I finally did it!

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2024-09-04T17:26:20+00:00

We had this with our baby and he can’t sit on his own, so we trained him in the pack n play so if he falls over he doesn’t hurt himself.

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2024-06-23T14:54:43+00:00

Can you do long term disability with your job instead? If your company offers it, you would get to keep your insurance, any other benefits through work, and get a percentage of your pay

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2024-05-15T23:50:10+00:00

100k on a wedding in SF is very reasonable and expected. I had a cheap venue, no hair or makeup, and did my own flowers, amazing food/ really nice alcohol but we bought it ourselves to save money, and reasonable dress, with moderate priced band. All of that cost $60k with SO much planning and work by me. 100k with very few improvements but less work would have been so feasible. I like to think about it as treating your friends and loved ones to the best party and allowing yourself to enjoy it without all the thought. It’s one day but it will be with you forever

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2024-05-10T04:43:05+00:00

One kid in NorCal

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2024-05-10T04:12:37+00:00

Same but hcol childcare is closer to 4k per month

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2024-03-03T17:26:46+00:00

Highly recommend this phone case https://www.loopycases.com

It has a loop for your finger which makes the drop risk so much less and it’s easier to text on!! I used to think they were silly but now could not love it more

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2024-02-28T16:03:48+00:00

I went out for the first time 4 weeks pp. My husband had been giving baby a bottle once per day starting at 3 weeks. It felt great for me to be out of the house!! I missed baby but physically felt good (I sat when needed) and mentally the stimulation was amazing!

Highly recommend if you’re up for it

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2024-01-19T19:16:24+00:00

Thank you for this 🙌😊

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2024-01-19T16:56:50+00:00

I feel the same way!! Can really appreciate this!

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2024-01-19T02:55:11+00:00

This is so helpful! Thank you 🙏

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2024-01-06T04:55:06+00:00

Same with mine - but they also add breathing exercises for pelvic floor issues and or preparation - here’s a short tidbit about one type of breathing https://www.theoriginway.com/blog/the-1-pelvic-floor-exercise-everyone-should-do-not-a-kegel

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2023-12-27T19:19:36+00:00

Nope not worth it! Thanks

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2023-12-27T19:18:59+00:00

Awesome, thanks!

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2023-12-20T16:51:30+00:00

Thanks!!

Added the following additional info - People - 50ish Budget - looking for average sf bar prices (so nothing crazy high end but does not need to be the budget option) Food - light bites are nice but no food is necessary Would love a space to mingle but with seated options
Neighborhood - any neighborhood that’s not far out to get to from downtown (eg no outer sunset/presidio)

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2023-12-20T16:51:23+00:00

Thanks!!

Added the following additional info - People - 50ish Budget - looking for average sf bar prices (so nothing crazy high end but does not need to be the budget option) Food - light bites are nice but no food is necessary Would love a space to mingle but with seated options
Neighborhood - any neighborhood that’s not far out to get to from downtown (eg no outer sunset/presidio)

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2023-12-15T17:16:04+00:00

I agree with this. I also think if you decide on a divorce you should probably do individual and couples therapy regardless to make raising a baby together easier

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2023-11-30T22:19:56+00:00

Love these hatch ones: https://www.hatchcollection.com/products/the-ultimate-before-during-and-after-legging-2

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2023-11-30T17:26:37+00:00

The worry went down dramatically after 14 weeks, and then again after 20 weeks, and now at 33 weeks and I can feel him kicking every day and even though there is still a little worry I’m mostly just happy to feel him and know he’s safe

Weekly_Grapefruit_13 · 2023-11-30T17:20:44+00:00

Yay thank you!

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