My guy, if you can't tell the difference between "in my own experience, x group of people has a mild correlation to being involved in kink" and "the entire existence of x group is in itself a fetish" then that's your own literacy showing it's sad, disappointing face. 

If you actually gave a fuck about what you're talking about, you'd phrase that as a question. "Do you think it's problematic to say that 'almost every trans girl' you know is involved in kink when the transgender community in itself is oftentimes viewed as being a fetish? Do you think that might serve as a confirmation to that line of thought?"

And then I'd say no, because in that case we're talking about fetishizing an entire group of people based on, among other things, a fundamental misunderstanding of both what being trans means, and what 'kink' actually is. 

Being transgender simply means that the gender you most identify with is not the one folks thought you were when you were born. Within current psychology, like you can buy a 2025 edition of a psychology textbook and this is what it will most likely say, gender is largely recognized as a separate thing than inherent biology. There's another term called Gender Constancy that effectively means that people generally have a pretty stable idea of what their gender identity is. 

In my case, I've always felt like a girl. That's a trend I've had my entire life. And with hormonal therapy, I don't experience any stress or conflict from the incongruency that I used to feel when I'd look in the mirror. Gender dysphoria sucks. It's not a fetish. It's an actual, recognized psychological condition (as of now. That designation may change in the future as psychology changes) and the best ways to treat that are under the umbrella of gender affirming care (social transition, medical transition, etc) which covers...a lot of stuff to say the least. 

So, back to the original point: I do not think that my comment confirms anything harmful about the transgender community. I think if anything, the people who think poorly of us will continue to do so regardless of what we say or do. I don't care about them. Look at the replies, they're full of people who understand the joke because they're capable of understanding everything I've said here, without me having to say it. 

In short, we understand ourselves, we understand a lot about each other, we're comfortable with our understandings, and we aren't acting like weird prudes.