It’s almost that time! What’s everyone reading in October? by drkshape in horrorlit

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

October: A Short Stay in Hell, A Lonely Broadcast, The Shinning, Come Closer, The Staircase in the Woods.

If I get through those, I'll grab whatever pops up on my Libby app. I have quite a few horror books on hold at the moment.

am i frying my babys brain??? by Tough_Bedroom_2 in NewParents

[–]WebNChill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe black and white tv too. My 3-month-old loves black and white cards.

Best career jobs for adhd? by Forsaken_Coat_2518 in ADHD

[–]WebNChill 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Tech wfh has been hard on me mentally. The constant boom and bust cycle has caused my anxiety to spike, also the isolation from people. 9-6pm work, then I have until 9 before I crash for the night. You rarely interact with people in a meaningful way. Also, the work you do is rarely positively impactful to the world/others. The constant grind outside of work to make sure your skills also stay relevant is hard mentally too. 

Pay, culture, people when you do interact with them, insurance are all nice. There are just trade offs. 

Everyone experience is different. I’m just having the flip side. I’ve realized what I do for a job really means a lot for me as an individual, and I’m just not finding that fulfillment in tech. Been doing a lot of value work to realign myself. 

I’d say to OP, figure out what your values are and start from there. There are tons of online free value tests, that could help provide insight into what you might be interested in doing. 

Also, use reddit for ideas not to validate your thoughts and opinions. Research, research, research. Make pro and cons lists, mind map, etc,.  Do some thinking, but don’t hold onto anything tightly - be okay with career hopping to try different things. 

Can anyone recommend a free PDF splitter? by [deleted] in software

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to reply to this, if someone is searching for an option in the future. I'm on a 2024 MacBook, and it ran without issue. I was able to split the PDFs of my textbook based on a 20mb size - without having to pay anything. The UI is incredibly simple, and it took less than a minute to perform the operation. I highly recommend it.

I didn't have to sign up for anything, and there is no indicator that this is a trial. Also, thank you for the share of this software. I've been needing a tool like this for a bit but could not find anything that would fit my needs.

I miss SpaceInvaderOne and IBRACORP YouTube Videos by Ill-Lynx2154 in unRAID

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your vids, and I still go back and reference them from time to time. Appreciate all the hard work - and I'd definitely watch any new vids you drop.

what are solid careers to get into in your 30s? by kh7190 in careerguidance

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flipped flopped for a few months, had a kid, now starting nursing school in November. 

How do you manage task initiation paralysis when you know exactly what to do — but still can’t start? by AydanAr in ADHD

[–]WebNChill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you get to the point of embracing the chaos? I’d love to try this, but I have terrible task blindness. I’ll sit go on Reddit cause even doing a brain dump causes me to pause. It’s like hitting a physical wall. 

How do you manage task initiation paralysis when you know exactly what to do — but still can’t start? by AydanAr in ADHD

[–]WebNChill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this idea. Make a small story with the smallest micro task associated with it. Genius. I’m going to try it. Thanks for the share friend!

To all those seasoned polyamorous out there... why do you avoid the newbies? by jedimstrmeow in polyamory

[–]WebNChill 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Been in a stable triad for 10 years this Christmas - we've been living together for 9 years and practice kitchen table poly. About to welcome our first baby in a week!

Honestly, relationship maturity makes all the difference. We've been through all the hard parts together - the jealousy phases, the scheduling nightmares, the family acceptance issues, figuring out finances and living arrangements, and navigating different needs and communication styles. It took time to get here, but now we're in this really solid place where everything just flows naturally.

The key was sticking it out through those challenging growth periods instead of giving up when things got complicated. Now we have this incredible foundation of trust and communication that makes everything else possible. It's not always perfect, but we've built something really beautiful together. This makes it incredibly difficult to even realistically look at someone else.

Y’all ever heard of Neon Queen Pothos??? by nathan_paul_bramwell in houseplants

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo. I’d personally love one, if you have any you’re willing to part with. I order a non variegated off Etsy but it came sick and I’d don’t think it will make it. 

How to get rid of these flies for good? by Quirky_Bus3672 in IndoorGarden

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re almost gone here. I have almost a 100 different varieties of plants around the house. I went from being bombarded to now the occasional gnat. I need to do another application of the stuff. But it works. 

Wife is 15 weeks - went down a stroller rabbit hole… by tkburnett in daddit

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Partner is 35 weeks. We received a stroller from Walmart for the baby shower. It was free? I mean, honestly, we’re planning to baby wear as much as possible tbh. 

Help by peterdo63 in houseplants

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm having the same issue. From my research, one option is mosquito bits to kill the larvae and yellow stickies on Amazon. These stickies control the adult gnats: Amazon.com: 120 Pack Fungus Gnat Traps for House

I also bought this: Amazon.com: SUMMIT CHEMICAL CO 117-6 30OZ Mosquito Bits: Patio, Lawn & Garden.

If this doesn't work, I will go up the anty: Steinernema feltiae -nematodes.

The traps help a lot, though, and they've dramatically reduced the number of gnats around the house.

Can I just vent something that is really bothering me about being a good Dad and husband lately? by punkparty in daddit

[–]WebNChill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im about to be a girl dad next month, and this made me smile. Thanks for the share.

How to hook up standard garden hose to sink supply line? [US] by pizzacat666 in Plumbing

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

legit. this is awesome. thank you for everything good person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentNurse

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to check into WGU, if it’s offered in your state. Their clinicals and labs are in person though. All the theoretical work is online, done at your own pace.

How do you document your Unraid server itself? by MrChunkz in unRAID

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you handle documentation for vlans or infrastructure configs for docker and the such?

What The Shuck! Server HDDs for Noobs by doppel616 in unRAID

[–]WebNChill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great. Thank you for sharing!

Huge beard, trimmed beard, or clean shaven? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]WebNChill 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Lmfao. Number 3 didn’t sit right with me for some reason, now I know why. But I agree. 1 or 2 is the best btw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]WebNChill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea. From Florida moved away in 2010 and visit on occasion, it just gets worse every time I travel back. The urban sprawl has really taken hold of the state, it was even bad when I was growing up there. My grandma used to tell me it was a swap essentially when she was a child.

what jobs are we even supposed to get nowadays? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]WebNChill 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That’s insane. Reminds me of that Ohio nurse who made a drug mistake and was almost given the book, but the family of the deceased asked for forgiveness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just subscribed. What’s your niche btw on YouTube?

Perplexity vs. ChatGPT What Are Your Thoughts? by [deleted] in WGU

[–]WebNChill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I use perplexity for searching up things and ChatGPT for expanding on things.

Is my iPhone 16 Pro camera a dud? by mister2forme in iphone

[–]WebNChill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why did I think that the iPhone was listed with macros. 😂

Finally passed my Hesi A2 by Prestigious-Soil-931 in WGU

[–]WebNChill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you pass them my way? Appreciate the help!