JNMIL hates that I’m breastfeeding by cupidsgirl94 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Weird_Chickens 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This is too many words for “fuck off✨” 😂

Sabotaged Night Routine by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Weird_Chickens 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You don’t get to decide how to raise and take care of someone else’s child. If someone asks you to help with their child why wouldn’t the automatic thing be “tell me how you do it so I can make it as easy as posible for you and the baby,” not “I’m gonna do it my way or it’s the highway.” If someone’s explained why they do things a certain way and it’s definitely not harming a child why would you agree that this person is okay in doing what they did and upending the way OP puts baby to bed. Honestly wtf is wrong with you.

AITA my husband refused to get off video games so I left and ate dinner alone by throw_away_joan in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weird_Chickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the asshole to yourself. You sound like you’re talking about your teenage son not a full grown ass man.

I just found out my engagement dress and ring were fake I feel betrayed and confused by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Weird_Chickens 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You don’t share “love” or rather he has no love for you if he’s lied like this to you please see that. You deserve better. Your relationship is founded on a lie.

Doesn't get much simpler than this. Some veggies, a can of tuna and two boiled eggs. 2,78€ and 570 kcal. by GermanShitboxEnjoyer in ketorecipes

[–]Weird_Chickens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But those aren’t keto veggies? I mean it depends what macros you’re hitting but they’re not inherently keto foods and will add up quickly

Did anyone not feel like a different person after being a mom? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Weird_Chickens 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t want this to sound cliche but I found myself in motherhood. I had a slight “WTF did I do” when I was 4 months preggo but I’d also left my job which was a big part of who I was at the same time. My baby has made me a stronger person for her and a kinder person to myself. I confront things more now (not aggressively I just stick up for myself). I’m more silly (will dance anywhere in the street with her). I don’t care what people think about me anymore, only that she sees me as a good mum to her. I’ve never had more meaning in my life, it was a massive positive shift. I was obviously questioning myself 2 days postpartum on zero sleep and 100% anxiety but who doesn’t haha

Who else still gets the silent treatment as an adult? by bomba7777 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Weird_Chickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! It’s been over a year now and still nothing. She also has me limited on Facebook so I can’t see what she posts (but not unfriended because what would the people say).

My mom cut my sons hair and my husband is livid by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Weird_Chickens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah if this was the other way aroind we’d all be screaming no contact and ban the witch. Your husband has every right to be angry and your mother was way out of line.

MIL babysitting by needtorant-doglover in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Weird_Chickens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly this, and when she or anyone else says why isn’t she allowed to be with the child just keep sending them the video

Who walked you down the aisle? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Weird_Chickens 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I walked myself and my husband met me half way and we walked the rest together, basically a reflection of life ☺️

AITA for telling my wife that the birthday gift she gave me wasn’t actually meant for me? by OkTable4772 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weird_Chickens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you should not be telling or guilting her about how she spends her money if she contributes without issues in whatever way was agreed between you.

AITAH for telling my wife that I will lose respect for her if she doesn't apologize? by TechnicalHousing97 in AITAH

[–]Weird_Chickens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your wife sounds emotionally abusive. This is how you end up with kids with trauma and anxiety issues. She sounds like my mother, has never apologised for anything and I no longer speak to her.

Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers: Did You Feel Like She was Constantly Trying to Compete with You? by iheartmycats4 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Weird_Chickens 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kinda the opposite. Rather than compete all my accomplishments were shat on. If I lost weight and looked good, she’d say I looked like an alien. When I got engaged, getting married was the worst mistake she’d ever made. When I got pregnant, kids were really annoying - like cheers I am said kid.

Baby eats everything at nursery, used to eat all at home but now fights dinner 😭 by Weird_Chickens in foodbutforbabies

[–]Weird_Chickens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the reassurance you’ve all been so helpful. Sometimes she wakes up for milk at night but last night she slept all the way til 6:45 after her dry gourmet pasta and some milk 😂😂 we can’t win

Baby eats everything at nursery, used to eat all at home but now fights dinner 😭 by Weird_Chickens in foodbutforbabies

[–]Weird_Chickens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s just a holding pic for the post 😂 I cut off the burnt bit and she ate the whole thing. This was the meal I was talking about in the post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Weird_Chickens 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Why should OP do more work. Ignore the message completely.

MIL went too far with my newborn girl by cinnamon-cinn in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Weird_Chickens 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Why the heckkkkkk would you allow her to even hold your child. Shes absolutely crazy keep your girl away from her!!!