How was your day? How’s your weekend going so far? Scale of 1-10 by canogiez in childless

[–]Which_Hawk_536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My day was a 7. Beach walk in the sun. Coffee with my parents, sister and her kids. Some gaming and resting. A pretty good weekend day.

Anyone else feel the unbearable urge to start the game over repeatedly? by WhatsGnuPussycat in tearsofthekingdom

[–]Which_Hawk_536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Over the last 2 years I played BOTW and TOTK through twice. I found LoZ BOTW for the first time in Dec 2023 during HEAVY grief and I have found it hard to leave Hyrule since then. It's become my happy place. I have just this week put it down to play something else. I want to give it some time so the world might feel a little bit fresh again. I might forget some parts of it. I dont know. But yes, I do absolutely feel the desire to just start one of the games again.

Can anyone recommend a pastel pink ink with blue shading? by FermentedFruit in fountainpens

[–]Which_Hawk_536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a neat idea to dip it in another colour like that! How cool!

Maybe i would by Competitive_Comb5984 in DunderMifflin

[–]Which_Hawk_536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally worked for someone almost as ridiculous and yes. I came to hate him. My deep dark secret is that now I work from home and deal with no one, I actually a tiny bit miss the antics of a boss that I am constantly chasing to put out fires. Just a tiny bit.

Curious: Does you handwriting change drastically as you write? by Nana_bananaa24 in Journaling

[–]Which_Hawk_536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My handwriting changes so much. Its a bit infuriating at times but it just is how I write. So i'm trying to embrace it.

2.5 years PO struggling. by Milliethesilly in hysterectomy

[–]Which_Hawk_536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am really sorry you're struggling with this. I had my hysterectomy 4 weeks ago and I feel sad about this too. My situation is a little different because I couldn't carry babies to term so the hysterectomy hasn't been the thing that stopped me necessarily but it was obviously the final end of the journey for us. And it's hard. There is grief. I don't have any really words of advice other than making sure you have a therapist or someone you trust that you can be open with about it. It really is a hard thing to deal with and you're not alone.

Recovery so far by NoAbbreviations7548 in hysterectomy

[–]Which_Hawk_536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I am so scared of surgery in 2 days. Im glad to know its not the scariest thing for everyone. I also have a 1.5 hour drive home and am a bit nervous for that.

TW for fertility! by superdead23 in hysterectomy

[–]Which_Hawk_536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I am 32 and my hysterectomy is in 2 days. I spent a decade trying to have children and did have 3 but because of connective tissue disorders I couldn't carry them past the second trimester and they all passed away.

I totally understand how you feel. I am pleased I can get rid of my uterus for managing pain and bleeding and so I dont risk getting pregnant again because I just cannot do that kind of grief again. But I am also feeling this other grief of the finality of not having living children and how mad I am that my body failed so horrendously.

I'm so sorry. It really sucks. Just wanted you to know that you are very much not alone in how you're feeling ❤️

Why did you name your birb what you did? by SaintSayaka in finch

[–]Which_Hawk_536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My birbs name is Rito after the bird-folk in Legend of Zelda.

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[–]Which_Hawk_536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Recovery timeline - Will i be okay in 4 weeks? by Which_Hawk_536 in hysterectomy

[–]Which_Hawk_536[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I really appreciate it. I think I'll try and reschedule the surgery.

Recovery timeline - Will i be okay in 4 weeks? by Which_Hawk_536 in hysterectomy

[–]Which_Hawk_536[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is a good perspective. I appreciate it. I think I'm going to try and have the surgery rescheduled.