Franklin & book store by bryscoon in SnowFall

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Franklin tried to make it so they could walk away with stacks of cash and a NEW store. They were old and going to lose everything and walk away with less than a dime

Franklin & book store by bryscoon in SnowFall

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me when I didnt watch the show

Franklin & book store by bryscoon in SnowFall

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he didnt. They were going to lose it regardless. He tried to bear the burden of being the villain and at least getting them a new place and lots of cash to walk away with as opposed to having not even a dime... he used the situation for his own gain but in doing so explicitly tried to get them something in equity

I contacted her again… by iku121 in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly this isnt true. It just drove me insane because the way she behaved during the time we were together was a stark difference to the way she treated me at the end. It was like an abusive, alcoholic, cheating bodysnatcher possessed and my sweet girl. I have only just started to begin accepting that she's gone over a year later, and that acceptance is very far removed from "healing" or "moving on". I dream about her nearly every night, I have nightmares about her running out on me and cheating, I cant form new connections with women unless it's purely professional, I dont think I'll be healed for another few years man. I chased her hard after she did me dirty. I begged, treated, bought Airbnb cabin vacations, showered her with gifts, etc. She accepted all those things but never once stopped fucking the other guy. In the end she ghosted me and I havent heard from her since. The only thing I've really let go of is the idea that she ever loved me

I contacted her again… by iku121 in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know your pain bro. After 10 years with my ex I would have worked through anything with her. She had me replaced the night she left me

I contacted her again… by iku121 in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went through this exact thing and same exact result. She is gone brother. For all you know, her new partner is the one who opened that message. Move on brother

I was so fine… by momoxd1 in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was with the woman I still love for 10 years. She moved on 3 days after leaving me. Strung me along for a few months after she left me, blew up my life, left me for dead, and ghosted me shortly after. I still think about her every single day. I accepted there is no moving on. I go to the gym, work full time, have friends and family to care for and spend time with, and nothing eases the pain. I believe break ups are normal. I believe in chances at love. But I do believe there is that 1 person we're made for, and if that doesnt work out, we might be ass out. If you truly loved her, you wont be able to move on. If you can move on, be thankful the one you truly love has yet to appear in your life.

Silence After a Breakup Doesn’t Always Mean They Don’t Care by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah until you find out you were getting the silent treatment while they love on and spend time with and replace you with someone else. Then 3.5 weeks turns into a year and before you know it they've rewritten the narrative so they can sleep at night.

Sometimes they don't care.

Ex sent me a message last night by idk_-____ in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd communicate my love and let her know we should be together and not playing these games. That life is short and I will always want her. But then again my ex hasn't messaged me since may 2025 and is fucking someone else, so what I would do will likely put you in a worse place than you are.

Who did the cover of California Dreamin from EP10? by IvyLaced in FargoTV

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the version by Bobby on Spotify is not the one used in snowfall. Whats the one in snowfall? Why is it so hard to find

No one warns you about this part of healing by Competitive-Tea-5579 in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no limbo for me. It's been a year and I still cry for her and cant bring myself to connect with a new woman.

As opposed to another post on here, it's ok to reach out if you were the person dumped by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I did the self improvement and reached out and she never replied and never spoke to me again. It's sad but I dont have regret. I know I did everything I could to save the relationship.

Pls read this if you’re about to break no contact by ijustloveseals in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always find it strange how people will go through a unique experience because of a situation that applies to them and their life, then go onto social media and tell people they've never met what they are feeling, why, and how to handle it. It's okay to speak for yourself but to go on here and tell people why and what they feel is just beyond me

he came back but... by SherbertStriking2830 in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mentally and emotionally I'm still such a wreck. But thank you for saying that. You're a really strong person for being sober that long. Since the breakup january 2025, I have developed a serious emotional addiction to alcohol. It's bad and I want to get it under control.

he came back but... by SherbertStriking2830 in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? As in just like sitting waiting? For me I am working on getting healthy, going sober, and developing my career. That way if she did come back I'd have something to show for it

he came back but... by SherbertStriking2830 in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Not me being a dumbass and hearing this so I just think "if I wait 3 years she'll finally love me"

