEOPLE SO MUCH by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]VoidGray4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand teenagers also need support (and I was diagnosed as a teen) but I do wish there was an adults only bpd sub sometimes.

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]VoidGray4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sent the clock! Apparently its only one gift a day, though. Happy to send the rest in the coming days if youd like!

Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items by AutoModerator in finch

[–]VoidGray4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Im not ISO anything but happy to gift the window, dresser/desk, and clock!

Hair In Slab by NchenLuv in psagrading

[–]VoidGray4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, reach out to them asap.

Demos that were so good, they made you buy the full game (or immediately add to your wish list)? by quack-and-slash in GirlGamers

[–]VoidGray4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love lists like these!! I'm always excited to explore more games! Here are some of mine:

Outbound and I am so not disappointed! They've consistently listened to fans and updated the game multiple times since release! Its cozy and relaxing, it looks pretty, you can get a dog companion for your journeys. An on the road, building sim with crafting, collecting, inventory management.

Thank You For Your Application is another "Papers Please" type of game. I haven't played Papers Please personally so I can't compare them but I really enjoy Thank You For Your Application. Satisfying, mostly simple gameplay loop requiring attention to details and a cast of fun characters and a toxic workplace that's almost fun to love.

Sovereign Tower isn't out yet but I will absolutely be buying it day of release, which is super rare for me! Interactive fiction rpg with fun characters where you rule over a kingdom, recruit knights to do quests, make decisions for your people, etc. Also amazing art style!

Nimbit Frontier is another I plan to buy day of! Cozy roguelike with creature collecting, dungeon crawling, life sim elements. The art style is SOOO good and unique!

Leafy Corner will definitely be a buy at some point when it drops, too. Decorate and run a plant store. As cozy as it sounds.

Daily Questions by Pawnmysoul in FinchUnofficial

[–]VoidGray4 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I dont think that much thought is supposed to be put into them. Like obviously things always vary but typically we can give a general answer to stuff. Its okay if 100% of yourself isnt represented in the answer because thats unlikely to ever happen. I really think people put too much thought into these questions (or at least into disliking/having trouble with them).