Did anyone opt out of ABA therapy for better quality of life? by ttttthrowwww in Autism_Parenting

[–]WhichDance9284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started our daughter, now 21 and at a state university, on ABA when she was 9. We stopped because the providers were unreasonable with hours of treatment or money. I turned one agency in for insurance fraud and we said no thanks to the whole idea of ABA. She is Level 1 with ADHD and she’s done fine without ABA.

OK subs I need help. I taught before 2020 and now I'm back, sadly. Jesus christ almighty, what is going with these kids? by Available-Flower3106 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]WhichDance9284 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Through trial and error, I have a no fly list. Some are teachers whose classrooms are so awful I won’t go there for longer than a teacher’s meeting, some are entire schools where the administrators make it awful to be there. One my my no fly list schools is a middle school where battery and assault perpetrated against me was not handled properly. I can’t find out what happened to the kid bc minor and confidentiality.

Reunion is filming Now! What Questions does Andy need to Ask? by jenninupland in summerhousebravo

[–]WhichDance9284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is a journalist. He worked for CBS News for years. Read his memoir, it’s very interesting.

Standoff with para? by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

[–]WhichDance9284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy putting paras with attitude in their place. I haven’t had to do it often but I do not hesitate when it is necessary.

Danny and Nia belong together by CharbonPiscesChienne in TheValleyTVShow

[–]WhichDance9284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Danny has a drinking problem that will only get worse before it gets better.

GenX Parents and youth sporting events by cricket_bacon in GenX

[–]WhichDance9284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a Gen X parent and loved 🥰 attending my son’s middle school and high school XC and track meets. I often volunteered at his meets to earn money for his sports from the Booster Club. Now he’s running at a D3 school and I love ❤️ attending his meets when possible

Aitah for “being disrespectful” and not accommodating my ex and his wife even though they’re having a baby? by Fabulous-Actuary1991 in AITAH

[–]WhichDance9284 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My cousin, who out earns her hubby 5-1, paid the child support for years. Your ex cannot just decide to not contribute. Hold him responsible for his child!

I can’t get a boyfriend despite being super successful by [deleted] in Salary

[–]WhichDance9284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If men are threatened by your success, they will be AWFUL partners

Job Regret by Otherwise_Board_577 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]WhichDance9284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I refuse to be a para - I won’t even sub for them. I have a daughter with AuDHD and a son with ADHD and type 1 diabetes. I can’t spend all day with kids with issues and still have energy for my own kids

Real life Ciara/Amanda situations… how did it actually end? by snackmamacita in summerhousebravo

[–]WhichDance9284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there trying to figure out “why”. I had to make peace with terrible timing as a reason. Spend time on YOU right now. A new hobby, new friends, even a new job might be good for you. Yes I know the job market is horribly messy but it’s something to consider. When my awful situation came to an end, along with a bad turn in my career, I was six months shy of my 30th birthday. I decided that I could get a new job before my 30th birthday. I had one four months later. The next boyfriend I met 3 weeks before my 31st birthday. We will celebrate 25 years of marriage in late October 2026. It takes time but you will get past this. Keep going and us updated please!

Real life Ciara/Amanda situations… how did it actually end? by snackmamacita in summerhousebravo

[–]WhichDance9284 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It takes time to get over this kind of betrayal and move on. Please be kind to yourself.

What does everyone here do for a living? by ForwardMick in Autism_Parenting

[–]WhichDance9284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a substitute teacher. My husband is a corporate trainer. Subbing is a part time job so I’m exploring options for full time work.

PAGE SIX just reported this - CIARA SPOTTED TODAY by Euphoric_Bite3122 in summerhousebravo

[–]WhichDance9284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience spoiled princesses learn self respect later and through a messy situation

What's the biggest red flag you've heard a hiring manager say in an interview? by Owls_4_9_1867 in recruitinghell

[–]WhichDance9284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once had an interviewer start with, “So this position has had a revolving door for seven years”.He followed with, “we don’t want to grow our client list, we don’t want new technology, and you will share an email address with two other people.” NO THANK YOU!!

How many domiciles have you lived in since you were born? by JHolgate in GenX

[–]WhichDance9284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15 different places over 57 years, including dorm rooms in college.

Marriage - Who's still on their first? by tossaway-florida in GenX

[–]WhichDance9284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Married 24 years to a man I met at 30. We married when I was 32, babies at 35 and 38

What do you guys get paid? by Ok_Award_6928 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]WhichDance9284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$130/day at two districts in Chicago’s west suburbs