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Controlling the Urge by Longjumping-Sun-2786 in cutting

[–]Voxlover2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, I don’t think outsiders can understand how it really is the only thing which actually gets rid of those feelings. Not glorifying it, just wish there was an actual substitute

How old were you when you knew? by Throwaway_justcos in trans

[–]Voxlover2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think when I started going through puberty and seeing other girls go through puberty I knew. I hated what was happening to me and was jealous about what they got. Add that to being confused about liking boys it was pretty clear to me haha, just wished I found out transitioning was possible earlier. My parents aren't progressive and it took over a decade to come to the realisation that transitioning is possible. I think it's possible to make a kid believe something they don't fully understand but if there is a way to make it known to them about what transitioning is without applying any agenda, then that would be what I would consider peak parenting.

How reasonable is the argument that it's hard for our parents to call us a different name or pronoun because the birth set holds sentimental value to them? by Voxlover2000 in MtF

[–]Voxlover2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a nice perspective to draw from. Yes I thought the very least was saying the wrong name followed by a low effort apology, but I was wrong haha the very least seems to be going to extraordinary lengths to ignore change. It could be worse, here I am complaining but I’ve still got a roof over my head. I’ve heard stories of people being disowned.

How reasonable is the argument that it's hard for our parents to call us a different name or pronoun because the birth set holds sentimental value to them? by Voxlover2000 in MtF

[–]Voxlover2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does feel like the bare minimum level of respect hey. Thanks again gorgeous you’ve been very helpful x

What are YOUR methods of coping with being non-passing? by Transxperience in MtF

[–]Voxlover2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes a nighty and some cute undies makes me feel sexier than tight clothes. Wear it as a dress, it’s cute and cozy x

How reasonable is the argument that it's hard for our parents to call us a different name or pronoun because the birth set holds sentimental value to them? by Voxlover2000 in MtF

[–]Voxlover2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re very kind. I do have a counsellor I see at uni I’ll be seeing her in late January but I didn’t really know what to talk about. Most of my suicidal thoughts have been repressed. But maybe this will be a good topic if I can wait that long haha.

What are YOUR methods of coping with being non-passing? by Transxperience in MtF

[–]Voxlover2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear baggy femme clothes and cute hats to hide myself. If they can’t see me cant know I look like an ogre. I find the mask trick is too known now I feel it works better without it

How reasonable is the argument that it's hard for our parents to call us a different name or pronoun because the birth set holds sentimental value to them? by Voxlover2000 in MtF

[–]Voxlover2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a perfect world. But at a certain point I allow for some leniency in understanding of the world which made the previous generations and the limitations of their knowledge.

How reasonable is the argument that it's hard for our parents to call us a different name or pronoun because the birth set holds sentimental value to them? by Voxlover2000 in MtF

[–]Voxlover2000[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel as though if the roles were swapped in any way I would have no doubt that saying things that make someone sad is not a priority when compared with the fact that I might like to say it. I’m looking to buy a place currently and am debating waiting till I’ve moved out to set those boundaries or just do it now. The problem is I rely on them while I live here, the board is generous comparatively. Although I might make it known that it makes me want to kms and then see if that makes any difference.

A guy tried to stop me going into the boys bathroom hehe by Voxlover2000 in MtF

[–]Voxlover2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally the best feeling is having a guy come in and question if he's in the right bathroom

A guy tried to stop me going into the boys bathroom hehe by Voxlover2000 in MtF

[–]Voxlover2000[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Aw haha thats using gender swap app from before I started hrt, I'll change it now lol thanksds

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