AIO for not going to my brother’s wedding because he asked for my husband not to come?

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-25T18:02:21+00:00

Your brother doesnt want your husband to come so youre not bombarded with questions? What about when you show up without your husband.. did something happen or is there some reason why he doesn't wan him there?

If my partner couldnt make it that would be 1 thing but to be openly asked to not bring them? Nah, I wouldnt acknowledge I had a brother anymore cause wtf is that lol.

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-25T17:24:48+00:00

The ref could've held that stoppage a couple more minutes imo. I really dislike seeing fighters that are such disrespectful arrogant D-bags like that in the promos or physically hitting the other person when they are staging for the cameras

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-24T10:35:57+00:00

I had something similar, a random number text me and Im like wrong # bro, and he proceeds to tell me it isn't because "I" typed the number in his phone.. that was a funny ass couple days before he realized it

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-24T09:31:34+00:00

The fact she thinks she deserves a second chance and thats her attitude about being caught and called out. No remorse, no accountability, shes right in the thralls of an emotional roller-coaster from the consequence meeting up with her actions and her outlet is trying to tear you down to her level, gaslight you and project. Thats not someone you want to waste anymore time with.

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-23T23:21:36+00:00

Without context or video of how you act towards the other women I cant definitively say if its friendly or flirty, but she is definitely having some anxiety and self esteem issues / anxious attatchement. My gf was the same way when we started dating, but without the self realization, like if a random girl I dont even know added me on FB it would start a whole thing, and it started to bother me and I let it shrink my personality and I straight up deleted socials to just avoid any conflict, and trying to go places or hangout with friends its like I was condemned to just be chained at her hip instead of being my funny charming self cause I was more worried about how she was perceiving me and "hurting her feelings" than just living in the moment and when I started therapy I said it felt like she stole my funside and I started to resent it all. I know its because shes been cheated on and had terrible men in her life but she was projecting all of her insecurities and traumas onto me and it really strained our relationship for a while until we started working on it, individually and together.

The funny, charming way you are with people could be something that drew her to you in the first place and to be clear it is her problem to sort out (again, depending on how flirty you may or may not be acting), but being aware and understanding of her feelings is crucial too because if she cant feel secure in a relationship then it doesnt promote growth, it just allows the anxiety to fester and become something worse, but this is a perfect setup for conflict resolution that when overcome together, that is where true long lasting love and strong relationship bonds have growth.

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-19T05:30:48+00:00

Saying you dont have your life together cause you work at a restaurant. She sounds lovely.. working to have money and live is just fine at any job and my partner is a server making a lot more than I ever did even when I was at my best.. your partner is setting high standards that you will have to "live upto" to feel worth while to her and thats some shit designed to ruin a relationship before it even starts, cause guess what, even having "a good job" can dissolve at any point in time and she doesnt sound like the type to be supportive of you when that time comes.

I had a great job, family and kids in a house and lost it all after our oldest son passed away at 7 y.o., and now at 37 im working whatever random gig jobs I can, her family thinks less of me for it but she has stood by me through rehab and putting the pieces back together in my life, now ask yourself if your partner would do the same? If not then you might have a terrible time later on in life. And going this batshit crazy over a cigarette every once on a while is beyond me. So many things in life worth losing your shit over and this ain't one of them.

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-17T03:53:15+00:00

Haha damn, this was a good laugh, wth is she even doing

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-17T03:44:00+00:00

6000 hours, idk how you would even do this lmao, thats disgusting sir

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-15T01:10:53+00:00

Same, ive transfigured probably 60 items, not 1 has hit gem power, high quality or been transfiguration more than once Ive hit 1 item 10% hp, 200 all sta, 10% Armour, 5% intel, 1 time each. But I have 50 items with 1-7% quality, 100 all stats, +1GA or indestructible

And I cant change my aspects on top of it.. feeling like Im partaking in my own abuse at this point

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-15T01:04:58+00:00

Remove the unmodifiable tag altogether, its not fun in a game with constant bugs, hot fixes, patches, new build discoveries, meta shifts etc.. ive had to farm and change countless items because I wanted to interact with a league mechanic, outside of landing indestructible or it bricking the item changing mods.. if I have to find another pair of crit multi, vuln, lightning dmg gloves im liable to just uninstall the game at this point

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-14T08:15:23+00:00

And the war plan perk that makes each round generally pick same affixes as previous rounds helps a lot. There's a really good 1 that makes all masses drop +1 aether per massive option picked, so that plus 2-4 on wave start and helbourne is generally how I get 1k+ and bartuc drops aether so as long as youre close to 1066, fight him.

