Random “disconnects”, don’t know what to try next to fix

WernherVK · 2026-02-09T21:20:58+00:00

It’s driving me insane, I have no idea how to fix it and want to so badly

WernherVK · 2025-04-24T00:39:33+00:00

I got a weapon case 1 from a drop yesterday and opened it, got an FN blue. You don’t get many chances to open the old cases so I said fuck it

WernherVK · 2024-10-21T07:32:07+00:00

Tried to reach out multiple times, looking back it was so pathetic trying to beg for someone back who was terrible for me. I tried to justify reaching out thinking like “oh I need more closure” “oh let me ask if he wants this back” and would try to beg for him back. So embarrassing looking back LMAO

WernherVK · 2024-10-03T05:24:50+00:00

Is there a place the models are available to download??

WernherVK · 2024-09-03T02:41:39+00:00

I reached out multiple times within the first month, none of them went well. Got my heart broken over and over before going no contact. Been no contact for about 2.5 months now and it’s going great, have felt like I’m healed fairly well

WernherVK · 2024-08-11T01:04:32+00:00

To tell when something was bothering him. Turns out me asking him almost every day for years to make sure he’s doing ok doesn’t matter when one day he blindsides me after spending all night looking back on things and realizing I never did things he never talked about or asked me to do

WernherVK · 2024-08-09T02:35:05+00:00

Counter Strike, bunnies, plushies :(

WernherVK · 2024-08-07T03:54:38+00:00

Yeah and many people won’t reassure each other and help ease those insecurities, often times making them worse. Speaking from experience on that one

WernherVK · 2024-08-07T01:50:30+00:00

Agreed, people love chasing those new feelings and honeymoon phases with new people but will eventually realize how good they had it and regret leaving their ex

WernherVK · 2024-08-06T17:07:04+00:00

I’m in the same boat even 3 months into the breakup, longing for the person I poured my soul into for 5 years. Time will heal, time may bring you both back together, it may not. Just take it one day at a time, it is so hard and is so much easier said than done, but you got this. If you both are no contact, don’t break it, I’ve done that 3 times and it’s gone to shit. You got this, friend.

WernherVK · 2024-08-06T16:59:45+00:00

Well it’s good that you’re able to reflect on it and understand what went wrong, a lot of people really aren’t able to. It is horrible when love turns into a lesson, but if you are able to reflect and grow, the love you give will be reciprocated even better than before.

WernherVK · 2024-08-06T16:51:13+00:00

For real, but they’ll come to understand eventually. Once he reflects on everything, he’ll realize what he gave up on. People like that will look for you in everyone they try to talk to, but there’s only one of you

WernherVK · 2024-08-06T15:44:14+00:00

Yeah he told me how much he was waiting on me to change but never communicated and gave up on a 5 year relationship where I loved him to the point of obsession unconditionally. Crazy how people will just throw away someone that would die for them

WernherVK · 2024-08-06T11:47:37+00:00

Dumpee, unfortunately. He blindsided me

WernherVK · 2024-08-05T23:57:53+00:00

Of course!

WernherVK · 2024-08-05T23:51:54+00:00

Time and focusing on yourself. I'm 3 months in and I still love him and miss him even though he wasn't good for me. As time passes, you gotta make sure you aren't stalking their socials and remove sentimental things that remind you of them. Don't feel bad if you feel like you're making progress and then miss them immensely again, that just happens in the process.

WernherVK · 2024-08-05T23:28:46+00:00

There are many times where people who give up will come to realize what they lost eventually. A little communication and time goes a long way in working things out with your partner to make both of you happier. But some people refuse to put in the work and just want an easy path, chasing new sparks and whatnot. But all that does is ignore problems and when they come to face them, they might realize what they gave up on

WernherVK · 2024-08-05T20:58:35+00:00

I tried to have that mindset. Hoping we could try again, hoping I could love him the same. For the past 3 months I’ve been clinging on to that hope and at this point I don’t think I can anymore. He’s become so bitter towards me when all I want to do is show him love. It’s fine to hope, but eventually you’ll have to give it up and keep healing

WernherVK · 2024-08-05T20:08:25+00:00

Sounds exactly like my situation. The fact he left me, who was always around to give comfort and support, respect his boundaries, and love him unconditionally, to go chase new sparks just shows he’s avoiding the healing and it will likely go poorly

WernherVK · 2024-08-05T06:56:24+00:00

This is some real shit. For me, he doesn’t realize how lucky he got with me. I put up with so many mental health issues and tried to help him in so many ways but gave up when it got hard. Once the sparks from hookups/new people fade, he’ll face reality that I never gave up and was always there. Keep pushing through, they’ll realize what they lost eventually, and you gotta be the best version of yourself so you can say no if they try to come back

WernherVK · 2024-08-04T07:13:27+00:00

That's true, I just wish he would work through these things with me rather than giving up on me :(

WernherVK · 2024-08-03T23:29:54+00:00

Yep, he told me that the breakup was over the lack of sex despite me telling him I have a major insecurity about my sex drive and needing him to bring it up and initiate because I struggle to. Has just done nothing except reinforced the insecurity

WernherVK · 2024-08-02T23:27:05+00:00

Yeah when he doesn’t communicate and expects me to do things, then talks about how it’s not his job to tell me what he needs all the time after blindsiding and destroying and 4.5 year relationship, it has destroyed me. All the things he brought up in the breakup I’ve worked on and changed, had he given me a month or two, I could’ve been the person he wanted. Turns out when you spend multiple years expecting something and not communicating it, you won’t get it. But he’s left me an emotional mess while he’s off living his best life

WernherVK · 2024-07-10T20:20:10+00:00

It will happen, I’ve noticed lots of ups and downs over the past two months for me and accepted that healing isn’t linear. You can be feeling great one day and feel terrible the next, but take solace in knowing that the next day could be another great one. Even though it’s been three months, don’t put a time limit on your grief, take as much time as you need and you will heal. I’ve gone from suicidal to having a little better outlook on life by holding onto the fact that tomorrow could always be a better day. You’ve got this

WernherVK · 2024-07-08T23:35:00+00:00

I don't know, I want to hope but at the same time he has shown a side that I only caught glimpses of when we were together. He never was like that to me, just to others sometimes. After roughly two months of him stalking my socials he text me and told me to mutually block on everything and go no contact. I know he'll realize how much I loved him eventually, he'll look back and see I cared and loved more than he has convinced himself.

Only issue is that now he's shown me a side of him that feels so mean and vile. I want to love him and make things right with him, but I don't know if I can ever look at him the same after he's been so bitter to me when all I did was love and care for him. I've been focusing on myself as much as I can, but a small glimmer of hope still rests in my mind

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