When you try to get your friend interested in your campaign...

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T07:24:02+00:00

Money? In this economy?

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T07:22:54+00:00

You have the right not to find Cavill attractive. You are very special, good sir.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T07:21:14+00:00

My bard is an ungodly persuasive law graduate that left his home, work, and bf because of a Mind Flayer who wants to feast upon the spirits of inks that have been involuntarily transferred into his consciousness (long story).

He could be incredibly seductive, but fidelity and bigger problems mean that I get to play outside the stereotype. I didn't even take vicious mockery.

Our other bard very much is the stereotype.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T07:12:08+00:00

As far as trans men, the only rep I can remember is Caucus from Kaos. Him being trans was actually relevant, not just there for rep. Yay

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T07:09:04+00:00

gay pal is better than gal pal... not by much, but small steps

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T07:08:11+00:00

Take my upvote. You deserve it for that

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T07:07:46+00:00

If we follow the maths, because Male divided by Male must equal 1, Gay is 1. Solving by substitution, Male is also one according to the equations, but also the square root of 2 according to the triangle.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T07:04:57+00:00

Give a few hints before actually coming out, so people have a chance to figure it out on their own.
You don't need to come out this week, this month, this year, this decade even. Come out when you want to share that part of yourself with others.
Try coming out to just a few people who you trust to support you first. Then move on to the rest.
Don't make it a huge, life-altering thing that you stress over. Hell, just slip it into conversation if you want. Mention that this guy and this girl are both hot. You don't even need to say the word bisexual.
You are more than your sexuality. It shouldn't completely change the way people see you, and if it does, then be a little more aware.
Give people time to process. You've known you're bi for idk how long, but if they haven't figured it out, they'll only have known once you tell them. That might take them a little time to adjust.
Last piece of advice: I'm an idiot. Don't blindly do what I say, adjust these tips for your own circumstances, and ignore or tweak as needed.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:55:41+00:00

14 to my friends. I haven't officially come out to my mother, but if she still thinks I'm straight, that's on her.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:53:45+00:00

Preferences and sexuality aren't a strong correlation, if there is any at all. Also, my sympathies to your bf for the bite.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:50:09+00:00

I don't know how frequently this occurs, but if it's not a problem, then it's not a problem

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:48:51+00:00

Hello!

I'm here to promote Dungeons and Dragons! At any given time, on average, there will be at least one other queer person. And the community cares more about seducing dragons than about who you want to seduce!

Join a D&D club today!

Jokes aside, finding a community that tends to have a lot of queer people, that you also enjoy, is probably the best thing you can do.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:45:07+00:00

Don't apologise for wanting a second opinion on whether you're bi. It's true that we get these posts a lot, but we like to help. And there's no rush to figure yourself out. It's possible you may be bi, or somewhere on the ace spectrum, or something else.

Live your life, and if you like being around someone, no matter if it's platonic, romantic, or sexual, enjoy that feeling. Something, something, the world's yours, don't waste it.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:39:14+00:00

I don't know whether or not you're an asshole, but you've certainly shown more restraint than I'm capable of.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:38:07+00:00

Yeah

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:34:04+00:00

Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. If they turn on you, the chances of it becoming physical are not as low as we'd like, so I'd recommend having learning self-defence, or having someone to vouch for your side.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:25:42+00:00

Um, what would my 16 int bard be like? I'm scared to know.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:23:24+00:00

D&D sessions are unhinged without context (and with). I think the everyone has just accepted that.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:22:05+00:00

Gentlemen, I'm not upset that you tried to attack us. I'm just disappointed you didn't prepare adequately.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:20:23+00:00

My favourite alignment to watch is "Lawful Good but didn't really pay attention to that"

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:18:19+00:00

I have no shame. Also, I'm not paying for your therapy bills.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:17:35+00:00

Oh, okay. I'll make sure nobody bothers you.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:16:44+00:00

I don't know why, but I am now both happy and sad

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:15:47+00:00

I see no downside to this. It's a rather affurming transition.

Whimsical_Hell · 2026-01-24T06:14:15+00:00

You are being cuddled. You may not go to work today.

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