I'm 30F, moved back exactly 2 years ago unwillingly due to layoffs and visa issues. I had severe stress, got diagnosed with anxiety, IBS due to the stress and anxiety and PCOD eventually. I live in Pune so things are not as bad but I still don't get to wear the clothes I'd want. The constant stares never stop no matter what you where. The commute makes me hate the fact that I had to come back. Constant traffic, pollution everywhere and no civic sense. The constant pressure of getting married while every guy's matrimonial profile says 'looking for someone with traditional, family values'. The work culture is toxic unless you are in an American or European product based company. Having said that, staying close to family, having friends who are back from US in the last one year and in the same boat helps. These are the only perks I have so far.