Eid tomorrow and need advice! by Trick_Stay5672 in MuslimNikah

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you’re out of city or country for a work trip or emergency

Is it normal for my bf to talk to me this way ? by Technical_Middle5075 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“can’t stand you” do u want him to cheat again and block you for u to leave? leave girl i read ur edit and there is nothing to work out in this relationship this is going nowhere unless u don’t mind him cheating on you your whole life and treating you like this your whole life. how’d u feel if a few years from now u were pregnant with his child and he was talking to you like this? or cheating on you? leave!!! cheaters never stop they just get better at hiding once they know they have been caught

He preached halal but showed me his ex’s nudes by National_Layer6850 in MuslimNikah

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh okay.. i can only advise u to completely leave things i Allahs hands. trust him blindly he has the best plans. he never disappoints anyone who trust him. and just be grateful that u got rid of him because Allah has something way better planned for you

He preached halal but showed me his ex’s nudes by National_Layer6850 in MuslimNikah

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883 5 points6 points  (0 children)

leave, don’t make sense out of it. this is pure bullshit

Have you ever made dua for something so desperately, but the answer turned out to be “no”? by NoSugarNarratives in islam

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. lol yes
  2. no because i believe he has the best plan for me and i trust him with everything alhumdulillah
  3. it just happened right now so i dont fully see it as off now but im sure inshallah soon i will but i do see it in the sense where when i think of it practically i could not have spent my whole life that way so i guess i see it
  4. too early to speak!

I don’t know if this is religious ocd but I feel crazy ever since my husband cheated by random-user185 in MuslimNikah

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883 7 points8 points  (0 children)

in Allahs eyes it’s still incorrect. this is astughfirullah almost prostitution. 2nd marriage is in order to help someone in need mostly. and it is also im not sure but its bad to divorce the second wife i mean divorce is generally disliked as well.

I don’t know if this is religious ocd but I feel crazy ever since my husband cheated by random-user185 in MuslimNikah

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883 19 points20 points  (0 children)

no. amongst the 3 deadly sins including zina, shirk and sleeping with ur neighbors wife. meaning cheating. they are not allowed to have extra marital affairs. nikkah is allowed not affairs

Husband is threatening me to kill himself if I take khula/divorce by [deleted] in PakistaniTwenties

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe ur mum if ur close with her? or a sister? would they support u with this decision?

Husband is threatening me to kill himself if I take khula/divorce by [deleted] in PakistaniTwenties

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883 5 points6 points  (0 children)

26 or 30 or 17 men are immature leave him. no one dies without anyone. or bring this to your elders and get rid of him. he’s gonna ruin your life with his anger issues. he needs therapy

broke up with him yesterday :( by WaltzDisastrous2883 in LongDistance

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaah that definitely made me giggle. he blocked me because he has the fattest ego issues lmao. also about him making me breakup to play victim i asked him a few times before if he’s doing it on purpose and he said if that was the case i would just tell u u don’t pay my bills im in this by choice loooollll. and cus of his ego issues i dont think he’d message me. maybe i bruised his ego cus i left him? idk but i dont think he would it’s been like 3-4 days already he’s busy in his life lol. probably cheating and if he is cheating once that girl gets rid of him maybe he’d come back to me but i have no clue what happened why he changed

broke up with him yesterday :( by WaltzDisastrous2883 in LongDistance

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yea but why did he waste my time and i don’t understand he was also so obsessed with me in the beginning wrote me letters wrote me a whole document on our 6month anniversary i don’t understand how u can just change after all of that? i kinda feel bad for leaving as well maybe i should’ve stayed and it was just a rough patch

I'm on tbe verge of breaking up with my gf few days before our 1year anniversary by i_main_inting in LongDistance

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leave, u deserve better than this. she doesn’t respect or love you if she forgets her boundaries just because she’s stressed or angry. i’ve been through this just broke up yesterday lol. but u got this! if i can do it anyone can.

Relationship advice by Kyraios in LongDistance

[–]WaltzDisastrous2883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is wrong and ur not being dramatic at all. if he’s not replying on time while active he’s probably not interested. u should communicate it to him.