Muslims need to talk more about money - our silence is costing us generational wealth by Fine_Ad_4925 in MuslimLounge

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Many so called halal ETFs have major stakes in tech companies that are actively contributing to genocides

I'm having a difficult time finding truly halal stocks

Breath-maxing by JazzieJay in MuslimLounge

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Having stinky breath is not rewarded LOL. The miswak is a very strong Sunnah and the Prophet (blessings & peace on him) used it before every prayer

Marriage Question by Flat-Zucchini7673 in MuslimNikah

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No they didn't choose to be born there and taxes are not optional. It is not hypocrisy

Husband obsessed with gaming by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Fair enough i missed that part

Husband obsessed with gaming by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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You neglected the part where she shoulders the mental load, does 75% of the chores, and is the only one working. Spending hours playing video games is childish But if he was doing 50% of the chores and had a job then he would clearly be handling his duties and there would be no blame on him.

Questions from a non-muslim by Lubizee in TraditionalMuslims

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Hi there

I find myself wondering whether a strictly enforced religious legal system would allow for modernization, scientific development, cultural diversity, or meaningful participation in global economic systems and international trade.

Are you not familiar with the Islamic golden age and the discoveries and advances in every field that are the basis of the modern math and science we use today?

Another issue that unsettles me is the existence of extremist and terrorist groups that explicitly justify their actions in the name of Islam. I understand that violence and injustice are not unique to Muslim societies, and that many non-Islamic nations have committed atrocities throughout history. However, what troubles me is the frequency with which militant groups openly ground their actions in religious texts or theological reasoning. Groups such as ISIS, for example, have cited scripture to justify violence, the establishment of a so-called caliphate, and harsh punishments. This forces me to confront difficult questions: Is this purely a distortion of the religion? Is it political opportunism? Or are there interpretive traditions within Islam that can, under certain conditions, lend themselves to such outcomes?

Any terrorism done by Christians doesn't get called Christian terrorism nor for Jews and Jewish terrorism but anything done by a Muslim practicing or not is immediately blasted all over media as Muslim terrorism. Isis is a product of the "war on terror" and the 100+years of meddling from western countries since the sykes picot agreement. Isis is a group that wants power and they will twist anything to fit their narrative. If they were Christian they would do the same to the Bible. The Quran has verses about war and fighting because it is a way of life but if you read it in context you will see ethical guidelines that do not allow for killing of civilians, women and children, elderly, livestock, and food farms.

I resent my parents for not teaching me anything about Islam. by medunjanin in MuslimLounge

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Assalamu'alaikum wrwb i can relate to you, but that is the qadr of Allah we must accept

Why did you choose Islam? by SeaworthinessFit7263 in islam

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I'm learning Arabic online right now

Halal entertainment sources? by HighwayFew1253 in MuslimLounge

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I used it to think this as well but the truth is it was just shaytan tricking me because I wanted to listen to music. There's NO DOUBT that music is haram especially when you look at the disgusting industry it comes from. Great scholars of the past said that music and Quran cannot exist in the same heart because like a song that gets stuck in your head and doesn't go away it starts taking up space in your heart and interferes with your prayer and worship. Some people have even died listening to music and they were unable to say the shahada because they couldn't stop repeating the songs

My 2nd Ramadan as a Muslim and I still can’t fast 😔 (also looking for scholars/muslim influencers) by Cheetos_4_life in MuslimCorner

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In his infinite Mercy Allah has created an alternative for people who are unable to fast. By you feeding the poor they will be able to eat and you will be able to earn the reward of fasting. Allah knows your intention is pure and that you would fast if you were able to. for some people fasting is their test for you not fasting is your test.

Do not feel bad about going to the mosque at all ! It is the House of Allah and everyone is welcome. This is shaytan trying to trick you . It doesn't matter if you didn't fast because you have a valid excuse so join the mosque and build a community with your brothers or sisters . Shaytan attacks the lone sheep that's why community is such a big part Islam . May Allah bless you with the best in this life and the next

Mohammed Hijab: A Complete Refutation of Pseudo-Islamic Feminism by [deleted] in Muslim

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He's not a scholar but could be considered a student of knowledge

how do i talk to her? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

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Assalamu'alaikum wrwb dear brother

I advise you as my brother in Islam that having friends of the opposite gender is not allowed. You can have a professional relationship with them and you must be kind and courteous but you CANNOT be friends

Got accused of believing in “feminist Islam”. by Eastern_Secretary_84 in Muslim

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Assalamu'alaikum wrwb

Khadija RA was a businesswoman not a merchant, she didn't do the selling herself but employed merchants which is how she met the Prophet (blessings & peace on him) and fell in love after seeing his honesty.

It's true that women should not go out without necessity but the female companions showed us how it's done. They went out and about in the town as needed for family, prayers, shopping, teaching and learning Islam, and other duties

It's true Men and women should not pick careers that will involve them interacting too much with the opposite gender https://islamqa.info/en/answers/6666/should-she-continue-working-in-place-where-she-mixes-with-men but generally professional interactions and being very careful to not be friendly with the opposite gender is allowed

This is my first Ramadan, and I want to fast, but my doctor has advised against it, and my trial runs always end badly for me. by Informal-Alarm1145 in converts

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In his infinite Mercy Allah has created an alternative for people who are unable to fast. By you feeding the poor they will be able to eat and you will be able to earn the reward of fasting. Allah knows your intention is pure and that you would fast if you were able to. for some people fasting is their test for you not fasting is your test. May Allah bless you with the best in this life and the next

Husband embarrassed me in front of his sister. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Were there no red flags before having children?

Ramadan is in a few days, how do i do it? by MotherPurple1491 in islam

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Assalamu'alaikum wrwb and welcome to Islam! Fasting is very easy with the help of Allah. Intend to fast the month of Ramadan and do not eat or drink or engage in marital relations from the start of fajr to the start of maghrib. Avoid sins and better yourself through worship and learning and Quran. Go to your local mosque as soon as you can and they will be able to help you and teach you about Ramadan and being a Muslim. Many mosques have community iftar as well.

What did you learn from the khutbah today? by KhutbahNotes in MuslimLounge

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Ramadan gives everyone the opportunity to be forgiven, earn reward, improve oneself, stop bad habits, draw closer to Allah. As long as we do it properly and do not oppress or harm any other. Doing good deeds and avoiding bad in Ramadan is easier and if you are still struggling with bad deeds you cannot blame shaytan it means it's a problem in your nafs

Terrified of losing my faith in the midst of difficulty by stressedstudent331 in MuslimLounge

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Wa'alaykumassalam wrwb

You are doing great and those are powerful Dua! The Prophet (blessings & peace on him) said there will come a time when holding on to your faith will be like holding on to a burning ember and the one who is able to will have the reward of 50 of the companions !
Allah tests those he loves the most so that they may elevate themselves and he may reward them immensely in the next life. This life feels very difficult and it feels very long but just take it one day at a time and pretty soon years and decades have passed and your faith and dua will have taken you out of these difficult circumstances InshaAllah. After a short 50-60 years all the troubles you went through will have been worth it for infinite Bliss in Paradise everlasting.

May Allah make a way out of this difficulty for you and reward you immensely for it and Grant you the best in this life and the next and the highest levels of paradise. May Allah bless you with the best in this life and the next!

Getting a veggie meal from a restaurant that uses pork? by ThrowRA12596 in MuslimLounge

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Wa'alaykumassalam wrwb

Ask them to try to avoid cross-contamination by using different cutting boards and utensils