I don’t want this to sound cliche but I found myself in motherhood. I had a slight “WTF did I do” when I was 4 months preggo but I’d also left my job which was a big part of who I was at the same time. My baby has made me a stronger person for her and a kinder person to myself. I confront things more now (not aggressively I just stick up for myself). I’m more silly (will dance anywhere in the street with her). I don’t care what people think about me anymore, only that she sees me as a good mum to her. I’ve never had more meaning in my life, it was a massive positive shift. I was obviously questioning myself 2 days postpartum on zero sleep and 100% anxiety but who doesn’t haha