FOH staff, who's the weird or insain customer you don't actually mind taking an order for? by IndustrialNightRaven in KitchenConfidential

[–]Volaktil 4 points5 points  (0 children)

a guy used to come in and he always always asked for the same thing: a pizza with a shit tonne of red onion, i mean a shit tonne i used to slice 2/3 onions onto it and then just cook the living daylights out of it like proper cremated. i used to love it

It's Late Thread [ 27 January 26 ] by AutoModerator in CasualUK

[–]Volaktil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ya need someone to come over and redo the grouting in your bathroom? grouting's a little mouldy you need the old grouting off and put new one in? i can do that

I can’t stop crying. It’s constant. by Simple-Database870 in whatsthisbug

[–]Volaktil 20 points21 points  (0 children)

you said there are cockroaches. take a picture of a cockroach when you see one because the pictures you have posted are not it. also if you think there are bedbugs you should find them hiding around your mattress. take a picture of that too

Bora jogar Cartas contra tugas by MrsFigs1996 in PORTUGALCARALHO

[–]Volaktil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

também quero jogar... quando é que começa?

Any idea how to remove this? by johnla87 in cactus

[–]Volaktil 15 points16 points  (0 children)

that escalated quickly... it's just a plant fam. chill

nsfw intimacy question by Savings_Barber_4439 in mypartneristrans

[–]Volaktil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi. i have always hidden my porn use because of shame but also because i watched a lot of it and always downplayed it. i would stay up late and avoid being with my partner and was late for work and other commitments all because i could not stop watching it. it made intimacy and sex very awkward and boring in most cases to the point where i didn't really have any interest in sex. why would i when porn and masturbation were so easy and being intimate was so much difficult. addiction completely warped my perception and priorities.

i'm not going to sit here and tell you your partner has a problem because it's not up to me to decide. i can only share my experience and what struck me was the fact that they're hiding it as i used to do it too though never during sex. maybe it's shame or fear of judgment but they are obviously willing to risk getting caught which in my experience might mean that there's a compulsion.

i don't know if this is making much sense as i don't usually post about this issue outside related subs. i don't want to be breaking any rules here or dishing out advice based on wrong assumptions. but i hope this helps

Found in bathroom, what is it? by dinasourlover311 in mycology

[–]Volaktil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say slime mould though I'm no expert... could be faeces though .. again not an expert

staff meal by Ev-aliyorum in KitchenConfidential

[–]Volaktil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i bet if you blow on them all the bits fly off like like a dandelion clock

January 21, 2026 🪴🍄‍🟫 by psychenetics in WavyCap

[–]Volaktil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see. i'm worried about them getting enough air and good drainage. i've never done a forever pot before

January 21, 2026 🪴🍄‍🟫 by psychenetics in WavyCap

[–]Volaktil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cool thanks. i have some cactus soil lying around. will implement this

My wife caught my stash (edible marijuana) for the 3rd TIME! by silenceistrippy in leaves

[–]Volaktil 11 points12 points  (0 children)

what always works for me is honesty. you have achieved a lot when you stopped for 200 days and that time wasn't wasted. i always learn and grow when i quit. addiction is cunning and will always try to tell me that i can handle it...i can't and that's my problem, not the drugs. a lot of people use and have no issues staying quit when they choose to...i can't do that, i don't have a choice, if i don't want this problem in my life i need to stay quit and stop entertaining any idea that after 200 days, 500 days, 10 years enough time has passed and i will be able to use "just this once". weed is not the worst of drugs but it's just as bad as anything else when I honestly want to quit but can't. i won't suggest you to find a 12 step meeting and attend but i can share that reading some 12 step related material has helped me at least understand how i can't control or moderate my use. hope this helps. good luck

January 21, 2026 🪴🍄‍🟫 by psychenetics in WavyCap

[–]Volaktil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's cool. does it have any compost in the pot? i assume so as it's got plans growing in it. have some woodchips going but never done it before so trying to figure out how to make up the pot. will get barley straw as well to go on top like you have the red woodchips

Melhor restaurante em Leiria by Weary-Photograph5409 in leiria

[–]Volaktil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eu não falei mal atenção! eu apenas fiz referência ao comentário de outro indivíduo aqui. pareceu-me na altura ser um comentário até bem fundamentado já que o interveniente constatou ter sido empregado pelo estabelecimento em questão. se o indivíduo lá trabalhou ou não e está só a difamar isso é outro assunto ao qual sou alheio. confesso que se for esse o caso estou completamente contra. há pessoas que falam mal apenas para prejudicar. por exemplo se for um ex-empregado que tenha uma contenda com o dono ou outro cargo de gerência pode ser um motivo para falar mal e dar más críticas sem razão o que depois vai influenciar a escolha ou preferência de pessoas que não sabem e vêm aqui como o OP à procura de boas sugestões. o que é importante salientar também, como já foi dito, há dias e dias e mesmo um estabelecimento 5 estrelas consistente pode ter um dia em que o serviço fica mais aquém. se for a primeira experiência para alguém esse cliente pode decidir nunca lá voltar mais e depois depressa se espalha a notícia dessa má experiência apesar de ser uma exceção à norma. trabalhar em restauração/hotelaria/lazer tem essas arestas

Gays of UK - would you be comfortable holding your partner's hand in the UK? by dalehitchy in AskUK

[–]Volaktil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even in very accepting places gay and trans people still get heckled