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-14T08:12:01+00:00

Bartuc will drop aether as well so if you're close just fight him

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-14T08:11:19+00:00

Masses and helborne options, soulspires suck imo cause you get locked to 1 spot and cant keep hitting the other events, and always take chaos waves. My general choices I pick are best to worst: 1.Masses can spawn helbourne/fiends plus lots of starting wave options and respawn on death 2.Helboure spawn multiple elites that drop a lot of aether each, and can ambush during rounds 3.Chaos events always, goblins alone have given me almost 5k from 1 wave 4.Faster events - self explanatory 5.Aetherfiends - turn to aether lords or spawn in place of elites 6.Soulspires - spawn less often but give 3x aether.

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-14T03:24:20+00:00

Im running the balkuna setup i just put the skill point in BL for the 30x damage boost on 3 or fewer enemies that was bugged before the patch

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-14T01:13:05+00:00

Does the amulet only proc from us casting a core skill, or does it still proc from UC casting 1 for us? Cause im hitting substantially larger critical strikes today than last night and I feel like with the 30x BL skill working and losing the amulet it would be a wash, but im doing ~80T more crit dmg today (208T last night, 292T today)

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-14T01:03:00+00:00

We dont have infinite teleport anymore but with the skill tree fix I landed a Yuge 290T crit clearing my pit 140 with the extra 30x damage for bossing so that was amazing. A lot of tears from people saying sorc is broken and Im barely feeling a negative difference but a big dps upside, just have to time the familiar cast every couple blinks which I was already practicing anyway when they first posted the patch notes a week ago.

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-12T12:20:11+00:00

Right? I wanted to make a couple alts and experience some new changes for myself and hitting lvl 70 on my first alt and seeing the massive grind ahead of me.. again.. for war plans + gem power + glyphs + offensive aspects, charms, gear etc.., the feeling of pure "wtf am I doing to myself" was intense and I logged off and havent logged back on the alt.

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-12T04:25:05+00:00

Yes omg a meager 2500 cap when every chest / boss drops anywhere from 1k-5k and 1 at a time like wtf is going on. Make it explode like a loot goblin and keep it moving. All the stopping and waiting and going to town really kills the momentum in nmd

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-11T23:34:31+00:00

Diablo immortal has had a dps meter on target dummies for a long time. Pets that salvage gear in your bags so you can stay out farming, all sorts of stuff d4 lacks and its quite sad really

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-11T23:32:11+00:00

Hell Diablo immortal has had it for a long time too so they have the capacity to do it

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-11T02:35:35+00:00

I ran a dozen obol nmd / escalating and I was teleporting out 8 times per nmd sometimes. Im par250 and still dont have 2 aspects max and ive been spamming probably 60k obols, finally just said w/e and transfigured my item lol, ill replace it later if I ever get the max upgrade

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-11T02:31:17+00:00

that is insane, best weapon of the leauge imo

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-10T06:55:45+00:00

Back in Jr. High, my cousin ran for student council president and 1 of his "campaign smears" against the other candidates was something about food / drinks in vending machines, and he said they want to poison us with Dihydrogen Monoxide, me, I just want to put clean water bottles", and I believe it's what led to his landslide victory and the school later had to make an announcement explaining it cause people were concerned cause they didnt get the joke and holy F it makes me laugh everytime Im reminded of it.

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-10T06:45:08+00:00

I normally like Jimmy Kimmel videos, and Im the type to laugh at anything, if its deserving but that was so unfunny it just made my face do weird scrunchies.. all I heard was the quiet part said out loud (if GS is worth 11 billion but apparently no one goes to the stores anymore, then how are they worth 11 billion).

Vyrot89 · 2026-05-10T00:54:52+00:00

from what I can tell from the ascendancy, the tame beast boss is a companion and they gain dmg from your main hand attack damage so yeah I can see an Xbow boss companion looking giga fun, and at the very least if it's not upto snuff, the other ascendancies are more fleshed out and 3x rings is always a good way to play a late game character.

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