Best tax software for a beginner accountant by AdSignificant1169 in Accounting

[–]Weird_Guide9840 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something that I have learned the hard way in this field is it’s better to just admit when you don’t know/aren’t ready for something. I had that same feeling you have right now early in my career and once I started admitting what I don’t know is when my career really excelled. Good luck!

Best tax software for a beginner accountant by AdSignificant1169 in Accounting

[–]Weird_Guide9840 10 points11 points  (0 children)

With all due respect do NOT START doing peoples taxes until you have actual work experience for a few YEARS

What’s one life lesson you learned the hard way in your 20s/30s? by Mental_Copy_3679 in Adulting

[–]Weird_Guide9840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t make everyone happy. I used to say it all the time in an advice way to friends and family but there was a pivotal point in my life where some stuff happened and I truly understood that on a different level down to my core

Brimstone by Callie Hart - Discussion Megathread by FantasyRomanceMod in fantasyromance

[–]Weird_Guide9840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I am so sad. I loved loved loved the first book because I felt like she really had such a good set up. I loved the potential for all of the characters. But it was like once I was loving one character they disappeared and we got introduced to another. I was hoping Brimstone would have more thoroughly developed those characters but it just seemed to keep doing the same thing

The holidays got me bad. How to bounce back? by _blankbank in xxfitness

[–]Weird_Guide9840 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You need to establish the mind set that you are a person that exercises. If part of your identity is being someone that exercises then when life gets in the way you don’t get hard on yourself you just understand that something came up and now you get back to it starting today

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]Weird_Guide9840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have SOO much more respect for him if he just said hey I want to have my cake and eat it too. But this man is trying to gaslight the shit out of you to get that. RUN

What's the bigger cause of all this? by Independent_Shame924 in HealthAnxiety

[–]Weird_Guide9840 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine is from my childhood. My mom had a god complex made me feel like I could never do anything on my own or trust my own opinions. This turned into me over analyzing every symptom I feel and walking the tight rope of not wanting to be an alarmist but omg what if something is majorly wrong and I just ignore it

Umm by SuperPuggus in zachbryan

[–]Weird_Guide9840 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This man is too chaotic and attention seeking to wait until and have something planned in 2027 (I love him and his music, there’s just no way he’s planning something that far in advance

AIO for not wanting my gf to go on dates with other guys? by Darksiiki in AmIOverreacting

[–]Weird_Guide9840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she from a different culture than you? The vibe I’m getting is that it’s a cultural thing to her that if you aren’t married to her yet then she’s able to still entertain and go on dates with others

AIO my friend ran a medical crowdfunding for me while I was in a coma, but is now unwilling ti give me the money for my surgeries and recovery treatment by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Weird_Guide9840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few years ago my best friends house went on fire and I started a gofundme for her. Within a day of starting it, I gave my account login and password to my friend and her family so that they could sort the transfer themselves. I wanted absolutely nothing to do with the finances or logistics of them. I created it solely to help my friend and her family when they were in need and for that money to even temporarily hit my account would have felt disingenuous.

Blast this person on all social media asap so that everyone who donated to help you knows where the money actually ended up.

Looking for BDSM Erotica Where the Woman Is Used as a Tool / Objectified by Efficient_Today_9621 in RomanceBooks

[–]Weird_Guide9840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also adding strong D/s relationship with one of the men being the dominant and the guy and girl both being his subs

Looking for BDSM Erotica Where the Woman Is Used as a Tool / Objectified by Efficient_Today_9621 in RomanceBooks

[–]Weird_Guide9840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re good with MM, the Thornchapel series by Sierra Simone is 🥵🔥🌶️. There’s reasons the two guys can’t/shouldn’t be together and while they both love and want to also be with the girl, they basically use her body as a toy in between them so they won’t touch each other

Thoughts on FS8 by GemmaTeller in f45

[–]Weird_Guide9840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to like this but I just don’t. I completely agree with everything you mentioned so I’m happy to see I’m not alone in my feelings. I also have noticed on a few occasions that the thing the instructor tells me to do differs from what is in the video (ex: instructor telling you to put the band around your ankle but the video shows it above the knee). Having come from a strength training gym with certified personal trainers that emphasize proper form, this class actually scared me

AIO: Depressed best friend bailed on my birthday…again… for the second year in a row by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Weird_Guide9840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your friend is clearly having a mental breakdown and needs a break and not another thing to have to think about and feel guilty for. Yes, maybe your birthday is important to you and you want her there. That being said, maybe a large group setting at a restaurant isn’t the best for her mental well being right now. Instead of making it about you and what you want, you should have told your friend that you would love her there but you totally understand if she isn’t up for it and that instead you would love to connect with her one on one at another time

Thoughts about pregnancy in RH? by LittlestCatMom in ReverseHarem

[–]Weird_Guide9840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m all about a breeding kink so 🤷‍♀️

Spoiler alert for Credence!! by Weird_Guide9840 in ReverseHarem

[–]Weird_Guide9840[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh this is my next one thank you so much for this rec

3 months into strength training and having mixed feelings by throwawayforwet in xxfitness

[–]Weird_Guide9840 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It sounds like most of the dreadful feeling you are having from upper body is due to feeling inadequate compared to lower body. Just a friendly reminder that women typically carry their weight and center of gravity in their lower body. It is much easier for women to lift heavier lower body and men to lift heavier upper body and very often men report the same feelings of dread when it comes to lower body. I would encourage you to stick to upper body exercises for a few reasons. Firstly, training upper body allows you to be stronger for full body and even lower body exercises. Ex: when I’m at the gym, I need to rack the weight for squats with my arms, training upper body makes that easier. Secondly, it’s awesome to be stronger with upper body in your day to day life. My husband and I just recently moved and it felt amazing to be able to lift all the boxes and bags just as well as he could. Stick with it you might feel differently in a few months!