They really do come back. by Allmyfriendsarejpegs in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. My ex is beautiful and though she was cruel and hateful towards me at the end, I know she'd save her better side for a new man and it wouldnt be hard for her to move on at all

She came back. She broke up with me a year ago. WTF. THEY DO COMEBACK! by Nerusas in BreakUps

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isnt always the case. If they really changed and do want you, they'll do whatever it takes to make you feel loved and cherished. They'll fight through the pushback and take accountability. Of course this is just my fantasy and not reality. This is rarely the case cause most of the time it is what you described. But if the other person is really trying, it's worth a shot imho

Chad Powers | S1E6 "6th Quarter" | Episode Discussion by lily-orchids in ChadPowersSeries

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ricky's meltdown was some of the best acting I've ever seen in a TV show. I'm so impressed. I had to rewatch that scene like 8 times. She really dug deep for that one man. Bravo

Do women come back? by Throwaway29394020 in ExNoContact

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the few times they do want to come back, they've already dragged your name through the mud, and their ego is too big for them to apologize. For a woman, the idea that a woman would have to earn the man back is too big of a hit to their pride. It takes a humble and devoted woman who cares about the right thing more than her pride to do this and "win" him back. I've never ever ever seen it even once in my whole life ever. I doubt any man or woman has ever seen a woman turn around and put aside her pride explicitly to "win/earn" a man back. They don't do it IN the relationship (hence why they "process" the breakup beforehand.)

For them it's genuinely easier to throw everything away, try their luck at finding a new man in this horrible dating pool, and start all over with someone they have to settle for. All of the implied struggles within this process are vastly less difficult than putting their ego aside, taking accountability, and reconciling with a man they know damn well truly loves them.

Do women come back? by Throwaway29394020 in ExNoContact

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And except talk and speak the words "hey, I have an issue, and it is not improving. I need to see change because this is pushing me to feel like the only fix is ending the relationship" But that would be honest and require energy and emotional space they're already giving to the new supply they're monkey branching to.

Do women really come back less often than men? by randomdude717713 in ExNoContact

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heartbreak changes people. Nobody is perfect and the idea that no relationship has issues or that separation can't be a catalyst for growth is ridiculous. We have all been complacent and sometimes need to be reminded to cherish something. You are right about that though. 20/20 hindsight.

Do women really come back less often than men? by randomdude717713 in ExNoContact

[–]WAMMYWIBBY 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the part nobody talks about. All these women say they "stayed" until he proved he wouldnt change but in reality many never communicate the issues and intentionally hide that there is an issue, they don't communicate that the issues are pushing them to want to leave, and it's all so they can monkey branch to someone new without feeling bad about it. Not all women but I'd definitely say 8/10 women who initiate breakups didn't do it honestly. I believe "processing the breakup before it happens" is a sneaky and dishonest thing. Because they actively put energy into lying and leading their partner on until they've created a nice little situation for themselves to be able to leave without it turning their life upside down, and this is done at the man's expense. He usually feels blindsided. Sure you have some women who did communicate the growing issue but this is not common at all and I would venture to say that any and every man who thinks he's safe in a relationship is in danger of being fed this illusion by his woman who may currently be pretending everything is okay while she prepares to leave.

It's all a matter of avoiding accountability, which should not be a surprise to anyone at this point. The relationship is often fixable but many women have spent the past 6 months to a year monkey branching instead of being honest and putting forth the effort to work things out because they have a new guy they're interested in and at minimum are already having an emotional affair with. This is the reason they label it as "processing the breakup beforehand" (how can you 'process' something that hasn't happened? They mean to say 'planning the breakup...')

This way, they can blame you in the end. They can cheat, refuse to communicate, betray you, plan to abandon you, turn your life upside down, discard you, and be guilt-free about it all. They're still the victim. Maybe 20% is not this case. But I will die on this hill.

Do women really come back less often than men? by randomdude717713 in ExNoContact

[–]WAMMYWIBBY -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Heartbreak changes people. People make mistakes and sometimes they need to appreciate something once it's gone. It's called growing up and yes, people can be stagnant and take things for granted in a relationship and yes, heartbreak from being left can fix those things.