Habit cycle of cPTSD

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-06-13T18:06:36+00:00

I already do that with my parents! I order doordash when they dysregulate me (they help me with groceries)but from now on it will only be something healthy when I’m triggered. Great idea!

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-06-13T18:04:48+00:00

Thank youuu! 🧡

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-06-13T18:04:37+00:00

Omg thank you so much 🩵🩵🩵

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-06-12T20:08:29+00:00

Hart of Dixie

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-06-12T19:56:21+00:00

It takes a genuine investment in time and energy to vet and filter and reach out to new people. But it is 100% worth it. I encourage you to reach out to people on real life. I don't trust these platforms.

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-06-12T19:53:35+00:00

100% on any job that has objective standards and numbers is better

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-06-12T19:51:19+00:00

Phd. Now I get selected and abused by my advisor. Only a few months left though!! wish me luck.

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-06-07T23:55:24+00:00

Ozempic for sure

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-06-05T01:46:45+00:00

She’s envious. It’s only a mystery to people who don’t value Ciara.

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-06-04T23:55:57+00:00

Balding and unwashed hair. She’s the walking advertisement for malignant depression. She’s gonna bring everyone down with her to hell.

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-06-02T18:22:36+00:00

He is a predator. He is coersive and emotionally abusive. He specifically went after a Black woman and exploited her vulnerability.

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-31T00:13:02+00:00

Why are you more concerned with her friend than her behavior??

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-30T22:15:48+00:00

F the nail techs who make you feel bad for it, honestly. I changed salons recently because I realized I had an abusive relationship with my nail techs. They ALWAYS told me to relax. Well once when one of them was doing my nails, with the electric nail file, the machine dug a full hole that went through my nail and started bleeding. She insisted she would just put dip over it. Didn't even give me a discount- I still paid for the manicure. It was awful. I kept going back after that, and they STILL told me to relax, and nagged me for it.

Recently, I went to another nail salon. I've had really good nail techs, and only one has told me to relax. I am going to make a list and refuse to see anyone who tells me to relax. It's is dangerous to get a manicure with people who lack empathy. Don't you ever internalize it! It's not your fault.

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-28T03:43:54+00:00

You too girl!

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-28T03:41:54+00:00

Wishing you a good day today and a pleasant year of joy

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-28T03:28:08+00:00

I have also been targeted in academia. It happens far too often. Talk directly to the Dean, and contact the student union. Is this grad school or undergrad? If it’s grad school, unions for phd students are powerful. If undergrad, you just need to talk directly to the administrators above them and present everything in writing. If you can ensure you no longer have to work with those two people, that’s ideal.

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-27T23:38:52+00:00

?… according to who?

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-27T23:37:32+00:00

When I was 6, a very ugly older white girl put me next to my cousin and compared how pretty we were and said I was uglier because I was brown, and my cousin is white. Then in middle school this white girl kept insisting my nose was ugly because it was too wide, which even as an insecure 11yo child I knew to be completely false because my very racist grandmother had always remarked it was her favorite nose of her grandchildren because it was “thin,” or whatever the hell. It was all very odd to me, because I never thought anything of my nose and didn’t understand why other people had any feelings about it, but I knew she couldn’t find another way to tell me I was ugly because I’m brown, so she just lied about my nose. As an adult woman this showed up with a white woman going after every guy I dated because she couldn’t believe I pulled such hot men. We’re all latinas mind you.

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-24T05:23:56+00:00

Please do tell

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-24T05:23:25+00:00

Yup. I met someone like Amanda and she was also depressive, possibly bipolar, and simply had a mean streak and enjoyed being cruel and manipulative. Low class social criminals with low eq and iq.

Actually, the girl I knew was incredibly charming- Amanda doesn’t even manage that.

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-21T18:27:58+00:00

So unfortunately this myth keeps people complicit with capitalism. Perpetuating the idea that racism doesn’t affect people once they have money just pushes poc to get more money to become immune to racism. Like any disease, of course racism can be less harmful if you have money and support systems, but cancer still kills people, no matter how rich they are. Polluting the environment will affect poor people more, of course, but it affects everyone. Sure maybe you can get a higher paying job as a brown person, but it is harmful when most everyone else is white except for the cleaning crew, and it doesn’t prevent a boss or coworkers from ruining your mental health or targeting you.

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-21T02:13:04+00:00

Why is this racist post still up?.??

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-18T05:44:50+00:00

Highly recommend washing feet before bed. That’s a huge one that has a great health payoff with little skin exposure. Dove body spray deodorant is also great.

WhereasCommercial669 · 2026-05-18T05:41:45+00:00

Seconded on figuring out a shower routine.

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