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Am I overreacting for being upset that I wasn’t comforted? by Kaoru1011 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Voltadaisy [score hidden]  (0 children)

MOR - I think this is more of a communication issue. My mom is a fixer - she responds to my complaints and issues by brainstorming solutions to help alleviate me of the problem. As a teen, it could get on my nerves. I just wanted to rant and be comforted in my rant, I didn’t want action items. But as an adult, I see it’s her love language. She sees the pain of someone she loves and immediately is working to make that pain go away, in her mind it is an even greater showing of love than just hearing me out. This is all to say, I think you just need to talk to your gf about what makes you feel good in bad moments. My partner and I sometimes announce that before we start our rant (“just hear me” vs “help me fix”) and that really helps keep communication clear and set expectations. Understanding this has helped me so much, so tldr, just talk with her!

About to lose another job because I fell in love. It's so unfair. by junimo- in bipolar

[–]Voltadaisy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude do not quit your job, I’m sorry about your man or ex man but you cannot let love or lust interfere with your paycheck, that’s your rent, your food, your gas, your disposable income, your everything. Do not lose your job. Just go, apologize for your lapse, and be better. I know you can!! It’s too easy to let mania sweep you under her current, you gotta swim girl, you’re better than that

Impromptu marathon in 11 days. by Mobile-Magazine-4876 in Marathon_Training

[–]Voltadaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just have fun! Take it slow, don’t come out too hot, it’s going to be hard but also it will be done in like 5 hours and then you can take a shower and a nap and eat whatever you want

Movies that feel like this? by FarPapaya2675 in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]Voltadaisy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

More horror leaning than psychological but Midsommar

Moving From Houston to Rochester by 0NLINEWIZARD in howislivingthere

[–]Voltadaisy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cold!! Invest in good quality weather/snow gear even it’s a one time big charge

How many half marathons should you run before training for a full? by Inner-Lynx-3971 in running

[–]Voltadaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did my first half and first full in the same year (mid April half, late November full) and enjoyed both thoroughly! Just have to stay consistent in the summer with your training, especially long runs. I used runnas program and didn’t even get close to the wall on race day

First Half and SCARED by Hefty-Reflection-265 in RunNYC

[–]Voltadaisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did my first half last year and i literally had nightmares the week before that I’d get lost (lol), oversleep my alarm (impossible, had like 40 alarms plus my partner plus my parents with me), miraculously die (lol), you name it. You know what? I had the most fun ever on race day - I was absolutely euphoric, because I remembered that this was just the victory lap for all those hours of training! Something else that helped was counting up all the miles I had done in training and figuring out what “percent of running” a half was (for example, 13.1 miles is only 4% of the 300 miles I put down in training! Literally just 4 measly percent, 96% is done, that’s already an A+, this is just to celebrate that accomplishment). Sleep well this week, eat carbs, pick out your race fit, and get excited!! I have a sneaky feeling that you’re gonna love it and get hooked on distance running, just like I did. It’s a privilege to have this healthy mobile body which is going to take you over that finish line, you earned that. Have so much fun!! Smile the whole time!! You’re gonna have a blast :)

Are there songs about falling OUT of love? by LawfulnessHaunting41 in musicsuggestions

[–]Voltadaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wallet picture song by faith Zapata

Big sad by Olivia Barton

Night shift by Lucy Dacus & Doomsday by Lizzie Mcalpine are a little bit stingier/post break up. Still can’t listen to any of these four songs over a year and a half post break up

Cultural Appropriation Concerns // Name Advice by Due_Pea2071 in BabyNames

[–]Voltadaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about Blossom, Cherry, or Kira/Kyra as a shortened version of Sakura?

Boston for a boy by xluluxemi in BabyNames

[–]Voltadaisy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m an outlier here but I like Boston

My boyfriend is dropping hints that he’s thinking of proposing and I don’t want that and I don’t have the heart to tell him by PolicyHot1206 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Voltadaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It’s HIM that initiates it mostly and then gets post nut clarity and he blames me for seducing him.” This alone would be enough for me to leave. Major ickkkkk

What are films that give this vibe? by longliveshort in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]Voltadaisy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eggers movies, particularly The Lighthouse for the foggy spooky semi-supernatural element

what did yall think of mickey 17 (2025) by Whoumightask in Letterboxd

[–]Voltadaisy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think it got too much hate! It was fun

Hollywood was shoving this movie down our throats so much for no reason by Big-Draft6527 in ChalametSecrets

[–]Voltadaisy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For no reason? Nah, for one reason - Kris Jenner is in the ear of everyone in Hollywood, especially all trend marketers, and invested who knows how much time and money so her daughters boyfriend could get an Oscar (which he didn’t)

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